Do you prefer to SERVE or BE SERVED?

[AviatorTom]

Simple question... you can answer in any context you like.

Do you prefer to serve or be served?

[WhiteSteve]

I actually feel wicked uncomfortable being served. It’s like “at ease, relax…. who the fuck am I? I don’t need anything.” I don’t particularly care to be serving either, but I just don’t like the alternative. I always try to be super helpful when I’m a customer at a restaurant, like I’ll stack everyone’s plates in the most sensible way, and put all the silverware on top. I thank them even when they bring a drink for someone else, lmao. I’ve never been an actual waiter, but I’ve managed them, and I know all the bullshit they deal with, so I try to make whatever table I’m at an easy run for whoever is serving us.

[clampfan101]

I like being served, but don’t tend to ask for it. I’m much more of a server. I’m hoping to find a relationship that can be 50/50.

[Pinay_ako]

Both. I’m more of a giver than a taker. I usually say no when someone offers to buy me something or do something for me. I don't know why I do that but most of my friends think I’m dumb for doing that 😂. They go why say no, let them buy you gifts!

[ObscuredBeyond]

Probably a subconscious realization that eventually, you'll run out of room for those gifts. Why it's a blessing in disguise that the only gifts I can give you right now are moral support.

[jennifer_bloom]

I like both because you feel happier when other people serve you but you learn more and get more benefits when you serve others. It's like, the benefits of serving might be 14 times higher then the blessings God gives you when others serve you.

[OlderAndWiser]

In my relationship, I prefer to either take turns or serve each other at the same time.

[Heolurt]

At restaurants I guess served at the soup kitchen I don't really do any serving but I do help cook and clean. I used to work at a law firm in the states but hated having to serve people, especially since a lot of people I had to serve were men who were about to lose everything because their wives or girlfriends wanted everything.

[Billlewis]

I much prefer to serve the superior female, and if she has a boyfriend whom she's having sex with fairly regularly, I absolutely love to serve him, as well, if they're both okay with it.

[molonski2]

Oh , I think most people would prefer to be served , certainly I would , no doubt.

[katiesmuff]

I would think most of us would prefer to be served rather than be the server. However if there were no servers nobody would get served.

[Dinklex3]

I’m more of a giver. I think I treat people the way I’ve been treated.

Receiving makes me uncomfortable if not coming from family.

[Staximus]

Neither. I do shit for myself and expect others to do the same. I do cook some big feasts for family and friends occasionally, but I still don't serve people. I lay it out on the counter and say "there it is"

[chrissykerdock]

definitely like to serve a man... on my knees of course

[Screenwriter]

Perfectly comfortable serving or being served. It's all according to the occasion.

[andreasderjuengere]

Once again, I don't fit in:

I prefer neither of both options.

I rather... co-operate?

[ohsheeT]

I would definitely serve I'm much better giver than I am a receiver

[sheenagwapa]

be served but i'm naturally OA so I don't know i just serve

[Massageman]

One of my Love Languages is "service to others", but I certainly will accept things the other way around.

[Nikki1989]

Serve me!

[sheikalana]

I love to serve but once in a while I don't mind being served.

[Anonymous]

I prefer to be served Dinner I give back in other ways the iron hand who am I?

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[aquamarine321]

I prefer to be served, even tho in my job now I have been there for over 4 years and I’m still trying to get used to serve

[Anonymous]

In a relationship I would want to serve. Outside a relationship be served.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A little bit of both & if I’m on vacation I definitely want to be served & spoiled as well. If I’m not on vacation I serve myself unless I go to a restaurant.

[Sdexam]

Honestly, Its way more natural and easier to serve than be served. Its funny because sometimes with my girlfriend i am compelled to tell her that I feel like I just want to serve her. lok

[Anonymous]

my partner always serves me because he's the best.

[Juxtapose]

I lean towards being a giver but I definitely want to get some as well!

[Throwawaynowknow]

In a relationship I'm more of a server. Outside of one, I like to be served

[BigDog1989]

I just got served. I gotta go out and serve right back

[Grovermint]

Sexually, to serve, food wise, to be served.

[yoursadgf]

Love to be served, Nothing better than having a househusband.

[Billlewis]

By any chance are you looking for a submissive guy to marry?

[Midnight_Kiss]

I prefer to serve and then be served 🤷🏻‍♀️

[MrOracle]

There's a time and place for both.

[WhitneySnow]

Neither. Life should be equal.

[Minahh]

Served of course 😌 it's quite apparent right

[Anonymous]

Neither. Both are annoying and have no benefits to either person. Both put a weight and strain in a perfect balance on a relationship

[Jonnyanalog]

Serve. It’s in my nature to.

[exitseven]

I would rater serve.

[Jazzy54]

I love helping people so serve. 😌

[Wonderingguyy]

I prefer to serve 🫡

[jimmy2]

Either way more balance that way

[SnowedIn]

To serve.

[Mansearching]

Neither tbh...

[Christoff92]

I don't give up that easy 😉

[boobliker]

be served please.

[Nevvv]

I serve

[TonyMetal___86]

Be served

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Served.

[Nominal]

Served.

[Anonymous]

Be served