Do you feel like most people in your life don't deserve to have you in their lives?

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So what do you do about it if you're feeling like this?

river23 · Accepted Answer

Yeah I feel that way all the time, and in the end i always find out they didn't truly want me there anyways. It hurts because I love people and I just want some real friends maybe one day something more. But God it's so damn hard to find those kind of people now a days. I do try and with the people I'm with now it's because I care about them so I stick around and they need help. I don't really care what anyone thinks anymore. With how I'm treated I don't think any deserves to have me, but I hate being alone and feeling lonely. I do love helping people so I don't mind as much even if they are undeserving of me. People tend to take advantage of me because I'm nice and I'm willing to do anything to try and help them have a better life. But I let people take advantage of me to a certain degree if they cross the line I close myself off to the world. I've actually had a few people who were undeserving of me, but we grew close became friends for real and they told me one thing before they left to better themselves and their lives. They told me I was to good for this world I still dont know exactly what they meant, but they told me threw letters that their doing amazing in life and are extremely happy they said it was because of me. I don't yet know what to make of that because I've yet to truly open my heart back up to the world. It seems like I've opened up but in truth I've not opened up at all. But shit I wrote so much, I mean you asked for my opinion I have I just hope no one takes it the wrong way, but night everybody 🤗😴

Haha456 · Accepted Answer

yes. but i will soon ditch them eventually when i can. Never ever stay with people who don't deserve you. Once you leave them and they no longer receive your services, they will finally realize how much you are worth. When people have you , they take you for granted. thats why they don't appreciate you

Fuentes · Accepted Answer

No I seem to be the only with a brain to everyone I meet. Through my whole life I been the brains in my family since 9 years old. Trust me I hate thinking for other people. I think that's one of my biggest pet peeves with women is their lack of knowledge because it tells me I will be 100% the brains in the relationship.

FilmGuy93 · Accepted Answer

I used to feel that way. I got around it by getting more selective about the company I keep.

Tekashi_Rosas · Answer

I fell like the people who do care about you, reach out and actually care about how ur doing. I don’t feel like anybody in my life doesn’t deserve me, cause I keep a small circle around me. It’s not like about if they deserve you, it’s if you deserve them. If they just waste ur time or spread rumors bout you, cut people off.

NathanDavis · Answer

hmmm, no... definitely not we both decided to be, or stick with each other, and also did it genuinely... lol

iiyuizx · Answer

sometimes. but I am pretty sure that each one of them is in my life for a reason. so I'm not really complaining about it.

Whatthefluff · Answer

I think of it the complete opposite way lol. Thank God there are some people who can deal with me and my idiosyncrasies. . .

LilyFlorisa · Answer

I feel like sometimes because of being human.

Rei02 · Answer

Neither in a narcissist-arrogant way nor in a low self-steem way.

dustybiker · Answer

No. If anything they are far better than me.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

with two people. I feel the opposite way with everyone else.

shanshu · Answer

Depends, how's exactly are they behaving towards you? Are they still friendly towards you or is it that they arnt around at your beck and call. You got to remember people have their own lives aswell

Fireguy17 · Answer

No not at all I'm lucky to have them in my life.

J2ohhhhh · Answer

Fuck yeah. They don't realise how much character development I provide to them.

Iron_Man · Answer

No these are very good people They do deserve me

Anonymous · Answer

I had this issue before, but everything got better when I got rid of most of them and found better people to be with...

Anonymous · Answer

I don't mind strangers so long they're not causing any harm or invade my personal and private space.

Anonymous · Answer

Accept that you're a narcissist. And as they accepting your problem is the first step on the road to recovery.

Igooo · Answer

No because they never ask me out or approach me.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm so special that no body deserve to have me in their lives...😂

Sonorous · Answer

Yes.

Aerolyn · Answer

Aside from my brother, no.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No. Sometimes I think I don't deserve them.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Yup they deserve better 😂😂

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Probably, yes

Anonymous · Answer

No, I have never thought that.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Most don’t. This is correct

Jaggermoves12655 · Answer

Nope can't relate

Alex8736 · Answer

Can you be more specific?

Zolly99999 · Answer

A lot yes. Only a few do

LavLavLuv · Answer

kinda

eagle1951 · Answer

never

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