
Would you say that you like who you are?

At the moment I am dealing with Trauma that is intertwined with who I am and how my life partner emotionally tore me down slowly by me following him blindly in love.
I'm regaining my sanity and trust in myself so its a challenge to feel myself and feel good.
I do know that I do love myself still being that when I am in tune with me without triggers I am happy, super confident, and carefree.
What I do love about myself is my perseverance to not quit, my dedication to figure stuff out, my honesty, my free spirit, the unconditional love I carry in my heart, my creativity, my physical strength, my whole as a being honestly.
I appreciate being a imperfect person being that I know it allows me to grow more to create change in my life for me and those close to me.
Looking forward to learn to just be happy even in the darkness. ❤️
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I wish you nothing but happiness from here on out.
@mandyfire98 I appreciate your words, thank you. ❤️
That sounds like my abusive Ex-wife. My sympathies!
I love myself but there are some things I’d change, I’d be less empathetic, would be more like my mom who is a great seductress and has always been a heartbreaker.
I’d not fall in love and instead would be a fatal woman I was born to be.
That way I’d be the one who’d break the heart of my ex instead of having my heart broken into thousand pieces. Or at least play him well enough to never make him want to leave.
I’ve got that in my genes but
sadly I inherited my character from my dad who is the kindest person I’ve met.
Well I hope my future daughter will do that instead of me.
Why?
@Guardian45 Because I wouldn’t want her to be the one who’d have her heart broken.
Or betrayed.
I meant you
There's so much crap that happens in my life between family work and friends but in the end I'm still me. I'm not changing for nobody regardless what anybody says. I always tell people this: you want to hurt me? Go ahead if it makes you feel any better. I am an easy target, yeah I talk too much. But I also listen to too much. I could be all called heartless bastard but I'm the type of person that doesn't like to hurt people's feelings. You could think what you want about me but I'm not changing. I like me, my friends like me, my siblings like me, if people get to know me they like me. Because I'm the real article. what you see is what you get. I'm never going to change because you want me to change no matter how many times you hospitalize me or put me on medication. Because in the end, I'm my own person.
It should go the same way for everyone.
I love who I am. I try to be there for those people I care about and sometimes those people that don't even know me.
I'm faithful and honest which allows me to be confident in myself. I am confident I am on the right path.
My parents raised me to be a strong (character-wise), fair man that considers others.
Thanks.👋🏼
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During the past 68 years, I have worked to change those things about me that I thought needed improvement. At this point, I'm just about perfect. . . to me!
Yes, I like me. Could always be a bit better, but could be a lot worse.
Yes, I can say that I'm happy with who I am
Yes, although it's weird being old now. I never imagined. I still relate to being 25. LOL
But I have the most amazing memories and I love my life. I've been married now for almost 26 years and the two of us have been living in a home we love for just over 21 years. We have had SO much fun and have built a wonderful life together.
Out home in the country is like a dream come true and I couldn't be luckier to have such a wonderful life-partner.
Sounds perfect
I could probably work on being a little more empathetic and a little less critical and perfectionist, but other than that, I love who I am. I love my creative mindset, charisma, sense of humor, self control, assertiveness, work ethic, and determination. I even like that while I can be logical, I occasionally have a dogmatic approach to things. Its a bit ironic, but it is what it is, and it’s me 🤷♀️
Interesting question. Some days I like how I am others not so much. My self love stems from how I respond to situations. Some days I’ll beat myself up over how I talked to or answered someone. Other times I give myself high praise for staying calm. In terms of appearance I think everyone wishes to change themselves.
i used to be shamed of this but i love hard and it's because of this that i am able to withstand all of my pain and sufferings thankfully God is showing me the true colors of people thankfully there is still Lord Jesus the one i love the most. everytime i remember his sufferings his feet on the ground dragging himself carryinh the crosd if the world, his mouth/teeth full of blood, his miserable eyes due to the punches he took i ask God to suffer more for him
Yes. I have strength now I lacked thirty years ago. I understand now what it is to be truly "meek" - and it's not what the world thinks.
There's a fire in my heart that makes me dangerous, but it's tempered now.
Although I've walked through Hell to reach this point I wouldn't change a thing.
Most of the time I do.
What I like about myself?
I like my sense of humor, my "what happens happens" attitude, the fact that I have good friends ( which means I'm good at judging character).
I'd like to change a few things, but nothing too drastic.
In many ways, yes. However, my greatest flaw is that I never developed a strong work-ethic. I am very inconsistent with productive I am. Partly, this is caused by inconsistent sleep. I am tired very often and have little energy to be productive on those days. Even so, I am not sure tiredness alone explains it.
If I were to be consistent in things like studying, I know for a fact I could be a top student. This year, when I actually stayed on top of my courses this year, I was explaining concepts to some of the top students in my class when asked questions by them. As soon as my sleep-deprivation set in, along with a careless attitude towards studying, that's when I learned nothing new and became among the worst students (by grade). :/
After my early years of not fitting in, I think I found peace with who I am!! I love who I am; the woman that I am today. Because if I liked myself just a little when I was 13, then I wouldn't have hated myself so much back then. Rather than that, I would appreciate how I look. But that aside, I found it now and I like it more than I would have done before
I have my flaws, but yes I like who I am. I'm a solid dude.
What do I like about myself? I'm honest, I'm loyal, and I have integrity. The people who love and care about me do so for who I am, not just what I bring to thier life. Not everyone can say that. My circle is small but trusted. And that makes me rich beyond measure.
I love that I learned how to please a woman at a young age, and that I have sufficient equipment to do it with. I was taught by an older woman then, 20 years my senior, (I was 18) and it was invaluable. She was multi-orgasmic, taught me patience, taught me technique. I've been with over 60 different girls and women since I was 17 and I've had very few complaints. No one is a perfect lover for everyone, but I am glad that I was schooled as I was and learned that giving her pleasure was much more rewarding for me than getting it. Seeing and hearing a woman orgasm is the hottest thing for me.
When I was a child, i'd probably stupidly say yes. Which wasn't the truth. :) But now a days, yes. I can say I do like who i am and who I am growing too. Better than the alternative.
I can say with confidence that I love myself today. I didn’t used to growing up but I had to learn to be proud of who I am and be grateful for everyone who supported and encouraged me along the way. I learned that God doesn’t make junk and He made me for a purpose. And most importantly I learned I will never be perfect and I will mess up everyday; however I strive to be the best version of myself.
yes, I do like who I am because despite not being perfect, I am genuine and I do try my best to be a good person.
No I hate my self and I suck. But sometime I think I am smart. also I get rejected and I hurt and push people away all the time. I not doing anything good for the world or any one and I hurt people a lot. also I try be with people who do not want me.
I like what I like and I like when people respect and appreciate me and what I trying to do.
when I done I hope I have a nice car and a girlfriend and a good job when I down with this world
Yes, I love myself. You have to love yourself before you can love others... and I love both very deeply.
I’m the general sense yes. If I really sit down and think about rooted things that make me, me, I cannot say I’m all 100% happy with everything.
Yes I do. I am still learning and growing in many ways to be a better person…but pretty happy with who I am.
Yes because I put effort into being a good person who treats people well while remembering taking care of myself. If I'm trying my best that's what matters :)
It took me toooooo long to realize that lol
I have a love/hate relationship with myself. Though I do love many aspects of myself, including my talents. However, there are times I wonder who I am, and wtf I am doing.
i struggle with self esteem, but i’m working on it!
Ditto
I love that I love taking care of myself and my body. I also think I have a friendly personality and nice to others.
What I love about myself is that I am ambitious, caring and supportive. I often surround myself with winner mentalities and selective in choosing friends.
Even when I was disgusted at myself (which was a brief period long ago), I maintained my self respect and continued to love & like the person I stared at in the mirror.
People say I give off narcissistic vibes but I'm really not, a little insecure actually but I try my best not to show it. Adulthood has taught me a lot so far and I'm slowly loving the person I'm becoming.
Yes I would.
For no particular reason, but just because I'm great the way I am :D
My 122 weight loss, but I need to lose 50 lbs more to reach a goal.
I won't lie, I weigh 250 lbs and want to lose 50 more pounds
Meh! Sometimes I like myself! I most love my logical, analytical, creative mind about myself
I care too much
Why?
Is it possible to care too much?
Most of the time. But like anyone else, there are days that I struggle with it.
Yes. But do I like where i am in life? As in position. No im not.
I do now. I wished I had when I was younger.
I do like who I am. I'm honest and will say anything.
yep no one else like me, thank goodness for them lol
Sometimes I do and sometimes I feel like such a slacker/
Fuck no, I hate that asshole.
What I love most about myself is that I'm smart enough to not look into the mirror too often
I think I like who I am, because I am always focused on self improvement more than it is on people and persons. And I am up to no harm to anyone. So yes.
I’m pretty happy with who I am. I’m not perfect, but I’ve learned when/ when not to emotionally extend
Do I like who am? I guess so, I never gave it much thought. I can't be anybody else and wouldn't want to. I never thought about what I love about myself, either. Besides being short, fat, and cantankerous, I'm pretty much Mr. fucking perfect.
Mostly I do like who I am. I wish I was more confident and not so shy but I like that I'm a nice person and try to be kind to people
Yeah I've got a good personality like can click and connect very easily with and act accordingly and what not kinda thing I've always got going n all that
I love that I’m a survivor but not proud of all the things I’ve done to survive. I’m not a good person, but I’m the best person I can be.
For the most part yes but I'm always going to be a work in progress I hope anyway
i love that i can say two opposing sides, objective before revealed my opinion
I am happy with the person I became, but it took a long time to reach this point.
Yes especially how calm I can be in life without stressing
I wouldn't change who I am as my parents raised me well... hardworking, genuine, loyal, cheeky/funny etc.
I do like myself yes. If I cannot like myself, how can I expect to be liked by others.
What do I love about myself the most. My cute little bum I have to say.
Yes, I love being Spiritual Wise, I love people, and helping.
I like who I've become. I could be better at some things. On my day off it takes me a while to get motivated to get moving
I know I’m a really good person, but my mind tends to focus on the negatives…
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very much now. i used to hate myself for along time. i made peace with myself and now come to really like who i am now.
Yes , I an introverted gamer that like tinkering with computers. If I could afford a house I would move out.
Yes, I do like myself and enjoy my life. What I like about myself is being Hyperspermia and confident in everything I do.
Maybe my sense of humor and love for music. other things I like but are private 😉
My self respect.
I do like who I have become
no, if i could be anyone else i would be.
Why?
@Guardian45 because things have happened and i feel like im living on free time.
Hmm. I'm not clear. Can you explain?
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