How to cut off feelings for a friend that’s gone ghost in person?

[Anonymous]

There’s this coworker that me and her were best friends. Hung out a lot, talked like everyday, had lunch together etc. then she didn’t like that I gave a ride to a girl she didn’t like so she stopped talking to me and blocked my number. I apologized a few times but I’m not begging no one to stay. So we don’t associate at work but I don’t say anything about her to anyone. But how do I make it not hurt to not talk to her? Sometimes it’s easy but then there’s times I miss it. I have other friends but sometimes it’s not the same

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By feelings I mean friendship feelings

[avery58]

Just remember how childish she was over giving a simple ride home to someone, instead of communicating.

[Asker]

Right but like it wasn’t even a ride home it was to a local Walmart like 10 minutes away. Then I come back. She acts like I cheated or something. I texted her and apologized when I realized she was upset but then she blocked me. I saw her at work the other day and she ignored me the whole shift so at the beginning I wrote an apology letter and she ignored it so I’m like I’m not going to beg for an apology so she can come to me when she’s feeling like a grownup and crazy considering she’s 26. My mom said she’s acting younger than me because I’m 21

[avery58]

Yeah even if she comes back I'd be very careful with her considering how immature she's acting, I wouldn't trust her same as before. That's if you just want a friendship with her.

But if you were crushing on her before I'd just keep it strictly platonic from this point forward, because if she freaks out over such a small thing and then doesn't even communicate her feelings with you instead shuts you out then imagine how she would be in a relationship.

She knows very well that her silent treatment is hurting you and ignoring someone without talking about the issue is no way a real friend acts

[DrPepper12]

Wow! Pretty petty and immature of her. You sure you want her in your life?

[Anonymous]

Talk

it out

[Asker]

I want to but she blocked my number and ignored me in person