Is this just a coincidence or something that happens with people emotionally hurt?

[Anonymous]

So I saw somewhere in a video that the guy said (joking or serious) the best way to get over being heartbroken is to find a good person get them attached and break them then you’ll feel better. Me personally that’s evil and a A-hole kind of thing to do. But recently I’ve talked to a girl and she was talking to a guy long story short she really liked him but found out he got back with his ex and he lied about a lot meanwhile they were planning on getting a place together. Right after she talked to me and I really liked her. Good morning texts, FaceTime calls , I genuinely cared about her stuff in life even tho we were long distance. I got her her favorite book she’s wanted and a cheaper diamond necklace I can’t really afford the real thing but she thought it was real and she liked it. But lately she’s been dry, barely texting or calling, inconsistent with communication, and telling me about this guy she’s talking to. Now the guy thing hurt the most like it was a stab in the chest and back. Especially since I cut off every girl every single one.

[Anonymous]

You're excusing her shenanigans. You have to learn what EVERY guy has to learn. And that's to keep emotional detachment from the woman you're in a relationship with. I know, it's love! That's not the way it's supposed to be. I understand, I agree. But the REALITY is it IS. Most women today are emotional vampires. They don't love you. They might not even like you. But they enjoy the emotional roller coaster. Don't get pulled into this game. Tell her whatever she wants to hear. Play whatever role you need to. But always keep an emotional detachment in your mind. Until you're CERTAIN she is the one.