Do you notice most people think they deserve better than what they already have in front of them?

[Finchie40]

I feel social media played a big part on destroying people’s minds on believing they deserve better than what they already have in front of them , Relationships are mainly falling apart because most people think they deserve better than what they already have with someone , comparing their lives to others and thinking grass is greener on the other side , So Learning to remove your inner selfishness is the only way you will see love grow with someone that does the same for you , if you can’t remove your inner selfishness then you are best to just stay single and not waste Your time trying to find love , When you are constantly hiding things from your partner and not making your partner your top priority , you truly don’t love them , you only like the convenience of them , you think it’s the right thing to do to stay with, but are you truly happy within yourself? if you are hiding things from your partner it makes you a selfish person, We are always going to see someone more attractive then your current partner , we are always going to be fascinated by what someone else says or the way they present themselves , cuz it’s new and exciting to us , but is that really
Going to make you happy? Picking someone else over picking your partner? For love to grow you need to water the grass you are already standing on , over trying to water the grass someone where else , No relationship is perfect and no one else is going to save you , when you learn to water the grass you are already standing on that’s where love grows , if your partner is trying to water the grass elsewhere then let them go and realize you deserve someone that wants to stand by you no matter what , we can’t force someone to love us but we can love them the same way we want to be loved in return

[serious]

Well there is no question here, this is more like a mytake. Nevertheless this is really good and what you have said is very true.

In most cases, people in relationships either want someone better or at least someone different than their current partner they are with. Yes it is not the correct way to think but I suppose that is a flaw in human beings, flaw in terms or thinking and human relationships.

This is also the reason why people end up having multiple relationships because they either look for someone different or someone better. It is a never thing.

Yes, not everyone is like this but many people have this sort of thinking.

I would say this is a good mytake you have posted.

[Guy13]

Yes this is true and never will change unless a certain level of experience derived maturity is met. Once one learns grass is not greener on other side the hard way then they recognize when they have it good.

[CoolCatMar1]

I think my boyfriend is already the besg i can get. What you are saying is awful. Why date someone if the future goal isn't to stay committed or marry?

[Finchie40]

Sadly people tend to get bored , I can’t predict your relationship with your boyfriend , but through my experiences in relationships through the years , people tend to get bored and selfish and start feeling like they are missing out on something , so the tend to cheat or end the relationship for someone else , Now for your sake I hope that never happens to you but like I said we never really know , All relationships are a 50/50 chance on whether someone is going
To stay by your side or not , We can only give what we want to receive but eventually it might turn into you constantly giving without receiving. your boyfriend might get selfish and decide he wants to be with another
Girl or you might get selfish and decide you want to be with another guy , sadly
This shit happens a lot

[katiesmuff]

I would agree with about everything you said here.

[SnowedIn]

I think I agree with the overall point of what you're trying to say but I disagree with your statement that people think they deserve better. Sometimes whatever it is isn't better and they often know it. But you're still right.