He dumped me for being 30 and not wanting a child?

[Anonymous]

He is 41 and said I wasn't young enough and said he didn't like the fact I didn't wants kids.. I told him I didn't want children cause it was something I didn't want to hide. But he cane off saying he is not young and neither am I... And then he just blocked me on WhatsApp.. He said I'm making a mistake in my life by not having children etc etc...

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+1 y

Why did he behave so turned off? And am I really wrong for not wanting kids?

[weasley8]

It’s not wrong of him to leave you if you don’t want kids. That’s completely normal. I couldn’t be with someone who didn’t want kids, because I want kids. Your life paths didn’t line up.


That being said, the way he did it was rude. Saying you’re not young enough is a jerk move, and blocking you was a bit much.

[Sour-rose]

Maayn, fuk that n*gga. Fk up the bum. Just a picky mofo

[one1wild00]

Any gal I date had better want to have kids with me or it's a deal breaker, Not wanting kids, smoker, drug use, or heavy drinker are all dealbreakers for me.

[Asker]

So not wanting kids makes me appear as a smoker, drug user and a drinker? I never smoked a damn cigarette in my life...

[one1wild00]

All those are instant deal breakers for me. Like with everyone on here it's my opinion and what I expect out of a partner.

[Asker]

You don't think its rude to block someone on WhatsApp like that?

[one1wild00]

Little odd to do it without warning unless they are being totally annoying.

[Asker]

I don't know why it was offensive for him, I mean yeah he had a preference for kids and I didn't but that doesn't I would block someone on WhatsApp for it

[Sixgunsound]

I think you’re focusing on the wrong thing, having or not having a presence on social media has a little to nothing to do with you’re in compatible viewpoints on life. It didn’t work out, so why do you still want to talk to him on any kind of social media?

[Anonymous]

You do whatever you want but if he wants kids and you dont then there is no point in him persuing something with you.

[Anno2]

It's such a big deal having kids so deal-breaker for many. I don't blame him.

[Anonymous]

Who cares. You’ll be fine. You’ll have another guy lined up before the week is out.

[Guy13]

Oh well, get all that straightened out upfront…

[Asker]

I did and and told him before going further with the relationship

[FilmGuy93]

Okay. I'm sorry to hear that. How can we help?

[Anonymous]

Honestly it's for the best.

[Asker]

Am I old?

[Asker]

He called me old and he was 11 years older than me

[Opinion Owner]

Nah I'm 30 and guys are still after me. It's because I look good and have a good personality... your eggs dont get hard until 38 anyway... and are you doubting your decision, do you want kids?

[Asker]

No I dong want kids.. But he blocked me on WhatsApp just cause I don't want them.. Do all men feel inferior?

[Opinion Owner]

He wants kids. And you dont. He doesn't want to waste anymore time. Also he only insulted you because you hurt his feelings. Almost like he's not good enough to have your kids but you just genuinely dont want any

[Asker]

I wasn't out to hurt his feelings but I didn't want to lie either, how else was I suppose to put it? I told him to make a decision and let me know soon, he just said I'm old and blocked me on WhatsApp...

[Opinion Owner]

he's an asshole. It's better you saw the real him sooner than later right. I know your feelings are hurt but its life. You'll meet someone who wants the same as you. You're young

[Asker]

I guess its for the best then, thanks for your opinions, have a good day.

[boobliker]

his lose not yours let him go,

[SaartjieJane]

Good riddance

[joeldalton]

ok.. and.