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I seem to largely lack the capability to feel any powerful kind of fear. I might have even damaged my amygdala as a boy (I was hit by cars twice and hospitalized both times at a very young age).
That has been a very useful trait in some dangerous situations in allowing me to be most noble, rescuing others from danger and guiding them to safety while being perfectly calm and maybe even enjoying the moment. Yet those situations are very rare and few and far between. I love the trait in those cases though when I can use it to help people.
Unfortunately, it also tempts me to do a lot of stupid, dangerous, outright reckless things that normal people -- far more capable of experiencing fear -- would not do out of fear. I don't have that sort of fear to discourage me from doing reckless things. I have to rely on wisdom instead, and I'm very slow to get wise.
So I have a love/hate relationship with the way I'm so lacking in fear. It sometimes works to bring out the noblest and most heroic side of me. Yet far more often it brings out a very stupid and reckless side doing pointless daredevil stunts just for the fun of it.
As a point of clarification, I'm not brave. Brave people feel fear to my understanding but overcome it, and that's far superior. I'm just lacking in fear. A brave person can use their fear to keep themselves out of harm's way while overcoming the fear to do heroic things. Meanwhile, I don't even have the fear in the first place to keep me out of harm's way, and so I constantly find myself in harm's way.
I still think it is amazing that you use your inability to feel fear in order to help people. You don’t have to do that, but you still do. ☺️
Do you think that maybe you continue to do these daredevil stunts in an unconscious attempt to be able to feel fear?
One thing I'm not clear about is if I don't feel fear at all or if I'm addicted to fear like maybe being afraid of something makes me want to do it more (the opposite of sane people). It's kind of confusing to me that way because I get the adrenaline rush when I do things like performing on stage in front of many people or something dangerous, but I love that feeling and I find it encouraging rather than discouraging. I've just kind on noticed looking at other people and making comparisons that I seem to experience this in a very different way.
It gets me into a lot of trouble though. For example, I have many teeth and claw scars from trying to befriend vicious animals like dogs growing at me as well as trying to tame wild animals. I've also been mugged and pickpocketed so many times that my bank refused to let me get a new credit card after having to cancel mine so many times due to my wallet being stolen. So I had to apply at a whole new bank.
I think I'm also motivated more by the risk of punishment than the chance of a reward. For example, the first time I got bitten trying to hug a vicious dog in my neighborhood as a little boy, I was hospitalized and had to get stitches on my face. So I think a sane kid after that thinks he should stop trying to hug growling dogs. Yet that just made me want to hug them even more because I hated being bitten so much, now understanding that there's a significant risk of getting hurt, that I wanted to try again. Now that I knew how bad it could hurt if I fail to tame the dog, it made it so much more exciting to try.
You are a very interesting person 😆
I bet you have a ton of amazing stories about the situation you have been in.
I love how tall I am but hate how it's next to impossible to find clothes that fit, especially shoes and socks, and how nothing in the world is made to accommodate me, anymore! The house I was brought up in was built 122 years ago and had 10' high ceilings. I could barely touch them even if I stood on my toes. Back then, nobody grew much beyond 5' tall!! The house I'm in now was built in 1962 when lots of people were breaking the 6' barrier and I can practically touch the ceilings with my head!! They're only 7' high! Back in the `40's, a new car was so big you could play baseball in just the back seat and still have room for a small tennis court! They had their own streams, trees, wildlife roaming around. Today, cars are so tiny I have to have the jaws of life just to get INTO one!!
So, for those aspects, I HATE being tall!! Hitting my head on shit all the time doesn't help, either.
Do you constantly get asked if you play basketball?
Not constantly but, often.
"Do you play basketball?"
"No, drums."
I have never heard the drums one before.
I guess that's because not a lot of us tall guys are drummers. The only ones I know of are Bill Bruford and Mick Fleetwood. I don't know how tall Mick is but Bill is every bit as tall as me. (6' 9") So was Chris Squire. I've met both of them.
You met them? That’s so cool!
Yeah, I met Bill at least twice. The second time we were in a room where the ceiling was so low, both of our heads were about an inch away from it. And, I met Chris once a few months, possibly a year or two, before he died. It was shortly before he was about to go on stage for an afternoon gig and, as I was leaving the venue, a car went by me with Steve Howe slouching way down in the back seat trying not to be seen and we both saw each other. I've met LOTS of famous people.
That’s awesome! How are you so lucky? lol
I guess you just have to know where to hang out and wait for them or just be in the right place at the right time. I went to see Steven Wright one night and, after the show, I was on my way to my bus home and I spotted him and his opening act in a bar half a block from, where he did the show. I just went in to do a quick meet and autograph and they both invited me to sit and hang with them for a while! I probably stayed for half an hour.
For those of you who don't know, this is who I'm talking about.
https://youtu.be/eJCMjJwIGxY
tbh having unsymmetrical eyelids isn't even that noticeable (i don't think it is at least). i have slightlyyy different eyelids myself, but it actually took me many years before i even noticed LOL. and it's not really something that catches my attention whenever i look into the mirror either.
but anyways, for me personally, i both love and hate my hair. it's pretty straight at the top, and then gradually gets curlier and curlier until it's in a curl at the very very bottom of it. i think it looks a lot like "doll hair", but it looks kind of shitty at the same time. so yeah, i have a very strong love-hate relationship with it. for the most part, i wish my hair was a bit different but eh. it doens't bother me thaaat much.
By your description, it sounds like your hair is super unique and beautiful. Is it hard to maintain?
tyy <333 it depends, if i sleep in a loose braid then it's not too difficult to brush the next day. however if i forget, then i need to use a lot of hairspray to untangle it because otherwise it's practically impossible lol. but for me, brushing is the only problem i have with it, everything else is fine.
You're welcome ❤️
Hairspray? really? when I use it my hair gets super tangled lol. Have you ever tried a wet brush?
there's this one light blue hairspray that my mom always uses, supposedly it's relatively expensive but it's efficient. you probably just didn't get a very good brand (not sure though, just a guess). Also yeah, that's the hairbrush that i used throughout my entire life lol. is that considered one of the best brands or something?
I rarely put hairspray in my hair. the only time I get hairspray is when I am getting my hair curled. I don't know what brand they use though. I don't know. All I know is that it gets my tangles out so easily.
Hmmm I don’t know. I know it is wavy if I let it air dry, and when I was little and had short hair it was curly, like big curls at the bottom. My hair is very long and straight with a few wavy strands throughout it. It’s hard to explain. Lol
Haha I had a friend who had half and half hair. One half was straight and the other half was wavy. 😂
Weird but Wonderful 🥰🤩
1. Commitment to my cause- set me apart from people in my peer group but also took a toll on my health and social life.
2. Introvertism- helps me be creative, listen to my thoughts but networking is important to reach the higher levels.
3. Simplicity- Economic and budget friendly lifestyle but inadequate first impressions
4. Straightforwardness - saves time but relations take a hit.
I think that those are all amazing qualities to have! You just need to cherish the people who appreciate you for those qualities, and forget about the ones who are deterred by them. ❤️
Your welcome 🤗
I know I don’t know you well, but I love your personality ☺️
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I simultaneously love and hate that I'm so resilient and tough and had to be put through so much sh*t to become hard and cold on the inside. Honestly, I would have rather had a life of love and been a bit cushier than to be the cold, solid slab of unloved concrete that I am right now. I guess you can say I hate it a bit more than I "love" it. But some people might say it's good being stoic and resilient from having been treated like sh*t through my entire life. The downside of that though (among many other things) is being cynical and pretty sure I'll never be loved.
Also, I don't get why some Asians don't like the "Asian eyes" (double eyelids). Even here in South Korea, they have "Western eye" cosmetic surgery. Those women are all kinds of 머리에 미친!
Awe don’t say that! You will find love!
Lol I know, I have always thought that monolids were gorgeous!
I hate it when I hear something I dont want to believe. That I have to research the crap out it. To find the truth
That means not just the internet, but by books, newspapers, microfilm. I mean real detective work.
I have found stuff that keep you up at nights for years.
What’s microfilm?
Lol I bet you have 😂
Microforms are scaled-down reproductions of documents, typically either films or paper, made for the purposes of transmission, storage, reading, and printing. Microform images are commonly reduced to about 4% or one twenty-fifth of the original document size. For special purposes, greater optical reductions may be used. Three formats are common: microfilm, microfiche, and aperture cards. Microcards, also known as "micro-opaques", a format no longer produced, were similar to microfiche, but printed on cardboard rather than photographic film.
Here is a microfilm station at the library
This is what they used before computers
Woah! Cool! Thank you for teaching me! 😊
My inability to make a move on a girl. It's not a lack of self-confidence on my part but if I know nothing about them I am almost never going to make a move on them. Love it as it avoids toxic relationships/relationships in general and I focus on other things. Hate it because when the time comes where I do want someone I come off as awkward.
I’m sure you don’t come off as awkward as you think you do. :)
I've got a scar between my nose and lip, and my nose is a slightly crooked from breaking it. It's something I'm conscious of on myself but when I see stuff like scars on other people I think they always look good.
So ye I don't like it but I also kinda do.
what i love about myself is that i am a good listener and I am always there for someone if they want any help.
what I hate about me is i overthink everything. I am an introvert and no one has ever made a move on me maybe because I am a boring person?
Why do you think you are boring?
Because I am not loud like the other girls. I don't party. Neither do i drink or smoke
You can say i am like a typical good girl. So that's boring
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that! A lot of people like good girls.
I get limerence easily. I obviously hate it, but I do love it when I am with the person I am having limerence for.
What's that?
A state of infatuation or obsession with another person that involves an all-consuming passion and intrusive thoughts.
It's like a crush but much faster and harder to stop. And become annoying as one cannot get over it easily. Even if it's a rational thing of we have nothing in common though, the attraction will still appear. Since it's a more of irrational fantasy of liking someone.
If one was unaware of having it... i couldn't even imagine that, Since it's one of those things I kinda always known and always tried to not let it take over my thoughts and keep myself grounded.
When with the person it feels brilliant though and gets you wrapped in that fantasy. Often or not this always ends up been on someone who will friendzone me or something which then only leads to a very low state for myself. Extreme lows and extreme highs which the highs been great.
Recently I met a girl, who's a friend of my bestfriend. Only known her for day, she's not my type nor would i be her's yet. Here I am a couple days later thinking about her and feeling unmotivated because I ain't with her. And finding myself hoping to talk to her again.
And trust me I am doing well to supress it but yet still this extreme.
ah, I hope everything works out for you. 😊
@Jamie05rhs I don't think one can get rid of it, if your a person who get's it. It's akin to obsessive–compulsive disorder You can try get therapy for it. And one self can recognise it and try to work on it. But it's more the way your brain is and shall remain.
My fucked personality! I'm either on and funny (eh 70/30) or a fuckin zombie that still manages to get laughs at about the same level of expense.
Awe ☹️ No, please don’t put yourself down! 💔
Promise I'm not. I'm just a slut for comedy!
Lol okay good 😂😆
People tell me I have nice lips but I wish they were nicer and people say I look young but I wish I looked younger.
My stubbornness. It helps me not give up with certain things but also doesn't allow me to stop when I should.
that my body builds mass quick like crazy. i love it, cause can i can get super buff quickly. but i also get fat quickly xD
Endomorph type, yes?
@HighlyVolatile no. mesomorph.
I see! I'm also meso but 25% ecto according to my measurements. It's a bit tough for me to gain mass but I tend to have an easy time cutting.
@HighlyVolatile just get your body used to low fat, high carb and sugar diet. that turns everyone into an endomorph xD
Dirty bulking! :-D
@HighlyVolatile i don't get that reference XD but yeah. if you wanna stay ectomorph, eat lots of fat. doing the opposite of what media tells you, makes you slim. cause media is streamlined to make people consume. not to make them slim or healthy.
My sensitivity and empathy towards certain things.
I can understand that 💕
My being introverted. I know I'm intensely loyal. But most people never get to learn that about me.
The people that stick around to find out are the people who are worthy of getting to know you.
I realize that. But you'll agree in this hustle and bustle 24 hr. World we live in that people's time is limited. So unless you're loud and boisterous "the life of the party" so to speak. You're probably going to go I unnoticed.
Yeah, that makes sense. Some people do notice them though. At an event I always look for the quiet and/or nervous people who are alone and go talk to them.
Having a lot of emotions of connecting too fast with people
I love to hate everything about me
Starting with my life
Why?
Coz I have seen a lot of evil around and realised that all this is just a illusion and all the fake dead in the broken homes are just trying to keep them busy so they don't realise the truth
They choose to stay blind rather than see the truth, it's like a feast but here the people are ripping apart other people and eating them it's just who can eat the most
I don't mean to be rude, but maybe you are just surrounded by the wrong type of people?
This world is full of
Wrong Typa People
but not everyone is
You need a new hobby you are wasting too much time on forgotten lost ghosts like me
I have many hobbies.
You are not a forgotten ghost. You might be lost right now, but you will find your way eventually.
I dont keep any good days for me
It's useless for me now, you can't save those who can't save themselves
I might not be able to save someone who won’t save themselves, but I can still be there for them. Maybe I can help them find a reason to save themselves. At the very least, I will be there so that they know that they are not alone and that someone cares.
That's wasted daylight
And I don't wish to waste anyone elses daylight
You don’t waste anyones daylight.
Anyone’s*
Right now I am wasting yours every second you talk to me you waste some time in your life, and I feel thats wrong coz my darkness is my curse and I dont want to drown others in it. When you talk to me you feel certain negative emotions you might say you don't but you do , otherwise either you are not human or you are not normal
And I dont think that should be happening
When I talk to you I am not wasting seconds. I am learning about how you feel and what you think. I love to listen to other people’s thoughts and learn about them. The more I learn about the world the more I learn about myself, and the more I learn about different people’s view points the more I am able to understand and empathize with other people.
I am not human? What am I?
First you have nothing to learn from me you don't already know, ofcourse everyone already know it's just whether they accept it for decide to live in illusion , I said if you don't feel negative emotions while talking to a person drowned in darkness then you are not human, coz that would not be possible
Only faded dont feel things
To be honest, I do feel slightly sad that you see the world as such a terrible place, but that sadness is outweighed by my excitement to talk to you!
The world is a terrible place we just don't want to see it
And you should be talking to someone who would make you slightly happy
Do you really believe that?
I want to talk to you!
Don't get to close to darkness
You never really realise when you drown in it
I am an amazing swimmer! People use to say I was like a dis in the water!
like a fish in the water*
🐠🐡🐟🐠🐡🐠🐡🐠🐟🐡🐠
Sorry for the extra notifications, but look at how cute the fish emojis are!!! 😍 I couldn’t pass up the chance to use them!
You need better kind of people around you even in virtual world
I have the best kind of people around me 😊
I am not the kind to be around,
Why not?
Ever heard about cursed object or people?
Yes? I do.
Heaven and hell and not real places they are state If a person is happy with what he has and lives for others and help others that person is in heaven
The person opposite to that is in hell
But both those states are temp, even in religion one goes to heaven or hell then comes back or say gets out of them,
Curse is a similar thing
I belive the affects of curse don't mean you EXPERIENCE anything supernatural it's more like just bad things go in a cycle
I have not felt much happiness in my life, in a sense I have a cursed life
I have*
Catholics believe in Purgatory. This place is for people who are not quite ready to enter Heaven. Zoroastrians and Universalist believe that eventually everyone will enter heaven.
Have you ever heard of the self-fulfilling prophesy?
my genitals... Hate= sometimes they Rule my actions, feelings... Love= sometimes they give me great pleasure
As an INFJ, I would say I love and hate my willingness to put others above myself. I love and hate my sensitivity to other viewpoints and feelings.
My height. While I'm tall-ish, I'm also not at least average. I'm only 5'8" and the average height for a man is 5'10". However, for example, I'm at least taller than my mom, who is only 5'4"
5’8 is average to me, almost all the men in my family are 5’8. My great great grandfather was only 5’5. I think 5’8 is a good hight! 🙂
I'm not gonna lie. I can only think of one thing. My face. Everything about it
I bet many people find you very handsome.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
My humanly intelligence.
Humanly? 😄
I love talking but sometimes i say too much..
I do that too 😂
Love: Mind
Hate: nothing
I love your creativity!
RHAOU
RHAAAAAOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUU!!!
YAMATE KUDASAI
But why? I like the word 😭
Moshinderu, NANI
No! 🥺
Sakuta Hyou Yokse
You have lost me lol
Remember that phrase
This is a reversed callback for the upcoming three to four years
Got it!
Sorry, I meant 2-3
Even better!
Love my 20/20 vision but hate that I’m color blind
I think it’s kind of cool that you see the world a little differently than everyone else does, but I can see how it can be annoying for you.
Red looks green to me and vice same with blue gray and brown
Do you have a favorite color?
My imagination
Why is your heart filled with glue?
I sniffed too much glue back in the day
😂 I remember kids in my class doing that. I forget what the reason was though.
People would get high off of it
Now I remember lol
my height I'm 5'2"
Awe I think that’s cute! 🥰 , but I can she how could not always be the greatest.
My height
You are probably tall to me.
Appreciate it
You’re welcome ☺️
I'm chill/lazy
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