
What's something you're losing interest in the older you get?


Watching professional sports. I LOVE sports, they’re my whole deal…. but something about watching other guys, especially dudes considerably younger than me now, so there’s less “awe-factor”…. it just doesn’t hit the same.
I’m fortunate to still be playing sports myself in my elderly age, lmao, and I think that has something to do with it. I’m a Patriots fan when it comes to the NFL, and before you all start throwing tomatoes at me, let me just finish, haha. They had a long stretch of glory years, but in between the Super Bowl wins there were some relatively tough years (that most teams would still kill to have), that ended in heart-wrenching defeats, including The Super Bowl That Shall Remain Unspoken Of. But there were also losses in the playoffs, conference championship games, etc. Like 2006-2013. And my fellow fans were absolutely suicidal over it. But I was playing semipro football then, and it seemed silly to worry about the Patriots when I had the Warriors to worry about. I guess that’s when it started. But I’m also just an all-around Boston sports fan, and it was just an absolute embarrassment of riches, EVERY team won championships in my 20s and 30s.
So with all that…. I think I’m complacent as far as being a spectator. I’m fat and happy. I’m enjoying my post-sex cigarette. (Don’t smoke, kiddos, it’s gross and it’s bad for you🚫) I have my own low-level championships to chase, I don’t need to live vicariously through younger guys. And I don’t care about idiots who think it’s not masculine to not be a rabid sports fan, just lmfao. Beer league hockey is a joke, but what’s sitting on your ass watching a bunch of strangers from everywhere BUT your hometown “representing” you?
And I don’t even begrudge anyone that, or mean to say that I don’t care at all. I’ll still pay a moderate level of attention, I’m just saying it’s not life and death to me anymore. It’s a game, it’s entertainment, it’s fun. I’ve had my mood spoiled for MONTHS because one of my favorite teams lost a championship game/series. But it’s just not that serious. Not to me, anyway. Six Super Bowls, three World Series titles, a Stanley Cup, and an NBA Championship….. what’s left for me as a fan? I got Bingo👍
hmm...
guess it already happened, and it was mostly... the many hobbies that you can actually enjoy when you have a lot more time to actually enjoy them
just to mention a couple... video games, driving for the fun of it (and at a bit faster rate than speed limits), partying like we don't have to work tomorrow, lmao...
now, one thing I had never planned to lose interest on... was, watching soccer on TV, I used to love the game for the game but in the last decade, it is a lot less of a game and so much more business, no more love, no more dedication to it as it should be
too much politics into it as well, and money (dirty money too) has taken over, besides the last World Cup which was a beautiful thing to experience as a fan... I have not really followed it much in the last four years, and that makes the little kid in my a little bit sad, but oh well... we all grow up and we move forward, there's so many other things to enjoy and live for, so we carry on, lol
Has there been anything new that you gained interest in?
oh, absolutely... and it is mostly focused on people
my friends, my family... my (ex) girlfriends
tutoring is an example of that, I went from doing it when I could to almost do it half-time... although I was never a teacher, teaching has been a calling for me and now is something I love to do and dedicate plenty of time to (my actual job allows me the flexibility) and I did similar for some time, with coaching... more than watching sports, as you know... I am into playing sports, so that's something I've given time as well
as for friends and family, my interests switched from "I can do it on my own hobbies" to " I can do this with friends and family" and cooking/BBQ is one of those, and also trying new things that are also fun and interesting for the ones in my life
being single since the pandemia has had me more focused and dedicated to the other people on my life rather than on myself... but that might change a bit soon, and I'll end up looking for a balance because I'll meet someone eventually, so I know that I will be fully into it too, as it always has been with everyone I've met before... and if the pattern repeats, her interests and mine are going to mix up and have a good great time, lol...
lol...
I just realized that, basically...
my childhood and early teens I spent them mostly focused on myself and my own hobbies
my late teens and youth, I spent it mostly focused and dedicated to my girlfriends and our hobbies
so it only makes sense that now that I've remained single for a longer time... I do spend it mostly focused on my friends and family and any interest I can share with them (=
Staying fit. I've been going to the gym almost nonstop since I was 15. Started playing soccer, then eventually made my way in to varsity volleyball. And it was constant training and workouts. After high-school I maintained some of the workout regimens, but at a less intense rate; I had no need to maintain muscle mass and such, just wanted to maintain a figure. But as I inch ever closer to 30 I feel like it drains more out of me as time goes by. Normally I have little issue going even during my period, but even that's started to feel worse.
Do you ever take breaks? Like a week or 2 off after 2 months of regular workouts gives your body time to recover and you'll usually feel stronger or more quicker.
I've taken some breaks, especially when I travel. But I'm growing ever more tempted to just stop and see what happens
Try it at least for a few weeks then ease back into a lighter workout schedule..
Having a social life. When I was in my teens I used to be able to go out and party every weekend, spend time with people everyday, keep busy socially, and never feel burnt out. These days, my social battery gets drained if I have to interact with friends or family more than once a week, around dealing with people at my job. I don’t have time or tolerance for people anymore, I get sick of them pretty quick. My partner is the only person that I don’t get sick of being near.
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As bad or sad as it sounds, I'm gonna go with "socializing." I notice that I'm becoming more indifferent about so many things involving other people as I get older.
When I was younger, baseball (and sports in general) was my passion. But now I see spoiled athletes who are overpaid, fixed competitions, women's sports in conflict over transgenders, and an over-emphasis on sports gambling. It's no longer fun for me.
Right. Tons of evidence that major sports are rigged but fans want to ignore it. I stopped watching like 25 years ago but the main reason I stopped then was I didn't see the point of investing so much energy if my team was only going to win a championship like once in 20+ years or never. No thanks. That'd be like putting money into a losing stock for 20+ years so you can make 1% back one day.
I’ll give you two things, ones a lie and ones the truth, you decide which is which.
1) Pursuing my dreams of becoming a rock star.
2) Winning your heart.
Number 2
I don’t know if you’re wrong or right! I can’t even make sense of what I wrote, I might have been drunk. Goddamnit! Anyway, I could never get tired of trying to win your sexy heart! I gave up my dream of being a rock star years ago. 😉
You drink a lot lately
Yeah, a little more than usual. Do you find alcoholic’s sexy? I can drink more!
😂😂😂
Trying to persuade a person who is ignorant on a particular topic to do research, gather facts and information, then re-evaluate their position. Most of the time these days it's like trying to teach a pig to sing - it's a waste of MY time and it just annoys the pig.
Going out drinking and dropping a few hundred bucks on drinks and getting sick the next morning. I'd say since turning 30 my tolerance for this and being around drunken fools looking for a fight has decreased to almost zero. I can't understand my friends that drink insane amounts on a night away from the kids. It freaks me out.
Sometimes I wonder how the young people make it to going to a bar every single night, while some of them do have jobs indeed. But on the other hand those ever repeating convos are like "ain't you sick of it at some point?"
It's a reserve of energy and part of a routine. That's how it was in college. People always at the bars and clubs even as early in the week as Wednesday night.
Negativity - seems like everyone complains about everything, there glass is always half empty rather than half full and they don't see the good simple things in their lives.
The older I get the more positive I get.
Liars, cowards, and quitters. I lose tolerance for these intentional behaviors because it is too easy to be mature and responsible with people. All of these traits are too wasteful and some people work their assess off for what they have and for other people... Man up and break off respectfully... It's not that hard..
Video games.
Ever since the age of around fourteen I have become picky about the ones I invest my time into. I am more likely to replay one all the way through than a new game.
Friends, I've realized shit ain't real out here anymore, the only real ones are the ones that have passed on and they died real, losing them kinda takes away all motivation to look for more when I know most people don't have loyalty for friendships.
Losing interest in the idea of love and relationship growing interest towards how to expand my business and how to set positive example for the Society
Sex.
One-night stands.
Stupid one sided relationships.
Fucked up/messed up people.
Immature people.
I used to value youth and looks, now I value maturity and the ability to stick what one has decided.
horror movies bc they fucking suck now
like they've always sucked but it was still enjoyable. now it's not even entertaining
There's actually quite a good few ones. Yes the majority of the ones being released suck, but I'd check out a few from A24. Like Pearl, Talk to Me, Men, Hereditary, and Lamb to name a few.
yeah there's some good stuff
I used to be a big sports fan. NFL, NHL, MLB, NBA. Now I couldn't tell you who won the last Stanley Cup, World Series, or NBA Title, and only know who won the last Super Bowl because of the shooting at the parade.
Socializing
Intimacy
Excursions
I don't know... the way things are going in life, I've lost contact with almost everyone and lost interest in everything that made me happy
Giving serious, sincere replies.
The older I get, the less I genuinely try to help idiots and the more I just want to give snarky replies and move on.
Forced conversations. Small talk. Putting up with fake friendships.
Casual stuff like video games, movies and TV shows
People wasting my time
My job. Government as a whole. The rat race. Climbing the ladder.
The people around me. Like family and friends
Just about everything outside of love and sex lol. So tired of sports, tv, movies, music, going out to stores, restaurants, alcohol, everything lol.
Going to parties. Can’t seem to deal with younger people getting $hit faced anymore and doing really stupid stuff!
Also crowded places.
People. People suck. I like having peace without dealing with anyone. Especially stupid people.
Friends, relationships in general. Everything really.
I'm losing interest in being nice to people that don't deserve it.
I know my name is simslover but I'm getting tired of the sims 4. Ready for the Sims 5 or else I will lose complete interest in the sims franchise.
lots of things,
Like music, movies, video games, dramas etc
People and the drama they bring. Worlds becoming to noisy and I enjoy my peace and quiet
People.
The older I get, the smaller my circle gets.
The more I deal with people the more dislike the vast majority of them.
Bar-hopping, going to wild parties. Outside that can't think of anything else!
Being a party and club animal
others rude behaviour/words
lol Blister Sisters. xxoo
concerts and going to the cinema.
Pretty much everything, just life.
Parties/Raves/Discos...
I honestly don't think I have lost interest in anything I liked when I was younger.
Social media.
Sex. And pretty much all women subsequently.
Certain kinds of music
Video games & casual hookups
People for the most part.
Teen girls, politics, fandom discussions
Drama and people’s BS
Tbh. Sports
Yup, I enjoy watching when I have time but I'm not a fanatic by any means.
@miah04 what did you play?
Also can I say you're really pretty!
Right on! You graduated now?
Having beef with people 🤣
Other people’s bullshit and drama.
life
dramas?
Men. Lmao.
What other people think.
Being an adult ha
Haha I feel that sometimes
New movies and music
Validation
Having a job
New music
Getting older
sex.
Cartoons
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