I am unable to feel feelings or have crushes?

[Anonymous]

I was stalked for two o years, and it really affected me to the extent where I’m unable to develop crushes or find anyone attractive. No amount of therapy could help me and I don’t know what to do.

[Pοrnytail]

Could be just hormones. Go outside and eat well. #gratitude

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

Move to a different location.

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[scooogy]

I'm similar I guess. I can have crushes and imagine dating, but not moving in with a woman.

[In_Trance]

My guess is you're hanging out with the wrong people

[Asker]

I don’t have ANY friends

[In_Trance]

That's part of the problem

[Реrverted_Сreeр]

Let @boobslayer be your friend.

[_Maya_]

Well if therapy with a professional didn't help then no one here is going to be able to fix that. I am assuming you did actually do therapy. The only suggestion I have is to find a different therapist and hope they can make a breakthrough with you. That's a scary thing to go through and especially over a long period like you did. You may just need more time and help. Don't rush yourself and come to the realization that there is no point in forcing yourself when you aren't ready.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s called aromanticism, it simply means you don’t experience romantic attraction or romantic desires. You’re easily able to still live a full and normal life, just focus on platonic relationships and you’ll be fine.

[Asker]

But I used to have those feelings and now it’s gone? Is that normal?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Romantic desires and sexual attraction can be pretty fluid and change as you age, or as you deal with trauma

[gothbxtch]

you could be aromantic. it’s important to remember that you don’t have to feel romantic feelings.

[Anonymous]

The best thing for me was knowing that only time can make changes. I waited and had to also forgive myself for putting up the walls.
Time Time Time.