Do you think I have tokophobia?

[Anonymous]

I am extremely afraid of child birth and being pregnant as a matter of fact. I feel so strange about being physically pregnant and carrying s human being inside me, I don't feel natural about it. Like I do like looking at baby pictures and kissing my nieces and nephew but I don't desire my own child especially with all the work and physical pain involved while bring a child into the world and taking care of them.

Im gonna be 31 years old and my mind and emotions still remain stiff and hard about kids and child birth..

[jshm2]

Nah, you're just ill educated and insecure.

[Asker]

I don't like kids but it doesn't mean that I wouldn't love mine. I do want them but the moment the guys asked me about having kids with him I just get so turned off and break up with him. I broke up with two guys over this..

[Asker]

I'm 31... Is it possible to find a guy who feels the way I do about not wanting kids?

[RedThread]

If you don't want to ever get pregnant then you don't have to. Don't let people pressure you into things you don't want.

[Asker]

Are there any guys who would want to be with me?

[RedThread]

Sure not everyone wants to have kids.

[duttyjamagyal]

You're thirty my dude go get therapy and get off GaG. ur getting old u need to figure your shit out

[d3n0939]

Okay kid

[Asker]

I sound silly?

[d3n0939]

Yes, sorry. I think you should try to feel more matured. Perhaps change your friends circle

[Asker]

All my siblings have kids, all my friends have kids, I grew up with a upbringing that's says "no chip, no life" but I don't feel that way, and I lost many good potential partners cause of this...

[d3n0939]

Don't be afraid of it neither think of it. Rather, you should focus on find a loving guy and stability in your life. This thing will come naturally. by the way, most moms are afraid of this, we afraid of things we don't know.

[d3n0939]

by the way You are not a toxic person. That is a great quality to have

[Asker]

Okay thank a lot of your advice. Its very helpful. Have a great day.

[d3n0939]

you too, dear