Are many Vid Chronicles videos unrealistic?

[Anonymous]

I see similar ending:
- The person that treated you like garbage, cheated or used you shows up at your door, apologizes and then you still help them because you're still the ''bigger person''. To me that sounds idiotic. I wouldn't help out someone that screw me over.

In reality if my ex boyfriend ever show up at my door and try to talk to me, this is my response:
- Give me back my money.
- Whether he pays me back or not, my next reply is an ''Now you can GET THE HELL OUT OF MY HOUSE'' (Steve Wilkos style) or slam the door in his face while he's talking.

Seriously are endings like that so unrealistic; still helping them or even giving money to the very person that was terrible to you?

[toocoolforthis83]

I've been there. The mother of my children has emotionally manipulated and tortured me for years. Trashed my name to anyone that'll listen. However, I've never been able to say no and stick to it. I tell myself it's because she's bipolar, or has been cheated on and treated badly. It's taken me seven years to realize that she's never had a faithful relationship. She makes up thing to fight about a she can justify cheating. As obvious it is, I choose to put up with it because she's the only girl I've ever really loved and just can't shake it.

[Asker]

It's still better to be single than putting up with garbage. Having a personality disorder or problem doesn't excuse anyone to treat you horrible. Otherwise, the court would be excusing cases of criminals just because they had a bad upbringing.