Are you afraid of getting older?

Question

I don't..

I don't think anyone's value becomes less after they get older i think some women and men can look even better in their 40s than in their 20s if they take care of themselves. Also i believe that some men are insecure to date a 30+ woman because those women know what they want and are more Mature than younger counterparts... Also older women tend to be independent, intelligent and very sophisticated.

AmeerX · Accepted Answer

One day we all get old whether we like it or not be afraid or not.

Women are treated very badly in terms of relationship when they get past 35+ because they start losing their ability to reproduce :/. I mean children are a God's gift and a curse. It's His test. Wife too. If you have a good God fearing wife she will uphold her vows and look to her husband and make do with how meagre is in her husbands pocket but if you have a psycho she will always complain, and ask for things and never try to please her man even if he is doing 2 jobs and workslike 16 hours per day and will not raise children in his absence and leave at first sign of trouble.

I know from experience how a true love had a flop ending. My bestie was in love with a girl and then he lost his job and the girl started saying if he wants to marry her he needs to "prove" to her parents his worth (House, Job, Car).

I told him that she and her parents don't want to marry him, they want a man who will be a servant to him. And I told him especially her Mom is greedy as well and that daughters carry after their mothers. He was trying to make Love marriage an arranged "Love" marriage.

So, it didn't work out as predicted.

Cubus · Accepted Answer

You have that type of appearence that I believe would make you look good when you are older.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I was very afraid, of going past 23 and nearing 25.

Here I am at 26, sexier than I’ve ever been, smarter than I’ve ever been, stronger than I’ve ever been and I am no longer afraid to get older.

My mom was the prettiest girl growing up, she told me few days ago

“Even though, everyone always told me I was the prettiest girl they’ve seen, I never knew my value, until after 40. “

She turned 48 today and she’s still strong, smart and sexy and I am so proud of her and wish to be a bit like her when I am at her age.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Nope I'm excited to get older. To gain wisdom and knowledge. Watching my kids turn into adults and have kids of their own. Do lots of traveling. Being young kind of sucks tbh

AviatorTom · Answer

Too late, I already am... older that is.

Levin · Answer

Not afraid man. We just like the male/female dynamics. Women to be soft, nurturing and spiritualised. Not to be manly or have an ego out of this world. Younger women just look better. A lot better. They're not jaded, they're playful, they smile when they see you, they appreciate you. Unfortunately its a cruel aspect of nature. Women get insane attention in their late teens and 20s. And then, it balances out.

However, women in their 30s are cool, too. Provided they take care of themselves, which they often don't. There's no excuse for putting a shit load of weight on and letting oneself go.

Berethor · Answer

Easy to say when you just 19, at your prime, getting old sucks, one of the reasons I like vampires, for women is sucks more than for men, women are expected to be pretty, and women lose the ability to have children when they get old, and men are knowing that.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy#Research

https://www.youtube.com/embed/PsTgcBb7D84

molonski2 · Answer

40 s v 20 s !! Ohh shit yeah , 40s was way more fun.

Am I afraid? Nope , I'm super fortunate to be in great nik , and although I'm passed the middle , I'm vastly better than most , I'm 62 with a young girlfriend , I look forward to the next 20 years and remaining in shape.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Yes and no.

On one hand, I do a shit ton for my appearance, in terms of skin care, as well as weight training, but if my years of consistency doesn't pay off, then I'll be disappointed and it's definitely a possibility, as effort doesn't guarantee results.

Life's uncertainty bothers me and there's a possibility I may look back at my younger days and regret not doing something that may have benefited me in my older age.

Nirmroth · Answer

I dont fear loosing my "beauty" its more like a fear of missing out.
I like to have kids some day, really do but there's also the fear of settling down and be stuck.

I always wonder have I traveled enough? Have I experienced enough from the world? Should I have gone on way more dates? Should I go hiking more?

Ironic wise I dont want to be to old when finally settling down.

Rn I think searching for a serious relationships is something I may do when I am 35.

Kodvik · Answer

Nope... I had depression (crippling one for my entire 20s) so... Yeah.. I think now that I'm 34... I'm a lot better than I was when I was 21... I'm fit now... Healthy... Mentally stable (still single tho but that's OK... Still got the rest of the life to look forward to).

So no... I'm not afraid of getting older, I'm a bit worried about the single part... But no... I look forward to the next bunch of years, and dont miss being young at all.

Willlovewinintheend · Answer

Men's value goes down as they age. They can get bald and look worse. Men don't feel insecure about dating a woman in her 30s women in their 30s just don't want them.

Women don't have a problem as they age. Women in their 30s still get the same attention from men as they did in their 20s.

The man's value decreases as he ages. Most men that dont get any love from women shouldn't complain because women don't owe them anything.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I enjoyed getting older and I respect those that are older than I. I look forward for the day that I take to the grave. That just means I get to find out what's on the other side of life. I look at life as of uneternal educational opportunity. I will have the opportunity to see the existence of God. To nail at his feet and if granted to ask him many deep thought-provoking questions.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not at all, life just seems to get better and better.

dolemite58 · Answer

“men are insecure to date a 30+ woman because those women know what they want and are mature than their younger counter parts” i’m sorry but this is so delusional 🙄🤦‍♂️

Women get so angry that they don’t get to hold onto that unfair advantage their looks give them forever, guys are not intimidated by your “maturity” 🤣

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'm not afraid of getting older. I'm just afraid about my joints hurting more than they do. I guess it's my own fault for abusing my body so much when I was younger. I always pushed myself past my breaking point to get tasks done.

zagor · Answer

Are you sure you're eating enough?

But no, I don't look forward to it but it's going to happen. And is happening. I'm just along for the ride.

What's funny, when I turned 20 I was kind of down because there were things I hadn't done as a teen and I felt I had wasted time. When I turned 30 I was happy because my late 20's were so fucked up it was kind of a milestone to put that behind me.

Part2603 · Answer

Ah yes. Men don't want to date thirty year old roasties because they're "insecure". You're young. Why are you buying into roastie cope?

exitseven · Answer

I think I am about as old as I would like to be. I can feel myself slowing down and it is not as easy to do a full day's work and go out and party like it used to be

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Been there - done that :D Not afraid... But I found it quite dull. So I returned to my late-40's-life-style. We are what we allow to be.

JackCarter · Answer

Yeah I am kind of afraid that I won't be able to do things which I can do now physically.. it will be quite hard seeing your body get weaker

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yeah, I had a mental breakdown a couple years ago because of it. I wouldn't call it "fear" though. It's more of a sadness.

MrPickles13 · Answer

I don't have thoughts on it really. Every year older I am is just that another year. Quite frankly it makes no difference at this point in so many ways.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I wasn't until I hit the 40s... But definitely noting changes that suck w age and energy

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Yes, I saw my mother getting old and it didn't look like any fun at all. My dad never really got old, he just got sick and very confused.

BLP11520 · Answer

Aging is a slow process that affects everyone differently. Resisting depression in your later years is critical for those years and certain birthday’s

syncheart · Answer

I am 44 and the older I get the better the chances are that I will dying on my own. I remember telling someone when I was 28, that I will be the 40 year old virgin. I was right!

jahaims · Answer

Afraid? Nah. The only downside of getting older in my opinion is your body stops working as well.

bradley142 · Answer

im not afraid of getting older no and tbh i think a lot of women look better as they get older

alina_453 · Answer

I'm not afraid of getting older when I've caring loving and guy who do what my body needs😊

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

You’re still a kiddo. Wait till you’re 31 years old. Then you’ll feel a little fear about getting older.

YesterdaysChild · Answer

Too late! I'm already there. 😎

Yannae · Answer

No, regrets are actually scarier.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I already am. Fuck it

Jennz6 · Answer

Not afraid but I am enjoying my youth

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Yes. Desperately afraid. Although, so good so far.

smahala1991 · Answer

I'm 32 but feel like I could be 21

Jerre · Answer

Not at all. I don’t even think about age.

CubaPirate · Answer

I'm already there

eagle1951 · Answer

God I hope not because i'm getting there

azgınteke · Answer

Every age has a different taste, believe me.

elizamichale1 · Answer

yes i m actually

Kelly6 · Answer

Nope

krin_m · Answer

Nope!

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