Do You "Like/Love" or "Hate" the person you've become?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

It's just like anything else in life.. there always seem to be change at the wrong times. the world is Great we are so happy even cocky sometimes then out of the blue. There is change. It makes us think it make us question it brings us down and in that down time we are not happy. Are emotions are everywhere we are not ourselves. We might start to look at ourselves different. We might not like who we have become. And then in time. We except change
And we start to grow again. Love ourselves again and other we are who we want to be at any given moment it's our choice.
What is the Serenity Prayer accept the things I cannot change

The only thing we can change is our underwear and who we want to be happy and positive change with in changes everything around us. Life is a moment in time. When we allow this moment to pass we will have another moment. Just hope I have changed my underwear other wise I'm going to be hating it
So now to answer your question it would be to easy to say I love or like myself 98% of the time. But to be honest I need that 2% dis like to grow to learn and for change

Naughtyboy71 · Accepted Answer

When I was a kid alone with my 2 brother and little sister my Dad
Alcoholic and fight my mom and then whip up for crying and screaming
to stop many days and nights we be hungry but the #1 thing was Dad
3 pints of Volka went to school barefooted and long hair other kids
made fun and laugh at us I made a promise to myself if we make it
out of this trashy life so my brother next to me got hit by car and died
little brother went to my mom's parents little sister lived with my aunt
when I was 16 got my first job with the many years I worked was 3 jobs
Now I'm retire own my home house with a full basement 2 new cars I own
both of them both my kids married and has their family's 4 Beautiful
granddaughters YES I LOVE WHO I BECOME
by the way I'VE NEVER DRINK OR SMOKED IN MY LIFE

lrina · Accepted Answer

I don't really hate myself but... i have conflicting opinions... i don't know. i want to like myself, and i know that i don't have any truly horrible qualities about myself, but something about myself is just... i don't know... i seem to hate almost everything about myself at the same time. but i might just be wallowing in self pity or just simply being dramatic towards myself. at the same time, i'm trying to justify myself if that makes sense... it's so confusing and i can't decide which one it is, although i'm leaning much more towards hatred...

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

I’m not sure I’ve lived enough yet you have “become” anything. Maybe in another 10 years, I can answer this question by looking back to today, and seeing whom I thought I WOULD become, and analyzing whether I will then measure-up to whom I hoped I would today!

MCheetah · Answer

I've always hated the person I am... But I guess prior to 18, when I thought I was still going to grow and didn't know I had Precocious Puberty, I still thought I had hope. But no. That never happened and I never grew. So I can't "hate" the "person I've become" when I've always hated them.

Lliam · Answer

I like myself. I think love sounds a bit narcissistic. I'm aware of my strengths, weaknesses and faults. I actually like that I am a constant work in progress. Neither I nor my life have turned out half bad. I'm pretty cool in a lot of ways. I'm also a good person.

So, like? Definitely. Love? Only in the sense of being grateful to be alive and able to experience the beauty, mystery and awe of creation with all my senses.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I love cause GAG has made me that person, younger people on GAG have a sweet way to accept me without judging me for my age, I know websites tell you to get off of the site at age 53 .5 shy of 54 on Feb 9th

Apulu_3 · Answer

There are some things I like about myself while some which I hate to death. I hate being an coward. I hate being sensitive. I love that I'm very tolerant. I love that I have leader type personality. You can say I love myself 60% but hate 40%. Before I used to hate myself more but that time I was immature.

Phoenix-gb · Answer

I feel I sit somewhere in the middle, I'm proud of the positive traits I've developed (kindness, empathy, generosity), but that has come at the expense of selfish ambition and putting myself first, which has left me alone and feeling unwanted.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I mean. I wish I were in a different situation but that’s about it.

I’m in college so I kinda just think about money a lot.

It’s too bad I’m not female though.

Because then I could send naked pics of myself for hundreds of dollars

DesiUwU · Answer

I don’t like myself and I never will. I’m not good enough and I’m awkward and I sound mentally defective when I talk. I know I’m still shaping into a human but I honestly don’t see myself getting too far.

dustybiker · Answer

I’m the best I have ever been. Bad timing. lol Like I’m sure so many others feel, I wish I knew in the beginning what I know now.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I should like/love the person I am still becoming, but it is making me so damn lonely and difficult to keep this up when I don't get the support or companionship from the people closest to me.

sage2021 · Answer

I don't think there was ever a time in my entire life that I didn't like myself. Never hated myself or anyone else for that matter. Learned to live myself when I became a born again Christian.

Massageman · Answer

I like myself.
Sometimes, there are things I do which aren't the brightest in the world.
But we have to learn to separate our actions from our beings: even "good" people are burdened with the curse of original sin.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I love the person I've become. If I died today I'd be proud of the mark I left on this world. I'm not perfect but I feel I've had a positive affect on the lives I've touched and in the end in i feel that's what really matters

tommyvegas7618 · Answer

I'm pretty awesome, but always could improve. As far as who I am to others and my community, I truly love myself.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I like who I've become, I do not like how I got to this point but that is okay, tomorrow is another day and yesterday is history.

exitseven · Answer

I overcame some adversity, became fairly successful, was a good husband and father and somehow I managed to stay out of jail. I am pretty satisfied with the person I became.

Nagahime · Answer

I think I'm changing for the better and finally being myself and not a mindless zombie like I was in high school. I still have things to improve on, of course. :)

BlackTealLazer · Answer

I am emotionless towards the person I've become. I feel no love, I feel no hate.

NathanDavis · Answer

love it... I made myself (for the most part) after all...

skyeee_ · Answer

i hate the person i've become as i used to do better in school, i was carefree, didn't have anxiety, and definitely wasn't so attached to screen. thanks covid

Lynx122 · Answer

There's still a lot of difficulties I face but I still like myself :)

adidas0169 · Answer

I dont like the person that i am or becoming. im a miserable person but i still do what i always have done which is carry the world on my shoulders and put everyone before myself

AviatorTom · Answer

I like me. If I didn't, I would work to change myself.

KatherineJ · Answer

After years of counseling, I can say that I love myself. I don’t always like myself, but it’s a work in progress.

AndrewMG · Answer

I tolerate that incompetent bellend lol I mean he's a loveable idiot!

YollyM · Answer

I love the person I've become, I used to be a bitch to everyone💯. I'm learning to care and love.

collie22 · Answer

i'm a better person cause i'm working on it and i better like me cause that's me and i can't be someone else

Hemoglobin · Answer

I pretty much hate myself. It’s not because of my personality characteristics though. I’m actually a genuinely good person. The reason I hate myself is mainly because I’m stupid.

Shark_61695 · Answer

I just don't care about myself. Love or hate are too strong, I can't bring myself to care that much.

Gingerguy33 · Answer

For many years I was not happy with who I was now over the past few years I love who I’ve become

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I like myself but tbh i always treated the close people to me better than treating myself...

Lovesims3plumbob · Answer

It deponds on what is. i like my gamer self more then my real life self with having a learning disabties. being doing more great with my vidoe games on splatoon 2 and learning to aim and shoot.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

The first one. Why hate yourself when there are so many other people willing to do it for you?

Guido · Answer

I love myself. If I can't love myself, how can I expect anyone else to.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It's not what I've become, it's what I've ended up WITH!! It's almost like being in prison for a crime you never committed!

the_sinner · Answer

Like for some reasons and dislike for some. I have a sweet n sour relationship with myself.

JosyJosy · Answer

Pretty satisfied with myself, but there's lots of work to be done still.

krin_m · Answer

I like my own company because I think I'm pretty laid back and relaxed and I love to enjoy life.

IssacGray · Answer

What are you on? Bro I’m fuckin fabulously I love myself

Jolzie75 · Answer

I’m ok on what I have become but I could be better in my opinion.

Abby005 · Answer

I like love myself it’s important to love yourself or you couldn’t ask another person to love you cause it never be enough.

humanearth · Answer

I'm good with how things turned out

BaldAvenger · Answer

I love a certain part of me but I also have a lot of me I absolutely hate

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I'm very happy about what I've become.

Starla1234 · Answer

Like/love (most of the time!)

uwu_princess · Answer

Finally I love myself. :p

MotherEarth2020 · Answer

I love myself, life is okay. Not perfect, but okay

douride2 · Answer

I am happy with who I am.

curiosi_tea · Answer

Im turning into a popular bimbo because I'm no longer depressed. I love/hate it at the same time.

Amoebaaa · Answer

I am a monster. I hate myself

Guanfei · Answer

I hate myself probably more than anyone hate me.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I neither love or hate myself but who I am is weak and useless and very ugly.

Citizenkirk · Answer

I like the person I am trying to become

TrueConfection · Answer

I chose A.

Avicenna · Answer

Im happy with myself

SalvatoreCordileone · Answer

I hate myself but not hate myself

Anonymous · Answer

I became a lusting monster and I like it

EaterPeter · Answer

Neither nor

shadowlunitic03 · Answer

I don't feel useful

Anonymous · Answer

i didn't have a choice i was forced into it

xJayleenx · Answer

I want to be better but I don’t hate myself

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