At the moment I am dealing with Trauma that is intertwined with who I am and how my life partner emotionally tore me down slowly by me following him blindly in love.
I'm regaining my sanity and trust in myself so its a challenge to feel myself and feel good.
I do know that I do love myself still being that when I am in tune with me without triggers I am happy, super confident, and carefree.
What I do love about myself is my perseverance to not quit, my dedication to figure stuff out, my honesty, my free spirit, the unconditional love I carry in my heart, my creativity, my physical strength, my whole as a being honestly.
I appreciate being a imperfect person being that I know it allows me to grow more to create change in my life for me and those close to me.
Looking forward to learn to just be happy even in the darkness. ❤️
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I love myself but there are some things I’d change, I’d be less empathetic, would be more like my mom who is a great seductress and has always been a heartbreaker.
I’d not fall in love and instead would be a fatal woman I was born to be.
That way I’d be the one who’d break the heart of my ex instead of having my heart broken into thousand pieces. Or at least play him well enough to never make him want to leave.
I’ve got that in my genes but
sadly I inherited my character from my dad who is the kindest person I’ve met.
Well I hope my future daughter will do that instead of me.
There's so much crap that happens in my life between family work and friends but in the end I'm still me. I'm not changing for nobody regardless what anybody says. I always tell people this: you want to hurt me? Go ahead if it makes you feel any better. I am an easy target, yeah I talk too much. But I also listen to too much. I could be all called heartless bastard but I'm the type of person that doesn't like to hurt people's feelings. You could think what you want about me but I'm not changing. I like me, my friends like me, my siblings like me, if people get to know me they like me. Because I'm the real article. what you see is what you get. I'm never going to change because you want me to change no matter how many times you hospitalize me or put me on medication. Because in the end, I'm my own person.
It should go the same way for everyone.
I love who I am. I try to be there for those people I care about and sometimes those people that don't even know me.
I'm faithful and honest which allows me to be confident in myself. I am confident I am on the right path.
My parents raised me to be a strong (character-wise), fair man that considers others.
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During the past 68 years, I have worked to change those things about me that I thought needed improvement. At this point, I'm just about perfect. . . to me!
Yes, I like me. Could always be a bit better, but could be a lot worse.
Yes, I can say that I'm happy with who I am
Yes, although it's weird being old now. I never imagined. I still relate to being 25. LOL
But I have the most amazing memories and I love my life. I've been married now for almost 26 years and the two of us have been living in a home we love for just over 21 years. We have had SO much fun and have built a wonderful life together.
Out home in the country is like a dream come true and I couldn't be luckier to have such a wonderful life-partner.I could probably work on being a little more empathetic and a little less critical and perfectionist, but other than that, I love who I am. I love my creative mindset, charisma, sense of humor, self control, assertiveness, work ethic, and determination. I even like that while I can be logical, I occasionally have a dogmatic approach to things. Its a bit ironic, but it is what it is, and it’s me 🤷♀️
https://www.youtube.com/embed/y5rpGb0FfQgInteresting question. Some days I like how I am others not so much. My self love stems from how I respond to situations. Some days I’ll beat myself up over how I talked to or answered someone. Other times I give myself high praise for staying calm. In terms of appearance I think everyone wishes to change themselves.
i used to be shamed of this but i love hard and it's because of this that i am able to withstand all of my pain and sufferings thankfully God is showing me the true colors of people thankfully there is still Lord Jesus the one i love the most. everytime i remember his sufferings his feet on the ground dragging himself carryinh the crosd if the world, his mouth/teeth full of blood, his miserable eyes due to the punches he took i ask God to suffer more for him
Yes. I have strength now I lacked thirty years ago. I understand now what it is to be truly "meek" - and it's not what the world thinks.
There's a fire in my heart that makes me dangerous, but it's tempered now.
Although I've walked through Hell to reach this point I wouldn't change a thing.In many ways, yes. However, my greatest flaw is that I never developed a strong work-ethic. I am very inconsistent with productive I am. Partly, this is caused by inconsistent sleep. I am tired very often and have little energy to be productive on those days. Even so, I am not sure tiredness alone explains it.
If I were to be consistent in things like studying, I know for a fact I could be a top student. This year, when I actually stayed on top of my courses this year, I was explaining concepts to some of the top students in my class when asked questions by them. As soon as my sleep-deprivation set in, along with a careless attitude towards studying, that's when I learned nothing new and became among the worst students (by grade). :/Most of the time I do.
What I like about myself?
I like my sense of humor, my "what happens happens" attitude, the fact that I have good friends ( which means I'm good at judging character).
I'd like to change a few things, but nothing too drastic.After my early years of not fitting in, I think I found peace with who I am!! I love who I am; the woman that I am today. Because if I liked myself just a little when I was 13, then I wouldn't have hated myself so much back then. Rather than that, I would appreciate how I look. But that aside, I found it now and I like it more than I would have done before
I have my flaws, but yes I like who I am. I'm a solid dude.
What do I like about myself? I'm honest, I'm loyal, and I have integrity. The people who love and care about me do so for who I am, not just what I bring to thier life. Not everyone can say that. My circle is small but trusted. And that makes me rich beyond measure.
I love that I learned how to please a woman at a young age, and that I have sufficient equipment to do it with. I was taught by an older woman then, 20 years my senior, (I was 18) and it was invaluable. She was multi-orgasmic, taught me patience, taught me technique. I've been with over 60 different girls and women since I was 17 and I've had very few complaints. No one is a perfect lover for everyone, but I am glad that I was schooled as I was and learned that giving her pleasure was much more rewarding for me than getting it. Seeing and hearing a woman orgasm is the hottest thing for me.
I can say with confidence that I love myself today. I didn’t used to growing up but I had to learn to be proud of who I am and be grateful for everyone who supported and encouraged me along the way. I learned that God doesn’t make junk and He made me for a purpose. And most importantly I learned I will never be perfect and I will mess up everyday; however I strive to be the best version of myself.
No I hate my self and I suck. But sometime I think I am smart. also I get rejected and I hurt and push people away all the time. I not doing anything good for the world or any one and I hurt people a lot. also I try be with people who do not want me.
I like what I like and I like when people respect and appreciate me and what I trying to do.
when I done I hope I have a nice car and a girlfriend and a good job when I down with this world
When I was a child, i'd probably stupidly say yes. Which wasn't the truth. :) But now a days, yes. I can say I do like who i am and who I am growing too. Better than the alternative.
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yes, I do like who I am because despite not being perfect, I am genuine and I do try my best to be a good person.
Yes, I love myself. You have to love yourself before you can love others... and I love both very deeply.
I’m the general sense yes. If I really sit down and think about rooted things that make me, me, I cannot say I’m all 100% happy with everything.
Yes I do. I am still learning and growing in many ways to be a better person…but pretty happy with who I am.
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