Are you a better listener or yapper?

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7Phoenix7 Follow
Guru Age: 35 , mho 49%

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I'm definitely a better listener, but with the right person I'm yapping too much. Lol and laughing at my own lame jokes while they sit there just accepting my weird side lol.
My best friend always says to me... "I miss you weirdo..."

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  Lol fair enough
  
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- 7Phoenix7
  
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  You are a listener lol
  
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- Asker
  
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  Yep lol
  
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- 7Phoenix7
  
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  I can tell 🙃
  
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LiamJHayden Follow
Master Age: 31

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It depends on the subject and who the other people are. For example, if we were discussing chess and the other people are Magnus, Judit, and Hikaru, I am all ears. If it's a discussion about guitars and the others are relative noobs, I am the yapper. In all other areas it depends upon the dynamics of the group.

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  I see, interesting
  
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MicahRaine Follow
Explorer Age: 22

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I'm better known for listening, so I would say I'm a better listener than yapper.
I'm also the designated therapist with some of my friends lol

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  Lmao being the therapist is a compliment
  
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- MicahRaine
  
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  Yep definitely :)
  
  I'm always happy to listen and lend a hand, and I'll never share a secret that isn't purely mine to tell.
  
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- Asker
  
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  That's good bro
  
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Pupweb Follow
Xper 5 Age: 18

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quite around people I don’t really know and I don’t shut up around the people I do

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  So you are an introvert, how are your listening skills tho? Lol
  
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- Pupweb
  
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  I’m a good communicator, I can do both the talk and listening
  
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- Pupweb
  
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  I was just exaggerating lol, I do shut up
  
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- Asker
  
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  Being yappy isn't bad tho, it means you can keep a convo going lol
  
  But fair enough, multitasker
  
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RebelinSteel Follow
Guru Age: 32 , mho 41%

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I tend to listen, however if I’m with someone I bounce off, then I chat a lot, n I mean a lot.

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  I see, interesting indeed
  
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Maybe_Maybe_not Follow
Guru Age: 45 , mho 46%

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Designated listener, which becomes funny when I meet a die hard one. Because no one talks anymore 😆

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  Wdym
  
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  Imagine you're a listener yourself, imagine we hang out somewhere with few buddies. Since I'm the listener, I'm mostly in passive mode, reacting to what you feed, and if you do the same with me... Then none if us is talking. Silence.
  
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  Sometimes silence is the best medicine lol
  
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  Just sometimes
  
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douride2 Follow
Master Age: 49

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I am know for talking to much at times. I can be a listener when it is called for though

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  Something about being talkative is that it means you are never boring lol
  
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thearchjoker Follow
Xper 7 Age: 26

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I like to talk but i prefer to talk to someone who also talks rather than monolog

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  Understandable lol
  
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12karen Follow
Yoda Age: 22

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Listener and sometimes I just listen without answering

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- Asker
  
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  So technically you ignore sometimes but deep down listen to them? 😂
  
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- 12karen
  
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  Not that I'm really ignoring, sometimes, it's just "you know, I was drinking my tea yesterday when a mosquito tried to to to tu tu tu bla bla bla and then it ti ti ti so Maya he, maya ha, maya hi.. can you believe it" I zone out when it's so boring but I'd rather listen, but if I yap, the person who listens to me should know that I may have confided to them my biggest secret
  
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- Asker
  
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  Oh I think that's normal, with boring conversations, where you doze off and start thinking about your own life 😂
  
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- 12karen
  
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  Are you a listener or a yapper
  
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- Asker
  
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  Listener, although I got my yappy moments and they sneak up in conversations lol
  
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- 12karen
  
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  That's why I'ma listener, I hate being interrupt when I speak so I'd rather shut it til I start to burn
  
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- Asker
  
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  It seems like hearing is your favorite sense lol
  
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Knightwatch27 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 30

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I talk a lot. But I can listen if I'm told to.

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  That's good indeed
  
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Account Follow
Master Age: 34 , mho 58%

1 y
8.3K opinions shared on Other topic.

Depends on the vibe, with most people listener

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  It's just easier to listen lol
  
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lexie_xo Follow
Xper 5 Age: 18

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i can do both but prefer listening

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  Interesting 🤔
  
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bubblegunnn Follow
Explorer Age: 28 , mho 37%

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The yapper side 👀

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  Lol the eyeballs 👀
  
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KpopMusicFan Follow
Xper 4 Age: 47 , mho 35%

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I am both.

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  Nice
  
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ICanSmellTheCosmos Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

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I like to think that I'm a healthy balance of the two.

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impalabill77 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 21

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I'm a great listener.

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  That's good indeed
  
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- impalabill77
  
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  Yes it is.
  
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midnightmoon05 Follow
Master Age: 46 , mho 46%

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1.8K opinions shared on Other topic.

Listener.

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  I have a feeling you talk a lot tho midnight 😂
  
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- midnightmoon05
  
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  Do you see how much I type from my opinions? I only talk if I have something important to say… other times I am just being silly. 🤪
  I hate having to waste my words.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Yea you sure type a lot for being busy, I assume you type basically like a computer lol
  
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NathanDavis Follow
Master Age: 35 , mho 33%

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9.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

a natural, at listening...

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RedInnocent69 Follow
Guru Age: 50

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572 opinions shared on Other topic.

I have my moments. It can break either way.

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elaphe Follow
Xper 7 Age: 47

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I am better at listening.

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SpaceGalaxy Follow
Guru Age: 29

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714 opinions shared on Other topic.

definitely a better listener

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Jennz6 Follow
Master Age: 37

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I listen

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Dnice1 Follow
Guru Age: 27

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1K opinions shared on Other topic.

A listener

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noohair Follow
Guru Age: 72

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909 opinions shared on Other topic.

Listener

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beefcakebradybatson Follow
Guru Age: 73

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771 opinions shared on Other topic.

Yapper.

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