Why do some people act like 25 or 30 is the end to experience life and have everything figured out?

[Paulalove98]

I see lot of this in the media especially with women and it’s so sad and disgusting how disrespectful and hateful people are especially men. I just turned 25 and I feel like my life is just beginning. I met my man at 24 and he loves me just the way I am and he prefers me over girls his own age. I’m experiencing lots of adventures and wonderful things with him, I’m in my 20s and things looked up for me more AFTER high school if I’m being honest. I feel like these days people expect everyone to have things set in stone at 23 or 25 with kids and marriage like waitttt I just met my partner. Everyone’s timeline is different too and life shouldn’t be some race.

[FunkyMonkee]

Got me! My singer was like that when he was in his early 30's! Saying shit like, "I'm getting to old for this shit." But, he stuck with it for another 30-some years until he died! When I got into my 30's, you couldn't stop me!! I'm STILL ready and raring to go to this very day!! It might take me a little while to get used to doing it 2 to 4 hours a night because I haven't played drums (on stage) in almost 19 years (and at least 4 years in private) but, once I got used to being active, again, let's hit the fucking trail!!

[Bricealan]

You are just beginning life, and if you make good choices, your life will always get better. But you are correct, it sometime really UGLY ----- "out there"

You are at a great point in your life, and if you have a good partner who shares your values, you have nowhere to go but upward and onward.

[4ngelic]

where do you live were people expect you to have a husband and kids at 23-24.. like isn't that like a rare thing lol. thought most people start thinking about marriage around 28-30. i dont know a single person under 26 that's married, and anyone under 28 that has kids

but anyways yea society is just ageist and its sad but yea you gotta just ignore the haters and take it at your own pace

[Nikki1989]

You said it correctly, 25 is just getting started. The best is yet to come.

[BLP11520]

yes..

[aceleon]

because until those ages you should have been experienced most of the basics about life the first half of your life span is for you to grow up and learn but the second half is for you to raise your own offspring into adulthood.

[Paulalove98]

But not everyone meets someone in school or college

[Paulalove98]

I’m still having a child in my late 20s which is still young it’s a difference than 35.

[aceleon]

you can still find someone until your 30-40 but after that it's late and not worth it.

[Paulalove98]

I have a partner I met at 24 we’ve been together almost 6 months. That’s true unless the woman freezes her eggs or something

[exitseven]

30 years old is not really old. I think I was just getting started in life at 30/ I was married and had 3 kids.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

It's base on value

[Anonymous]

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