The guy dumped me for not wanting kids and called me old?

[Anonymous]

I told him I don't want kids and he said that he did, I then told to please make up his mind and to tell me his decision about our relationship weather to continue or not. so, he called me explaining that kids are important and I'm not young anymore and that I'm making a mistake, I told him I'm not going to change my mind, he came off offended told my family that I'm spoiled and not young and my family agreed got furious with me...

[Anonymous]

Honestly it’s for the better. If you’re not ready for kids and he is then that’s fine, let him go have kids with someone else. I mean think of Jeannie Mai (from The Real talk show) she was with her husband for years and ultimately they divorced because she wasn’t ready for kids. Fast forward now she has a kid with that one rapper. It’s all about timing and sometimes even compatibility, so don’t feel rushed or pressured. Your family is probably upset because they like him but girl they will get over it, and ultimately it is not their choice. There’s parents that even tell their daughters to stay with abusive or cheating loser men just because of money and stature. You can’t base your choices off other peoples wishes, so screw them all and do you.

[Berethor]

Your biological clock is ticking, girl that don't want kid is lacking in the feminine department.

[bamesjond0069]

Seems about right. And tbh if you really were crazy about him you would want to have kids with him. Clearly he's not doing it for you.

[Asker]

You think I really didn't like him?

[Asker]

He told me that he thought that I didn't like him and me saying not wanting children was an excuse. I'm not sure if he was just being nice.

[bamesjond0069]

Absolutely. In my experience most women don't want kids. But after i go out with them for a few months now they can't wait and want kids really badly.

[Asker]

I see... So those women didn't want kids but after going out with you they changed there minds...

[bamesjond0069]

Yes exactly. The same happens to my one friend who lots of girls like. But some other dudes that struggle to get girlfriends, when they do they dont seem interested in having kids or so it seems to me.

[Asker]

That's interesting

[bamesjond0069]

I've noticed a few girls but one in particular said she could imagine throwing it all away to be barefoot and pregnant for me. Lol. But was afraid her family wouldn't accept her and she would be viewed as a loser. I think she's one of the few that verbalized her thoughts. But i get tons of girls try and get preggo i got at least 4 pregnant already. 😅

[Wise4myage]

I think he did you a favor.

[Asker]

Does it seemed like I wasn't really into him?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, I think so.

[Zolly99999]

You are better off with out him

[MysticallyConcieted]

I would’ve had them babies

[Asker]

at 19? lol