So whats been going on in life?

[DizzyDesii]

I was away a month or two. During September, I was honestly just enjoying some time off after my other job ended up in a merger. Honestly, best way to escape those hoes ever 🤣 But then I ended up at this new job in early November. Tbh, i took the shit for the 50k+ pay (which is a lovely minimum for bullshit ass MS). Bt i haaaate what I’m doing. Feels like I’m back working for Dept of Ed since I’m assisting these bullshit students. This time, I’m having to qualify folks to get into medical school. I hate these little mfs already and I’m already ready to quit 😂 Training was awful and now that I’m on my own, I was lost like heck last week. Today I feel a bit more confident, but thats also because I haven't had to assist a student yet. I have great coworkers in terms of who was in my training class but the folks who trained us can be such asses. I’ve already made enemies out of two of them. 🙈 The goal was to keep working here at least a year, but now I’m like “Man let me see if i can even stick around til January.” I’m not loyal to no job, especially one that makes me unhappy. Money isn’t everything. And I doubt I’ll be on GAG as much. But what have you personally been up to? #FeelFreeToList

[ZenJen444]

I agree with you. If I'm not happy somewhere I am leaving I'm not loyal to these clients. Money isn't everything in certain situations. Yes, it can help you buy this, that and the other BUT if you're not happy somewhere you'll eventually leave anyway. Might aswell take a paycut and have your mental health. Good for you for putting yourself first.

Life's been good

1. Did the same as you. I had an additional client I was helping with but she was driving me crazy, my coworker was lazy so work was falling on me and the daughter not paying attention to the fact the nurse is lazy. So I cut back to where I only work that location one day out of a week. They can figure the shit out themselves not my problem🤣 and when a better client comes up I'm ditching that one in a heart beat to go to the newer one cause no.

2. Went to visit my friend at his new apartment and loved it so much that now I'm on a mission. Nice location, better people and so many fun things to do in his area so were already plotting some fun things to do , pretty excited. See #3

3. Apartment shopping can't wait to move. Although this was my very first apartment with memories it's time for me to move up and on in life and be around better people. The people around here have no aspirations for anything more and not professional at all.

4. Drove to Florida to hang out with my cousins had a blast. I needed the break.

5. January I start the RN-BSN

6. Girl are you gonna watch season 4 of YOU next year? I can't wait

7. Looking at starting a business so I can have passive income. That way I'll have more freedom and not be physically at work often. Something fun 😉 stay tuned

8. Assisted with a volunteer event. It was fun met some cool people

[DizzyDesii]

-We stay ditching clients 😭😂
-Oooh congrats what state?
-I’m still trying to work my way to FL. I wanna experience the food and theme parks.
-Congrats with the RN-BSN. I have to inform students about that program and others.
-I still haven't watched season 2 of You and i had the dvd for years lol
-I just want to start my own biz only if its selling bras or lingerie 😂 otherwise no
-Im unfortunately not nice enough to do volunteer work. I need pay for my time 🤣

[ZenJen444]

1. These clients are ungrateful asf. I'm sick of their asses🤣
2. I'm staying in the same state just moving to a different city
3. Season 1 was a bit slow but once it got to the last episode of season 1 things got good.
4. Yes definitely go for it that way you have less time around people. People are really ungrateful

5. Not nice enough to volunteer 🤣. Neither am I. I just do it for the networking. Other than that I hate people

[ZenJen444]

Have you been seeing the shit with kanye and Kim?😭😭😂 wtf is going on. Must be another season KUWTK coming soon

[DizzyDesii]

Season 1 was my fave. I watched it when it was on lifetime before the show moved to netflix for season 2. So i had to buy season 2 on dvd but i just haven't opened it. I dont have netflix. And damn i do need to try to get better at networking so i can get a job i actually like. And keeping up with the kardashians is off air, they have their hulu show where they air out stuff

[ZenJen444]

Bingo🎯😂😂😭. I just network for the connections honestly. Yes , you will find out about all sorts of opportunities when you network.

[melanieeeB]

Giirl congrats to the new Job! Try it out a few months and if you still wanna quit well go ahead haha and all people who are like studying or are doctors medicine are somehow different lol


And nothing much, I just quit my Job, started university and am searching for a new Job lol

[DizzyDesii]

What i hate about this job is that we have to study every night as if we’re back in school ourselves 😂

[melanieeeB]

What do you need to study for? Haha

[DizzyDesii]

We have to know the medical terms and stuff so that we can help the students. This some bullshit. I never cared about doctor type crap lol

[melanieeeB]

Ohh okay yeah, does make sense 🤔

[AlexEfron]

🤔 I thought you quit g@g permanently. Well you will eventually 😕. Goodluck with your job though.

Hasn't been that great for me. Everything has been going downhill since I moved to a different city. Lost friendships. Even though I have a few known faces here, it's still painfully lonely.

I realised the difference of a metropolitan city from a cosmopolitan city 🙂. I had better expectations from the new city.

The music I listen to, makes me feel at peace, but it's upsetting as well. 😂 And YouTube thinks I'm suicidal and prompts me with helpline numbers.

It's been almost 6 months and I haven't been able to make a single friend. Everyone feels so distant. Only acquaintances, no friends.

The definition of fun changed drastically. Now weekends, bars, clubs, getting drunk, partying is the only way of fun for everyone (I don't enjoy it. So it's understandable that I still don't have friends)

I have seen more liquor shops than pharmacists, chemists, schools, colleges, libraries, shopping malls, hospitals combined, within the 10km radius.

My health deteriorating at a steady pace as well.

My diet has changed as well. Since people are predominantly vegetarian here, I have to thrive on vegan diet only 🥲. What irritates me is the advertisement boards in front of shops and restaurants - "Pure Veg". It irritates me so much. Any restaurant that has a non veg dishes will ALWAYS have veg items, but there are restaurants which sell veg but no non veg at all... then WHY ADVERTISE IT AS ALL VEG!!! I know you have veg items. Tell me if you have non veg items!!

Overall it has been awful. Could've been worse. I'm expecting it to get worse. I don't have any hope left in me for a better future.

[DizzyDesii]

I haven't quit the site because i want to keep my questions and mytakes. And aww did you move for a job? When could you possibly move back? What makes youtube think you want to hurt yourself? And yea I've actually been doing okay without the friendships and acquaintances. I tend to be a me me me person anyways 🤣 I was never a partier nor drinker and yea please cutback on it because thats probably why YT worries. Please have hope left. Your life means so much even if you dont realize it

[AlexEfron]

I'm not suicidal 😂😂. And I'm not going to hurt myself 🤣. It's just the kind of videos I watch and the songs I listen to, that are kind of depressing 😅.

Yes, moved to a different city for job. On the brightside, the company plans to open an office in my hometown in 3-6months. Hopefully I can go back. This place is so depressing that the only thing that beats it is my salary. 🥲 That's another horribly depressing thing I have in my life. 🤔 And the breakup comes third in the list.

😂 Anyways, I know you said you don't like the friendships and acquaintances, but if you do plan to leave this site someday, I'd love to keep in touch if you're cool with it 😊

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i won't be leaving but if i ever do, sure :)

[Anpu23]

Hay, nice to see you back! Congratulations on the new job, sorry it sucks.

Whats up in my world? Lets see, the factory I help run is being closed by the corporate offices. 200 people got a pink slip, and I am out of a job in 2 months. 10 more weeks and then I am back in the job market. So I just booked a flight to Las Vegas for my final day, then a train trip up the California coast to San Francisco, then a train ride home...

I think I have a job lined up but... Meanwhile I am launching a new website for my business. Added a new product line and am marketing the heck out of it!

[DizzyDesii]

Wait what noooo! Why would they close it? Did you break some type of rule/regulation? I understand if you dont wanna go in detail

[Anpu23]

No, not enough work for all 5 factories so they shut this one down. Sucks but we didn't do anything wrong.

[Anonymous]

Heyyy it's has been sooo long... It's good to see you back 💕💕🤗🤗

I have been very busy in my college life... actually i have one more year to finish medical school... And I am preparing for my final exam... And simultaneously...

i am preparing for USMLE LEVEL 1 AND LEVEL 2 EXAMS...
ITS FOR MEDICAL RESIDENCY IN USA...

SO HOPEFULLY I WILL B JOINING MEDICAL RESIDENCY IN USA WITHIN 2 AND HALF TO 3 YEARS..

I AM PREPARING PRETTY WELL FOR MY FINAL MEDICAL EXAMS AND TO CRACK USMLE EXAMS... IT'S SOOO MUCH OF WORK BUT I AM CONFIDENT IN MYSELF..

AND HOPEFULLY I WILL B SETTLED SOON IN USA 😁

[Opinion Owner]

And recently i had taken vaccination with my friends and sister and cousins... We had most wonderful and amazing time... We enjoyed soo much... We had been to a beautiful hill station and...

we booked a villa which is right beside a river... It was on this beautiful hill where we had amazing views

We had gone there in last week of November... And now back to college work and studies.. so that's my life update for this past 2 months 😋😋

[DizzyDesii]

Congrats aqueel!

[EricJonesAB]

You're back in time for the challenge tonight, lol.

I think Jordan has been plotting his revenge against Tori. He's been sharing a bed with her, she'd back in love with him, then he's gonna fool around with Nurys to hurt her back for screwing Fessy.

[DizzyDesii]

I can't stand tori cheatin ass. She cheats on eeveryone she gets with, starting with derek so i won't feel bad if jordan does that. I've never liked jordan neither since the Nia situation. But man i hate my boys Jay and Turbo got sent home. Im tired of the house helping the opps in eliminations. Im liking Horacio but i never liked Olivia since Love Island. I also hated Johnny and Raven got eliminated. Like almost all my faves are gobe. Darrell too :( I dont even remember whose left that i like. But sadly twitter spoiled the winners before the show even started so i already dislike this season in general 😂

[EricJonesAB]

I'm just amazed that Jordan and Aneesa are figuring out ways to win or at least be in the top teams on a lot of the challenges, they're fun to watch.
Yeah Tori's gonna be huting tonight because I feel like Jordan is spiteful as hell, lol. I wouldn't be surprised if he goes after Fessy 2 seasons from now for dislocating his shoulder way back, lol.
There's part of me that thinks Devin and Tori are actually meant to be together and it's probably best for Jordan to move on anyway and cut that damn mullet off already.

[DizzyDesii]

Devin is not man enough for tori. She like macho shit. I used to be a devin fan but not after he tries hard to be a Wes. Jordans prtner was originally Naya and i forgot who aneesas was but they bailed so jordan ended up with aneesa. They were usually enemies and didn't get along til she befriended tori. I wouldn't be surprised if aneesa uses the strap on tori

[EricJonesAB]

LoL!
Yeah, it didn't make any sense that Aneesa was Jordan's ride or die. It really doesn't make sense for Nia to be either except that they were dating off the show for a while. The true ride or die for Jordan should've been Sarah Rice because they had a fling, they won together, and they were friends. I think she's done with the show though.
I was sad for Jay and Michelle, but I guess you're better off to align with Jordan and they found out how competitive and spiteful he will be if you cross him.

[DizzyDesii]

People disliked jordan for what he said to nia but nia forgave him and wanted people to stop hating him so she was coming as his ride or die. I still just dont like him in general. But this season was the nicest he seemed until he and jay went at it. I love that Jay didn't play a scared game. Br his first two elim moves were dumb. He shouldve voted all vets everytime. And im glad nelson chose dumbass fessy over olivia. I watched love island, she's a user and im 99% sure she's not even into black men. She used the one on love island to win and she was looking to do it again on here. I actually can't stand Nurys bt always thought she was pretty since Are You the One. She keeps coming at raven on twitter and its annoying because raven is sooo sweet. But both their dumbasses fell for my boy johnny. he's stays cheating and he chose raven as a partner because she looks like his Love Island ex Cely (who was the first sent home on Challenge USA).

[EricJonesAB]

A lot of these people are new to me to be honest, but I do think Nurys is sexy. She also seems like the type to pursue the guy who can help her game the most. She seems to want to make a name for herself on the Challenge and Jordan is always a contender to win. So it will be interesting to see how their connection plays out.
Anyway, I've got to go get some groceries.
Welcome back, nice to talk.

[DizzyDesii]

He def is playing with toris feelings lmao

[EricJonesAB]

Yeah I think her being with Fessy after he injured Jordan was enough to really piss him off. I don't think he really cares about her now.

[DizzyDesii]

And he shouldn't. She cheated on everyone she's been with. she's for the streets

[EricJonesAB]

That's true, she even admitted before that she's got a bad track record with men. I think she's getting therapy and she's on medication now or something, who knows with her? She's said that the only reason she banged Fessie is because Jordan dumped her and she wanted to hurt him.
The thing about Jordan is I don't think he's as innocent either. Apparently he had a girlfriend at home when he first banged Tori and she was harassing them long into their relationship. I think Jordan and Tori are both a little wacky, but they're interesting to watch anyway.

[DizzyDesii]

Jordan was always “off” so i never cared for him. He and Tori are good competitors but i’ll never root for either

[EricJonesAB]

The only reason I ever liked Jordan is because he reminded me of my older brother who got killed in a car crash. They both had black hair and were very competitive and capable, always had to be number 1 at everything. My brother was a little cooler than Jordan and funnier.
Anyway, sometimes I forget how young Jordan is and still immature in a lot of ways.
It's difficult to find heroes to cheer for on the Challenge these days. Johnny seems lazy now, Fessy's a cry baby who thinks he should be the goat, Wes is overrated, CT is great but it took him twenty some seasons to win what Jordan did in 6. I'm waiting for somebody new, who's also a sweet person to come in and be successful.

[DizzyDesii]

I thought jordan was in his 40s lmao. Guess i learn something new daily. But rip to your brother :( And johnny seems careless this season because he has won the show many times and seems bored now, PLUS he's played with one of the worst players (along with aneesa, leroy, etc lmao). They never win. Wes is overrated but he's better than devin. I dislike both now because of their cockiness and how they degrade and manipulate others. Its more than a game in my opinion when it comes to how they treat people. CT is such a hottie and divorced now. Had i watched the old seasons, i’d dislike him but i came in around the times he was on/off with diem. He was rude at times but somehow i still dell for him. he's overrated to me now though. Im tired of all the vets and thats why i liked Challenge USA because those rookies did AMAZING up until the finale

[JDavid25]

I have been up to the same thing as last time.. Work, gym, finally got back ot studying Web Development so I can move up in life.. So yeah.. But well damn.. Will you ever find a job you like? Lol... I think you might have to weigh the pros and cons..

[DizzyDesii]

I really thought this would be the one but the guy lied about the task at hand

[JDavid25]

Geez, what responsibilities did he originally tell you were involved?

[DizzyDesii]

He made it seem like sales/recruiting but im basically a walking encyclopedia and having to study clinical terms nightly and all that shit

[JDavid25]

Well damn.. I'm still tripping that you did all that school for a degree you still haven't used.. Not to mention you good did.. Geez.. At least the salary is looking pretty decent.. Is 50k good for Mississippi?

[DizzyDesii]

MS doesn't like to pay over 20-45k so yea

[JDavid25]

Hahaha.. Hey that's a silver lining right there.. 😎👍.. But, yeah you'll probably just find another job paying around the same if you quit..

[DizzyDesii]

Nope this is my first 50k ever. A lot are hard to find and hard to get the position

[JDavid25]

That makes sense honestly.. Well the more experience you gain, the easier should get to land more 50k+ jobs..

[DizzyDesii]

None have actually required experience tho. They just look at my degree. It could be any degree but they just look at the fact its a bach

[TrueConfection]

It sounds like you went from the oven to the frying pan. Still, the pay isn't something to sneeze at for MS. I visited MS once or twice and it's like being in a Hallmark movie. I can't even picture someone being rude, unless they're not from the deep south. 💔 The song, "O-o-h Child" comes to mind (I sing it to my kids)...

Ooh-oo child

Things are gonna get easier

Ooh-oo child

Things'll get brighter

Here, we had the kids home from college for Thanksgiving and ther are coming home for Christmas. I finally cut our cable company and it feels so good. I got a different internet provider and we're saving $200/month PLUS our internet speed more than doubled. That's very exciting art my age. 😂

We've also had a few crisis, but we'll work through it all somehow.

Glad you popped back on gag of only for a bit. 🤗

[DizzyDesii]

Lol what do you mean from the over to the frying pan 😂 Central and south MS are very nice and there's the southern hospitality. But north MS is a handful. I would not recommend visiting unless you're attending a sports game or casino. And yea MS doesn't like to pay over $20-45k so yea i’d take that 50k+ extra boost. Goal now is to make 65k+

[TrueConfection]

Sweet goal! The oven to the frying pan because that last job you had sounded like a nightmare.

[DizzyDesii]

All of em are honestly

[Sour-rose]

Congrats on the job! <3 It's been a helluva few months. Been gunning to find a job out of my home city, and think I found one within reason. Had to drop the one at walmart due to we had 11 people... then 6... then 7... then three. Me included. I knew I had to dip off ship. Mom and aunt tried to say that would mean more hours but they must not see what I saw. 3 people working at this ghetto Walmart, and if one of us calls out, well there's not many who can take it. So yeah, lotta hours but wouldn't be worth it.

Mother still sees like a rat and works like one, lost my car but gained one off of my grandad. No matter what these days, those who love me I cherish them the most.

[DizzyDesii]

Wow youve gone through a rollercoaster of things but i hope things continue to go up from here

[kellytheman]

Pretty much the same working a lot but the biggest I have a new friends with benefits and me and her took the no nut November challenge ( her idea) and she didn't last 2 weeks while I lasted the whole month. I done it multiple times and failed and passed but I not doing it again. by the way gald you are back

[DizzyDesii]

Lol why even do the November thing! And thank you

[kellytheman]

I don't know she is in her 2O's and I feel it what generational thing they think.

[DizzyDesii]

Imin my 20s as well but only like freshman in college follow that crap

[kellytheman]

Yeah she is in college

[Ms_Facesitter]

I admitted to wondering if my job was my passion or not. That thought was stuck for a while. I changed jobs and I'm enjoying it more. One month in. I'm not sure if it's my passion, but I'm happy I took this step.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i dont truly have a passion anymore. I just work it until i can't bear it anymore lol

[ShadezMcgee]

Been dealing with military career moves and adjustments at work now that it is just two of us holding the most important positions of the company.

[DizzyDesii]

Wow glad to see you leveling up tho

[SnowedIn]

Business trips to Austin, Seattle, and New York City. 23rd wedding anniversary. Oldest son turned 20. Youngest son turned 14. Decorating the house. GaG and more GaG. Work.

[DizzyDesii]

Wow i’d love to visit NY! And congrats on the wedding anniversary! Its beautiful to see such things last these days. Aww the kiddos are aging up. We prob won't decorate this year for Christmas since im making everyone think they have no gifts. But im gonna surprise em 🤣

[SnowedIn]

Thank you! Yeah... they grow too fast.

That is an AWESOME idea about not decorating and Christmas. I may try that some year!

[Agape93]

Went on vacation a while back with babe, had Samhain with some friends, had dinner on Thanksgiving with babe, spent a weekend fixing stuff up and started an informal apprenticeship

[DizzyDesii]

Holy smokes! Look at you... congrats 👏

[Agape93]

Thanks :)

[ArtemisSilver]

Slipped on some ice and damaged my knee. Unfortuely this means that I can't do any guy on top positions and it's put a bit of a damper on my love life.

Aside from that it's just work and family 24/7

[DizzyDesii]

Not exactly on top but maybe standing or spooning

[ArtemisSilver]

Standing ought to work, or gal on top, but still.

[lilyanony1]

New job, puppy got attacked, spending time with mum. Preparing for Christmas. And not having enough time for myself to just chill.

[DizzyDesii]

Nooo got attacked by who and how?

[lilyanony1]

So basically I was walking him to my mums and this stupid woman had her husky that doesn't listen to her off the lead. Consequently he came rushing over and I panicked.
Bruno being the friendly boy he is bowed down to say he's nice. But when the woman came over and started to put the lead on the dog he got aggressive and grabbed Bruno and then tried to bite him. he's lucky he had a jacket on. All he ended up with was some fur loss and was shaken up..

[DizzyDesii]

Holy smokes i bet!!

[BCRanger10]

Learning my "new" position at work, getting ready for annual inventory, car repairs, not much else.

[DizzyDesii]

I hope you like the position and that its a level up

[BCRanger10]

It's okay. It was an opportunity that I had to go after. We'll see where it takes me.

[dragoblack]

Thanksgiving happened, i got covid, covid is on the raise again. I got a look over of the bill my insurance got sent... reminded me why i don't like going to hospitals.(if it wasn't for my dual insurance, i would have owed $10,000)

[DizzyDesii]

Due to this job, my insurance premium just went up again for next year so yippee 🥴

[Phoenix98]

Truck repairs, bills, bills, loan payments, bills, probably spent over 2 grand in the last month or so.

[DizzyDesii]

I def spent more than that myself just playing around shoppin. I gotta do better. I said i would but man it was the holidays 😂

[Phoenix98]

Lmao I can't afford to be spending that or more on myself.

[DizzyDesii]

I can afford to but i just shouldn't be. I need to get back to saving

[Phoenix98]

Probably a good idea.

[AimeeKyle]

Congrats on the new job. Hopefully it gets better!

You are absolutely correct too…money isn’t everything.

Nothing new for me. Work and kids stuff.

[DizzyDesii]

Thank you :)

[Smoothing]

Not much. I am just waiting to start my new job but the vetting process is taking forever.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea this was the quickest a job started up for me. Others vet like a month. This dude had me working by the next week 🤣

[Smoothing]

Lucky. Congrats even though you don't like the job

[DizzyDesii]

I have a dream, that one day I’ll actually like a job 😂

[Smoothing]

🤣 And you will

[AdithyaR]

Nothing much honestly, just got an internship as a teaching assistant to keep me occupied until i go off to university.

[DizzyDesii]

Hoping for the best 🙌

[AdithyaR]

Thanks!

[Pink2000]

I broke up with my boyfriend cause he beat me up. I caught my second body immediately after we broke up like the same day he happens to be a pimp go figure. I sure can pick ‘em. Went through depression. Lost 20lbs. Now I work at the strip club.

[DizzyDesii]

Waaaait the dude you were dating forever? Noooo. I’m soooo sorry you went through that. I hope you’re okay now. I know we all need a job of some sorts but strip clubs can be aggressive too. If anyone lays hands on you there, be sure to quit because you dont need any type of abuse nor toxicity in your life

[Pink2000]

Yeah it was a lot. I got out of that situation.

[DizzyDesii]

Im just glad you’re okay now. And i am curious, does this job actually pay you what hits the stage or do you only get a percentage? Cause i hate how other jobs make people turn in tips

[Pink2000]

Everything I make is mine. I tip the bartender 10% of what I make from whatever I’m serving (I’m a bottle girl) and then whatever I make from dances I keep. I haven’t gotten on stage yet. I do everything but get on stage.

[DizzyDesii]

Then yea thats not bad cause i’d love to dressup and just walk around and do bottle service. I’d be a horrible bartender tho lol

[MysticDevice]

Tried online dating again. Its just as crazy as the last time so that ain't gonna last long.

Other than that its the same ol situation

[DizzyDesii]

Im trying to stay away from that shit lol

[MysticDevice]

Yep good call.