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Yep I have gotten colder through the years from betrayal so I always wind up giving out more love then I receive. I deal with most things myself and have learned to just redirect my energy to making money and my physical appearance. I thought I would have that love, loyalty, and commitment in my current relationship and I did for a long time and I don't know why but recently I haven't seen it. Ik that I have forgiven him for the things he's done to me because I do love him and we all make mistakes and hurt people we love so when you have been together as long as we have ik forgiveness is a big part of a long lasting relationship. I do know I definitely would walk if it happened again, because obviously it's not being reciprocated back to me. Ik I'm a damn gd woman and my worth and with me shifting my concentration on me and self love when I'm not feeling that love from others I definitely am less emotional and it improves other aspects of me. I believe in karma also because I have noticed a few others doing shady shit to me and ik for facts, but have been playing dumb lmao... the best way to serve up vengeance is when they don't think you have a clue and you can really get them bk and they have no idea that your doing it so then you can really get them back good. I'm a very cool down ass person, but if you do shit to me that is shady expect to see the worst side
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I feel you so much and my condolences. I have had bad experience with people too and I have set boundaries. Well, actually after those incidents, I know what I want at least. So I filter those who aren't good for me.
But do you actually know that seeking vengeance only hurts yourself even more? =/ - +1 y
Yeah I'm ok with it it doesn't bother me a bit I've already disconnected myself from those people when they did me dirty and I see it as they have it coming. I don't make it my entire focus and it seems to just get done with little effort also. Their biggest loss was when they did me dirty because I am definitely 1 of the most down ass people there are and would literally do absolutely anything for my people so once they fuck that up they were already losing major anywaysđ¤ˇââď¸
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You are worth the effort thenđ I hope that compliment didn't scare you off. I wish you a pleasant Sunday and stay strong đ
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It takes quite a bit to "hurt" me, but if someone does manage to cause injury, then yes, I do what I can to see them suffer. I do not generally repay in kind, but I do whatever I can until I feel satisfied, and I do not need them to know that I am the cause of their suffering. Their suffering is enough. In some cases, depending on what I have done, I do not need to see their suffering, since I know that it is inevitable.
I have not been in that position in a long time, so I am not sure about how I would react to pain now. But I am sure that my response to involuntary physical pain, will be whatever brings me a feeling of vengeance.
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Iâd love to. I had a situation where I was incarcerated almost two years just to be found innocent over a false accusation. Authorities love to say âThereâs consequences for your actionsâ but in reality, itâs a one way street. They have the resources to do whatever they want without consequence, or if we inflict the consequence, weâre retaliated against. Itâs not out of our governmentâs âmoral correctnessâ itâs because might is right.
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Yeah it feels like enough but you can't cause you are too good to do. You can't make yourself convince to hurt anyone, you don't wanna take any action on them cause they'll get hurt even though you are getting hurt like a hell, but you can't make yourself to make it.
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when someone hurts me so bad i start swearing and telling myself i hurt them harder than they did but it just words i am better than them and they don't worth my time but when i pray to God that they ll get hurt and that will comes a day they would take their panishement
10 Reply I withdraw all emotional and philological investment on them the moment I change my view of them, this is the best way to kick them out of my life and make them uncomfortable. I believe in karma under Allah's hand 👌
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Of course I âfeelâ like it but I usually donât, although back in high school I would try and ultimately fail lol.. honestly I choose to look at making myself better and choosing my own happiness rather than letting some bum sit in my mind rent free 🤷🏻ââď¸
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resentment gives me acid reflux
I don't want nor need any of that... lol
fortunately though, I have not been really in that position in which people were able to hurt me physically or emotionally10 Reply- Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 y
I don't have a list of people to kill or anything. I'm not going to waste time in my life exacting retribution on someone. Be I neither forget or forgive. At least not to someone who isn't genuinely sorry. But if if I happen upon a shot to exact revenge you best believe I'm taking it. Even 20 years later. 😀
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i am vengeance...
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I want the man who raped me turned into a girl and have to spend a few years in a men's prison for a few years... In fact, make THAT the standard punishment for rape and there'd be a lot less of it!
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I'm so sorry you had to go through that
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@Blackcosmo unfortunately it's something that happens to most women in our lifetimes đ
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That's a sad truth.
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I usually let it go but it still hurts me. I don't think I could get revenge on them but karma will do it's job.
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Yes but I dont because I know the Lord has better in store for me
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Not every hurt requires fire and brimstone revenge.
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Only theoretically. In fact, in all my life I only had reason for ''vengeance'' twice.
And in both cases the culprits have died unnaturally, and without my assistance.
God is just :D
00 Reply I would love to, but I'm sure they'll get what's coming to them someday
10 ReplyI think about it but I never actually would
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Yes, revenge is awesome and fulfilling... Even if it's not personally done by you and just fate giving it back to them... Also rage and vengeance can be great motivators
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Can feel like it forever.
Bigger questions is whether I'd actually do it.10 Reply - +1 y
I will wait for them slowly and then do
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I wish death note was real lmao
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I know right? LOL.
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I couldn't care less and I believe in karma.
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If they have it coming, than so be it.
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Yeah
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