Would you look after your parents if they grow older, or send them to an elderly care center?

Neither. They can take care of themselves.
If my mother dies, I'll look after my father or help put him in a home. Otherwise, though, they're on their own.
My mother raised me calling me her RRSP. And stole $5k from me in university.
She has her money. If she can't make it work, then it's on her.
Hopefully she dies before my father does. He has a chance at happiness and we have a chance at reconciliation if she does.
My husband and I both plan on having out parents in our house or a house next to us when they cannot take care of themselves anymore.
look after untill it gets so bad that they need to be washed or butt wiped. at that point it's better to hire a professional in my opinion. cause i feel being washed by your child is undignified.
I'm not sending them to a place that doesn't give a shit about them
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mother would easily be thrown into a care home. and thats be pushing my kindness.
father would probably be look after for a while, then transfer to a home.
Well, I'm already taking care of my grandmother. Will probably have to do the same with my parents.
Neither. They're on their own, fuck em.
Id look after them, If I could afford it.
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