Bullies at school keep bothering me even though they moved me to another school? What made them obsess over me?

[Anonymous]

In my old school I was teased so I had to switch to what I am now to avoid being teased and it worked, but there is a problem.
The boys from the other school know where I live and they seem sick to me because they became obsessed with me and sometimes they pass by my house and shout the nickname they used to call me loud, or they pass by making a lot of noise or they even threw a stone, in one they threw one on the door but it was small, they did it just to annoy me, I clarify that they did not break anything.

I told my parents about this but since they weren't in the house so they didn't believe me and called me a liar, I think I shouldn't call the police because they might not believe me either as this has happened only twice and I have no proof

[SteveSmith1985]

Oh my god man... this is heartbreaking. I don't understand why your parents don't believe you!!! That sounds crazy to me, especially if you've already switched schools. How can your parents not know that you've had trouble with bullies.

Sorry, it blows my mind that your parents don't believe you. That is really awful, and makes it so much more of a lonely battle. I would hope they'll believe you once they can't deny it (it's obviously going to keep happening).

Honestly man, it might be getting close to "a police issue" if these guys forced you to switch schools, and are now threatening and harassing you at your house. Particularly if your parents aren't helping.

What you need to do is: Make an appointment with the guidance counselor at your new school (I realize the bullies go to a different school). Tell the guidance counselor your history with these guys, the switching schools, and finally the situation you're currently dealing with.

The guidance counselor should be well-equipped to help you determine what next-steps make sense. Also if it DOES end up needing police attention, you are much better to seek it with a guidance counselor standing with you, than you are calling the police yourself. The cops will just be more professional and thorough if you call them through your guidance counselor.

There may very-well be (and I hope there are) steps that can both free you from being bullied, while also not landing some young person in handcuffs. I'm trusting to the guidance counselor to know what some of those steps might be.

Dude, I am really sorry to hear that you've had such a rough time. Nobody should have to live their life with people making life miserable. Do whatever you need to do to stop this from happening. But do push it (with the guidance counselor) as far as you have to to get this to stop. You shouldn't have to live like that.

I really hope things work out for you. Please DO make an appointment with your guidance counselor (or a teacher if there's a particular teacher who you like and would rather talk to over the guidance counselor.)

[Fuentes]

You have a phone right record it? And if i were you and the bullies came to your house i would push a hard line and serve whoever comes, because for one they came to your property and if they attacked you and you lose its a win win, cause now you have proof they assualted you or you can serve them and if they say your the aggressor you can say. They came to my house and attacked me and it was self defense & they'd get introuble. The only way to make wanna be bullies to go away is fight back. Or catch them by themselves nobody is ever as hard when they one deep. Because as a minor you can get away with it and as an adult you'll get introuble.