
Don't bs us with the old clicheΒ΄, "I have nothing to hide."
We ALL have secrets, but are you good at keeping secrets? What about keeping secrets for other people?

Don't bs us with the old clicheΒ΄, "I have nothing to hide."
We ALL have secrets, but are you good at keeping secrets? What about keeping secrets for other people?
Other people's yes, my own, not so good. My facial expressions give up my own sometimes. I have social anxiety, so other people who try to get information from me really piss me off. I had female friends in the past that would talk about each other behind each others backs. They did this for 3 years before I gave up one day. One day I told each of them they were talking about each other just because I knew they would stop talking to me. If I would have walked away from the friendships myself, they still would have called me up and bothered me. And they both used people, but other than that, if someone is going to trust me with something, no one else should know because it was me they they entrusted it with, not other people.
My face tells on me too.
I can for some reason people come to me and they tell me things that I don't really want to know I don't need to know so I wish they would stop but if somebody tells me something that is personal or private or incompetent I will not tell anybody I will keep it until the day I die and I have many Secrets like that from people
You're a good friend Oshee!
Thanks
I always joke with my boyfriend and tell him Never to call me if he needs me to hide a dead body. I can not lie to save my life lol. There are things I dont tell people because its in my past and isn't detrimental to my relationship but i dont call that a secret because if asked id tell them.
πππ Ok, so no big secrets for you then!
Of couuurse, i'm very good at keeping secrets. Like the time i knew my husband was just a lizard in a human skin suit. He told me not to tell anyone because he says he's not but he's asked me some du-
uh oh.
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I'm good at being quiet and not talking so that also means I'm good at keeping secrets
If someone confides in me and asks me not to tell anyone, my word is my bond. I can absolutely be trusted to keep conversations confidential.
As far as personal secrets, I don't go around spilling my guts. There are some things I don't talk about. But there's not a lot that I wouldn't share with a trusted friend or my wife if specifically asked. My wife knows just about everything about me.
Well said!
Yes, I am. If someone confides in me, I take it seriously. It shows great trust. They trusted me enough to share something really personal and private. The very least I can do is respect them and keep it private. If they want others to know, they will tell them. It isn't my place to go run around telling everyone someone else's personal affairs. If someone tells me something they'd rather not be spread around, I keep it confidential. The only time I'd say something to someone else is if it was a truly serious situation - like their life or someone else's was at risk. Other than that, it would stay between us.
If someone tells me it's important that it stays a secret then I'm good at keeping them but if someone doesn't tell me then I might mention it unless it's clear that it should be private. But I think I'm good at keeping secrets as long as I know I should.
I just assume it's a secret unless I'm told otherwise. I'm quite secretive.
I learned to be EXCELLENT at keeping my mouth shut.
What is one of the BIGGEST reasons girls decline options to scratch their hormonal-driven itch? That's correct... word gets around and their reputation suffers. I made a choice to develop a reputation for not even telling my good friends about anything that happened with a girl. I know for a fact it got me laid a few times in Highschool.
Smart man!!!
I am very good at keeping secrets as I believe that secrets are things which one keeps deep down in their hearts and most likely not wanted to be known by everyone. Your friend willing to tell you the secret shows that they really trust you. If you were to tell that secret it would feel like breaking the friendship and trust.
Exactly!
My friends still don't know about my ex from over 20 years ago. They all think she was a stripper and i never told anyone any different. You can hurt me or break up with me and talk shit about me but it secrets better stay between us.
I agree!
I suck at keeping secrets as much as my buddy jonathan sucked off that dude from the gas station for a bottle of vodka, which he asked me to tell nobody.
... dammit, not again
Pun intended?
I truly have nothing to hide. It's no bs.
I can keep secret for God. Besides God, I don't think I'm capable of keeping anyone's else's secret.
Can't keep a secret... Ok. Not even a surprise?
Well, a surprise is different from a secret. I can keep a planned surprise secret but I can't keep something one wants to hide that may be evil, secret π
Understood
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100% yes for keeping other people's secrets.
My own? Good if I have to / want to.
That's pretty good. It's harder for me to keep another person's secret. but I can do it.
I've kept secrets for a living for nearly a quarter century. If I wasn't good, I'd be dead.
Those are the worst kind, but the easiest to keep.
in my opinion
Once you told me a secret then i forget the things you said to me till you would allow me to say
What?
Nope I can't help it what's in my head must come out eventually
πππ At least you're honest! π
That's how I see it, i can't lie to people
About me, yes
About friends possible
About strangers. Hell no, I'm going to spill the beans
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As much as I don't care a lot about knowing people's secrets, if they tell about it, I wouldn't bother telling anyone else about it.
Would your friends day the same about you? I know two people who think they can keep quiet, but they are always the first to blab other people's information (good or bad).
there are things that I will carry to the grave.
Just 3? Not bad!
Wouldn't answering this question negate the point?
Only if your ability to keep secrets is itself a secret.
Well played. I don't generally wa t to know secrets, but in cases where confidentiality is a job requirement such as health care or education then yes I can keep things private.
I don't think so; but no body tells me secrets or asks me to divulge them. So I don't really know one way or the other. The only thing I know for certain is that I prefer honesty overall.
Honesty is best!
Well, so far, I still haven't told a single soul about the day the world ended and we moved to this planet and the government decided it was best that we not tell any of the stupider people about because... OOPS!!
If there were/are secrets, I would certainly not trumpet them here or elsewhere.
Smart
Charlton Heston: "From my cold dead hands..." he's referring to guns in this quote, but I apply the same principle to keeping secrets.
Yes. People pick up on this and tend to confide in me.
You must be easy to talk to.
i think i am, my friends always tell their personal stuff to me and i dont tell these things to another person
I love having friends I can trust β€
Sure. By making these guys non-existing 😅🤣😏
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I'm very good at it. Until I tell someone else.
That's common! π
3 can keep a secret if two of them are dead.
For the right amount of money people will sell you and your secret out in a heart beat.
Soooo... That's a "no" then?
For me personally, totally depends what they reveal to me and who is the person that's telling me the secret.
So can be yes or no.
Absolutely. I am one of the few people who can hear a thing and never, ever, repeat it.
What about your own secrets?
"I am unaware of any such activities or operations, ma'am, nor would I be in a position to discuss them if, in fact, they did exist".
Mmmhmmm π
I'm the same KrakenAttackin. I'm retired military, and law enforcement. I know to many secrets ππ€
@fantasticass that's my girl.
I keep them if someone confided in me for sure
Your have integrity π
Wouldnβt you like to know? You really thought 😂
You ainβt never ever in your life gonna make me say anything. I can freaking careless about how hard you try. Canβt make someone to talk like who are you π
So, is that a yes?
Yes some people have confess to me teir personal sruff that I will takento my grave.
Discretion is most important part of any friendship.
Yes, I am a good secret keeper for someone else as well as myself.
i am good at keeping secrets, for example just the other day she told me... oops
I'm good at keeping other people's secrets. 🙂
Yes. If a friend tells you something private or personal, then it stays private and personal.
yes because the majority of the time I forget about it.
Some. Depends on the secret and who's involved
If it needs to be a permanent secret then itβs safe with me
Yeah, your the only one on here that knows my real name
@humanearth Yeah I figured you wanted to keep it that way so I never called you by it on here
I think I am good at keeping secrets, I have a few of my own and a few of others who have confided in me.
If I'm told not to say something or keepita secret, it dies with me.
Well the Beatles sure didn't.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/uRQ7ecvU56kYes, if someone has enough Trust to share a Secret it needs to stay a Secret!
i keep secrets and when i dont, i tell them not to tell
Totally! Like I won't tell you about this time where..
yep id say the best of the best 😎
Nice!
I'm a dark alley you can whisper secrets in.
I like it! π
What's the title?
I'm familiar with those, but have not read them.
I like history and I like historical novels as you can - if they are well done - can a sense of the times.
I thoroughly enjoyed Clavell except for his book on the fall of the Shah of Persia (Iran). Communication failures were a constant theme but it didn't work. I kept thinking why didn't they used their mobile phone ... oh that's right there weren't mobile phones then. Just too close in time.
Cornwell is another fav. Last Kingdom etc.
Did you read the entire series?
Impressive!
I can't tell you... it's a secret 🙈🙊🙉
You can tell me π
Ah, but that would be telling...
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Yeapp everyone's secret is safe with me.
A trusted friend is a good friend.
I am literally a professional at it.
I should be!
I keep secrets all the time lol
Me too
Yup. Part of my job. ;)
A professional!
Haha!
Yes I am good.
I am , I share mine
You share your own secrets?
I see... I'm not looking to trade secrets with anyone.
That's ok, I won't pm you back though.
Thanks for your understanding π
yes i wm for myself and other people
I'm not telling anyone lol
I bet I could make you sing like bird. π
Bring it lol π
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yes bc I expect people to keep mine
yeah, iβm good at it
Pretty much. I feel powerful
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