Need some advice?

[wizzyred_]

I have been living in an apartment with a guy room mate for two years and we had a great friendship in the two years both helping each other with things. Recently i came to know he was leaving for a job and two days back confessed to being into me and wanted a dinner date. I was a bit taken aback i just didn't think of him as more than a friend but i agreed and on the night he confessed other things about me and also asked to make out. I refused at first but later did make out and it was awkward af. I have been able to talk to him or say anything since then and its been awkward and he is leaving next Wednesday. What should in do?

Its a bit personal and you can feel free to ask anything in private or here. Thank you !

[ohsheeT]

Okay so first of all what do you want would you like to date him because if you're not 100% sure then it's not going to work if there's any hesitation it's not going to work because here's the thing if you start dating and sleeping with him and you get into a big argument if both people are grown up then was going to ask the other one to leave I'm sure since he wanted to make out with you that he probably wants to sleep with you too I mean do you want to go there

I can tell you from experience that I've helped a lot of people I've helped out girls and one thing led to another to another it down deep I knew that it wasn't going to work out because I just knew that the person wasn't the right person for me but it seems like once you have sex everybody wants some more and it's only going to last is long as the first argument the first lie the first time you feel cheated or disrespected and that's when it starts going downhill what do you want to do

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for the future it isn’t written & as for your story it can always have a happen ending or feel free to write whatever you want. As for your roommate guy friend it sucks that he is leaving & he picked a bad time to confess things to you. Love is in the air my friend & if you have nothing holding you back I say go with him if you love him back.

[OlderAndWiser]

What is holding you back with this guy? What isn't right?

[wizzyred_]

I dnt know how to explain it tbh

[OlderAndWiser]

If there i a strong possibility that this guy could be The One,

Who should you date; who should you marry? ↗

then maybe you should consider exploring this. Otherwise, he is moving very soon and you will just be another notch on his bedpost.

[wizzyred_]

Yeah

[Avicenna]

I wouldn't keep things "professional" until then. He'd made things very awkward. Do you feel comfortable being around him alone until he moves out?

[wizzyred_]

Its a bit awkward

[Avicenna]

* I would

Maybe invite a friend or family member to visit you until he moves out

[Guy13]

Sit down face-face for 30 minutes and talk through it..

[wizzyred_]

Its hard tbh considering how we were friends and one night made it so embarrassing

[Guy13]

We have know each other for 2 years... and before you leaver I want to clear the air. I expect to still be on your Facebook and see how you and job are doing... THEN be honest of how things felt... ONE DAMN SENTENCE at a time.-don't bombard him... let him say his thoughts while on the Subject. "Awkward kissing for instance" you are bright and I am sure you will handle it well... especially since it is clear that you value and respect him :-)

[wizzyred_]

Yeah maybe but its hard

[Guy13]

Person of Quality or Person of Regret? I think that is what it boils down too 4 months from now in mirror. You know I am guessing only. I'm not there to see interactions. :-)

[Iron_Man]

He’s already leaving he had plenty of chances to date you maybe he wants one big night before he leaves if you know what I mean

[wizzyred_]

Maybe

[qwert1234]

If I am the dude, a simple goodbye and goodluck would be nice.

[Zolly99999]

You need to sit him down and talk to him and straighten this out hopefully.. don't get into something if you really don't want to.

[Anonymous]

Give him BJ