Based off this conversation do you think he’s just here for nudes?

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Based off this conversation do you think he’s just here for nudes?

roxbby · Accepted Answer

It doesn't matter the context, if a guy casually mentions being horny to YOU, a girl, it means he isn't looking for someone serious unless it's a serious, long-term relationship. When people look for serious relationships, especially men, they usually take things slow and wait for the girl to initiate because they don't want to scare off a girl they're invested in seriously. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you: it's not personal, and he isn't doing this because you're not interesting enough or good enough for him. He seems to not be looking for something really serious because mentioning himself having horny feelings to a girl is pretty vulgar when you've been talking for a little over a week. If you keep talking to him, I think you'll realize that he's really just in for sex or nudes, but if you're into hook-up culture, then you can enjoy the situation, but inferring from the fact that you're on a forum to decipher what he means, you probably care about him more than a fling. It's not cute flirting because it's legitimate hints of, "I want to fuck you." Cute flirting can be something about how he likes you a lot or something, but when someone flirts about sex, it shows his intentions. It's completely fine to be thinking about sex with a person you started talking to and like, but if you want to be serious and take things slow, you don't mention that sexual attraction so quickly because a serious relationship is based on genuine feelings, not sex.

In summary, if you want something serious, stop wasting your time texting him because he just wants sex. If you want to hook up, take advantage of the situation. And if you want to have some kind of clarification, ask him directly about his intentions: does he want a serious relationship or more of a fling? If he says a serious relationship, he obviously sucks at dating because nobody sexts a week after talking to someone they seriously like. I don't care if he didn't directly say, "I wanna fuck you," because the fact that he's saying he's horny to you infers that he's horny FOR you, and he wants you to know that, and it's obvious of what he wants.

Personally, I'd say drop him... It's not a normal conversation you would have with someone you're seriously interested in. I understand exercise can increase testosterone, but you don't need to mention that you're horny. It's just so unnecessary, and he tried to make it smooth by having context.

honeynut-scenarios · Accepted Answer

Too soon to tell. He left an open invitation for several different responses by saying he went to the gym, and is now hungry. It would be different if he only said, “Bored, and horny.” I wouldn’t look too much into it unless his responses become vague, only allowing the conversation to revolve around sex.

Entechad · Accepted Answer

How old is he? I am not sure if he is talking about Testosterone Replacement Therapy, in which case he may be horny like a 14-year-old around the clock. If he is just claiming because he is a male than I think he is just setting the record straight right up front. Testing the waters to see how you will respond. If I were new to talking to you and we had no previous sexually flirtatious type conversations, I would say he got a favorable response from you.
It's probably what you think, and this is how he sifts through resumes and kicks out the ones that are going to be more of a challenge. You resume passed.

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

How the heck did you get "nudes" out of what he said? 🤔 And no; he's talking about his own natural testosterone.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

Immediately yes lol. Nudes or a hookup.  When they mention being horny in literally the first text they send, you either block and leave or you continue with it if you want it.

pixie215 · Answer

did i miss something? i didn't get wanting nudes from that just shooting the breeze, chatting as they say. the testosterone part just like yup im manly lol i didn't read too much into that part. now if he says send nudes then totally there for nudes!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He seems to be looking for one thing and any person who says their horny right off the bat is not a good person

AviatorTom · Answer

He's not taking testosterone, just pointing out that's what makes men horny. And he's wondering if you have some nice pictures he can wank to.

SnakeBoop · Answer

soon as a dude feels the need to be like "haha im horny" then yeah, no respect for you as a person.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Sounds to me like whatever he was selling, you were interested.

Andres77 · Answer

We're ALWAYS up for some nudes. I just never expect them.

jjj101010 · Answer

Testosterone is natural in men and exercise increases it

Lohulla · Answer

Keep having conversations and with him and he is always trying to make the conversations sexual then you know that’s a red flag except you are cool with it.

Waldoe · Answer

yes... why is he telling you that he is horny? twice? he is a horndog

Anonymous · Answer

he's looking for sex or to cyber or as you kids put it sexting and to jerk his little wee wee off spank his monkey till he spews his baby batter

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Not necessarily but it's certainly possible

Alyssa_11 · Answer

Yeah why would he say that...

JustiReno · Answer

LOL naw sound like you initiate tbh 🚔BONK🏏🦭

jasco · Answer

No sounds like a normal conversation

Reijen · Answer

Might need a little more context.

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s possible

fonduegirl · Answer

It's ambiguous

skyeee_ · Answer

just his hormones

Wise4myage · Answer

Maybe?

Bad_Babe_xox · Answer

kinda

Anonymous · Answer

LOL he’s a noob

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