Do you think your kids are going to put you in a nursing home?

[Anonymous]

If you are already a parent or if you plan to be, do you think your children will put you in a nursing home when you get old af? I bet this isn't something people really think of 😂

[Account]

I won't have children of my own.
I do not know if I will make it.
I do not make plans for me, they always fail.
I do not wish to go to a nursing home, if I am still capable of looking after myself.
If I am not... well.
There are other options.
I will take it as it goes.

[Asker]

You don't think you'll make it? You are only in your 30s there's no way you should already be thinking of death, from what people are saying you can also have nurses take care of you at your house, better in some ways I guess 😆

[7Phoenix7]

No lmao... the nurses will come to me. I will stay comfortably in my home.

I've seen enough Nursing home fails.

[Asker]

Is that really your choice tho? 😂

[7Phoenix7]

Why not loll

[Asker]

Fair enough 💀

[7Phoenix7]

What is @ChicoFromThe305 choice?

[Asker]

Kick me down a moving escalator I guess ha

[7Phoenix7]

Damn lmao.

[CubaPirate]

Probably lol. But on the other hand it's expensive and with come out of their inheritance. So I'm expecting a pillow over my face if I get too needy lol

[Asker]

Lmao dayum

[Wallythewalrus2]

I'm sure they'll kill me way before that even becomes an issue.

[Asker]

Lmao dayum wym?

[IslaTheWitch]

I told them to do it, they have their lives to live, their partners to care for, kids... the last thing I want them to do is sacrifice their lives for me...

[Asker]

You sacrificed yours for them tho, the least they could do is take care of you, I don't mean baby you 24/7 but throw you in a place that a lot of the times mistreats their people, sounds messed up

[IslaTheWitch]

no Chico, I made a conscious decision... I wanted my children, every single one of them... I sacrificed NOTHING... I enjoy every day of their lives...

sacrifice is wrong... it means you gave up something for others... and often, as a follow-up, the need for recognition appears... "look what I did for YOU, appreciate me"

but I gave up nothing... I made my decisions because I wanted to, and I was fully aware of the consequences... or life made me aware if I wasn't :D

there was NO sacrifice... just love and joy...

and I'm sure that if the time comes... they will find me a good place :D

[Asker]

That doesn't mean you sacrificed nothing tho, parenthood comes with sacrifices, mostly if you want them cause if you didn't you wouldn't given away the responsibility and set em up for adoption lol

[IslaTheWitch]

not setting them up for adoption doesn't mean I sacrificed something... I didn't, I wanted them and I was ready for them...

sacrifice is wrong, Chico... very wrong... you never in your life should make a decision that forces you to give up on the part of yourself for someone else...

whatever you do, be genuine, make educated decisions, and sacrifice leave for books and movies...

parenthood doesn't come with sacrifices... with responsibility? yes! with problems and challenges? sure! but not with sacrifices... I didn't lose any part of myself in the process, but I've got so much from my children...

[midnightmoon05]

We talked about all these … we will have a nurse come to the house.

[Asker]

That's a good talk to have midnight

[midnightmoon05]

Just planning … still lots to do. Just being responsible adults.

[Asker]

That's good indeed

[12karen]

Nah, I'll be a very sweet home or I'll just tell them, if they put me in nursing homes, I'm gonna die fast and haunt them

[Asker]

Lmao scare them to not send you, smart 😂

[12karen]

Take notes ✍️

[Asker]

What if they don't believe in ghosts tho 😂

[12karen]

I'll send them to sleep in an old church or an hospital and we'll see if they still wouldn't believe in ghosts 👻

[Asker]

Church is a terrible place to look for ghosts lol, hospital maybe 😂

[12karen]

I mean, old church breath, the wood they used to make stairs if they used wood still breathes, and therefore it makes noise at night, but there's no ghosts, you'll just wonder where the weird nose came from

[Asker]

I think everyone should know the noise of wood by now tho canny 😂

[12karen]

It's still scary,
And what if a nun pass by huh

[Asker]

Then it means it's an active church? 😂

[12karen]

Dark, in the middle of the night

But I'm gonna find a way to haunt them anyway

[Asker]

You'd fill up their house with fake sugar ooooooo

[12karen]

Mmh yeah they'd understand it's me

[Asker]

Lmao they would

[jahaims]

I have enough money for in home care if I had health issue at an older age.

[Asker]

That's good indeed

[NathanDavis]

nah... I'll bring the nurses to my place

[Asker]

Wdym lol

[NathanDavis]

being nursed by nurses at your own place and home... that's an option too

[Asker]

I don't know that, that's better

[NathanDavis]

well, I don't know for sure either... maybe I would prefer to hang out with the old gang... we'll see, lol

first, I have to make it there

[douride2]

Sadly I do not have any children.

[Asker]

You don't plan on it either?

[douride2]

No I can't bare children.

[Asker]

Oh that sucks indeed

[Anonymous]

they probably would one day

[Asker]

Lmao, how you feeling about that? 😂

[Opinion Owner]

I'd probably be too old to care

[Asker]

Lol fair enough

[Miah06]

I don't have kids

[Asker]

I know 😂

[Miah06]

I know, you know

[Asker]

Well I know you know that I know

[Miah06]

Well i know you know that i know, you know

[Asker]

Well I know that you know that I know that you know that I know

[kaucky1]

Nope I'm gonna look 17-35 forever

[Asker]

Best of luck with that 😂