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Do you "embrace" or "fear" getting older? (Page 2)

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  • Retiever
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    Xper 4 Age: 58
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    I think age is mostly just a number, but with extra pains you didn’t have.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Lol right! Although I got my extra pains early

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  • Somegirl678
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    Xper 6 Age: 23
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    i embrace it because i have other things about my looks that i like so it doesn't bother me much

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  • Joshua0213
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    Embrace cause of how far I've came already from when I was younger

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Good Outlook👍

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  • Slim57
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    I fear it because I know people in my life won't be around forever

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Yes it's hard to lose the ones we love

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  • Pharez
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    Xper 2 Age: 43
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    I love it, it's an achievement, not everyone gets it

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Very true

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  • SlightlyEccentric
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    You shouldn't worry about what you can't change. Regret is also ultimately useless. Just be thankful for what you have in the now.

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  • Adam1978
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    I have accepted it, I neither fear or embrace it. Like everyone I would prefer to stop aging.

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  • TsAubreyKate
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    I can’t wait to get old because people think idgaf now they ain’t seen nun yet😈🤩😂

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Lolol

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  • Tstrbrainer
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    Reminded me of "mirrors" song.

    As for getting old, I'm not very fond of it

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      You'll just be an older, wiser you

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    • Tstrbrainer
      Tstrbrainer
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      We already have an @ olderandwiser here.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Lololol

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  • Tim-loves-it
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    I have gerontophobia, which is the fear of old people.

    What happens when I get older?

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      You'll be afraid of yourself🤷😂

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    • Tim-loves-it
      Tim-loves-it
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      Ya thats what Im afraid of.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Lolol

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  • AndrewMG
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    616 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Awwwww, just embrace being a legend that's all that counts Xxxx

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  • Tomsta
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    654 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Fear, because i have missed out on a lot in life already through wallowing in self pitty and not really having a fulfilling childhood

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  • J3LueMooN
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
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    Getting old is a beautiful thing, but of course, it is necessary to be healthy. The Japanese invented a vaccine that stops old age. Of course, this has not been tested on humans yet.

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  • BobbyC65
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    Getting older is a part of life I just deal with it.

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  • Sarahdelacruz
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    Xper 5 Age: 30 , mho 32%
    +1 y

    Yes I really try. I’m so scared to be turning 26 soon. It makes me so nervous. I feel like I’m getting old & haven’t accomplished anything I want in life.

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  • likinron
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    I have tried not to I have been exploring nudism voyerisum porn escorts
    I had been looking for a answer to my delima outside of the house
    But I find my answer in my warm bed
    but I am lucky I have someone

    I do embrace getting older now
    changed a lot of my behavior
    but not some I still love women
    but I am calm now

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  • jamesgoldman
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    Embrace, other than my actual age I'm already old, my joints are shot, my backs gone, I do most things in cash, I drink Scotch (I also don't mind a drop of port), I smoke cigars, love my yellow gold, love golf and go antiquing

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      The cigars aren't doing you any favors, my friend. But I'm not trying to give you grief. As long as you're well-informed of the risks.

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    • jamesgoldman
      jamesgoldman
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      They're enjoyable, I'll stop if I get low stage cancer but with late stages I have a blowup bucket list of stock to smoke

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    • Jamie05rhs
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      @jamesgoldman Getting cancer is too late.

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  • Anonymous
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    No because: I'm so scared of death, my biggest fear. I'm so scared I'll go to hell and that death will be painful.
    But if you're talking about looks then no, I'm already ugly so I have nothing to lose lol.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Beaut true beauty is inner beauty

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  • crmoore
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    I wouldn't day I embrace it, but I don't look forward to it.

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  • Lovesims3plumbob
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    I don't fear of getting old but one that i don't like if a person is judged about my baby and think that underage of 14 . being bait for very old men. also i pettie body. my butt is bigest then my top half is smaller.

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  • DaveToo
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    I'm 76, my mom will be 105 on the 22nd of this month. I was sad when several of my classmates dies through the years. The men in my family usually have died fairly young. My wife died when she was 44. Getting old ain't for the feint of heart.

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  • dolemite89
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    Yoda Age: 37
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    embrace, i don’t feel like i’ve missed out on anything in my younger years and i’m aging gracefully for the most part.

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    • sage2021
      sage2021
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      You are still a baby! LOL 😂

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    • sage2021
      sage2021
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      @dolemire89 you are still a baby! LOL 😂

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    • sage2021
      sage2021
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      @dolemite89 please read my reply to you

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  • Ms_Vanderquack
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    Guru Age: 30 , mho 40%
    +1 y

    I don’t get older, I just get better.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      There you go! Lol

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  • NathanDavis m
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    Master Age: 35 , mho 33%
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    as long as I'm healthy... that's my priority

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      There you go!!

      Reply
  • anylolone
    anylolone Follow
    Guru Age: 46
    +1 y
    301 opinions shared on Other topic.

    How can I fear what already came? I dislike it, but, well, nature.

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  • BillyBalls
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    Xper 7 Age: 25
    +1 y

    The only problem with getting older is than that death is that much closer.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Fear and I hate it. Tired of getting called ma’am, I’m attractive but aging.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      Ma'am doesn't mean old, well used to not.. ma'am was a sign of respect

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  • AmandaYVR
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    Master Age: 53 , mho 69%
    +1 y
    1.4K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Neither. I sigh and shrug.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      Lololol

      Reply
  • nandana_n
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    Xper 4 Age: 21
    +1 y

    I'm 17 now but I do have a fear of being extremely weak and not being able to do things on my own. I don't know why is that normal?

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  • TrueConfection
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    +1 y
    1.1K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I fear looking older.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      You can still look good when you're older

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    • TrueConfection
      TrueConfection
      +1 y

      Some people can, but I'm not one of them.

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    • Cubus
      Cubus
      +1 y

      Don't worry :) I believe you would age like a good wine.

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    • TrueConfection
      TrueConfection
      +1 y

      @Cubus Thanks

      Reply
  • Diodoro
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    Xper 7 Age: 36 , mho 37%
    +1 y

    I look forward to 40 I don't look forward to 60. Tho I welcome it

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  • sheikalana
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    Master Age: 37
    +1 y

    A little bit of both honestly.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Understandable

      Reply
  • Kingofkings1992
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    Guru Age: 33
    +1 y
    893 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Neither to be honest. It is what it is, there’s nothing you can do about it.

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  • AviatorTom
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    Master Age: 59
    +1 y
    4.1K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I'm already older. Must embrace it because I'm not getting any younger.

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  • fonduegirl
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    Guru Age: 25
    +1 y
    808 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I don't fear death or wrinkles, i fear my life becoming more handful

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  • douride2
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    I'm not ready to embrace nor fear getting old yet.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      You're still young😊🤗

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    • douride2
      douride2
      +1 y

      Yes we are aren't we.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      I said you not me lolol I'm about to hit 50 come July

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    • douride2
      douride2
      +1 y

      Only 5 years. That isn't much.

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    • Guido
      Guido
      +1 y

      Your both spring chickens. I think of being in my pri e as a sliding scale. As I age, my prime age slides at the same pace. When I'm 80, I will still think I'm young and in my prime. Only after I'm dead and gone will I actually feel old. Others may think I'm old but i don't feel it.
      My problem when I'm talking to beautiful younger women is they see me like a Dad or Grandpa and I'm like, want to go to the bar and dance up a storm and i can party all night when in the mood.
      The mind is young but occasionally the body has trouble keeping up.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      @Guido I hear that lol

      Reply
  • Luopio27
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    Guru Age: 41
    +1 y

    Every birthday is one year closer...
    Every valentines day is one year closer to a date with grim reaper.

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  • imfreeze95
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    Explorer Age: 31
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    I fear getting older and having nothing to show for it. I don’t fear getting older just the idea of wasted time on earth

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  • Dsg1193
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    +1 y

    It fills me with dread

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      Aging is a part of life and beats the alternative

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  • Wise4myage
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    Master Age: 24
    +1 y
    6.4K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I'll worry about that when I am older.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      You got plenty of time lol

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    • Wise4myage
      Wise4myage
      +1 y

      I hope so!😊

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  • Shark_61695
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    +1 y
    441 opinions shared on Other topic.

    One day my body might catch up with my mind, I've been old for many years now :)

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  • Kelly6
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    +1 y
    1.7K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Fear
    my body is rank with it

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      Getting old doesn't have to be a bad thing.. So many don't get the chance to live to get old... Cherish every moment or wrinkle😂

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    • Kelly6
      Kelly6
      +1 y

      True

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  • EnglishEuropean
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    +1 y

    Embrace it. The older you get the closer you are to God. And the more likely you are to believe in Him.

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  • najekim
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    Neither. I just accept it.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      👍👍

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  • Jintendo18
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    Well, I mean the alternative isn’t exactly ideal for anyone, now, is it?

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  • dudeinohio
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    Master Age: 61
    +1 y
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    Being my age, I just have to deal. with it. J
    Neither embrace nor fear.

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  • LegendaryIcon
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    Yoda Age: 37
    +1 y

    i don't want to get older

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Beats the alternative

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  • scooogy
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    Master Age: 34
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    I fear getting older whenever I see old people crowding in hospital.

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  • MJtheCoach
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    Xper 6 Age: 104
    +1 y

    I’m a guy we don’t care as much, I’m 40 and I’m okay, I can push for a 32 year old

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  • Ninani
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    Yoda Age: 31 , mho 35%
    +1 y

    A bit of both.

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      Understandable

      Reply
    • v_shape_underwear
      v_shape_underwear
      +1 y

      This is the most balanced opinion. Truly, bit of both.
      Must be an MHO.

      Reply
  • krin_m
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    Guru Age: 63
    +1 y
    628 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I don't mind getting older. It is quite OK!

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      Right! Like with anything, it's what you make it

      Reply
  • justadude5610
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    Xper 1 Age: 24
    +1 y

    I love growing up and getting older

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      That's good!

      Reply
  • Massageman
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    Master Age: 74
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    3.4K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Somewhere in between, I'd say.

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  • jimmy2
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    Master Age: 66
    +1 y
    2.8K opinions shared on Other topic.

    Ohhh my wife died at 54

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
      +1 y

      Sorry to hear that🙏

      Reply
    • jimmy2
      jimmy2
      +1 y

      Sorry to hear your

      Reply
  • TheSpaceGnome
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    1.8K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I fear it enough to prevent/reverse "aging".

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  • jahaims
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    Master Age: 34
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    2.9K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I accept getting older

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  • eagle1951
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    Master Age: 74
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    i'm 70 will let you know when i get old

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  • emperor90
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    Yoda Age: 24
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    I do its scary

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    • Brainsbeforebeauty
      Brainsbeforebeauty
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      Beats the alternative of dying young

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  • Abdulwahh
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    No i will look healthy

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    I embrace death and my mortality.

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