I'm feeling like I'm a very bad mother?

[Anonymous]

I'm a single young mother with 5 y. o daughter. I was not enough financially so I started doing Onlyfans to make money. I'm new and not earning much but better than before. But the problem is I started feeling very guilty as a mother because I don't think it's right at all. I don't show face or name so I minimized the risk of being known. But the guilt I feel never leave. What's the best thing to do in this situation?

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[midnightmoon05]

You can continue this forever or be smart and save what you can to make a better life…

she is in school during the day… get 2,3 jobs… raise her to be a better person… discipline … be the strong mom that you can so she can be strong to make good decisions.
I raised my 2 kids and went through a bad divorce with no child support or alimony…

I have a good jib and support… still it’s never easy… life is not easy till you make it and turn it around…. Took me over 4-6 years to get back on my own feet…

[Asker]

She's in school for only 4 hours so it's not really possible to get few jobs but I'll try to not to waste any second of it. Thank you for your opinion :)

[Nikki1989]

You have to do what you have to do. I did the webcam thing for a second income. I am not proud of it, but it paid the rent and at least 50% of my other bills at the time.

[Asker]

Life isn't fair to everyone

[midnightmoon05]

You can start making better choices…
By doing this for a sure time and get to a better place… don’t look back… she is young… she doesn’t know any of this…
What kids want is how you love her, treat her. Raise her to be better.

[molonski2]

Look , if they are stupid enough to pay you for that , just go for it..

Ramp it up a bit and promote to make more , you need to make as much as possible , get inventive and forget the morals , thats all BS , your daughter does not need to know , so she never will.

[slatyb]

Get over the guilt. You are offering a service for money. Nothing wrong with that.

[Graptemys79]

Does your daughter's father pay child support? If not, take him to court.

[Asker]

He doesn't and he left the country so it's hard to do it

[Graptemys79]

I'm sorry to hear that. I would find a job that allows you to feel good about yourself.

[Asker]

How would you do that?

[Graptemys79]

Look for businesses that are hiring.

[Asker]

It'd be great to have a job I can do from home so I can also take care of my child. But I couldn't find any like that

[Anonymous]

You think you're ashamed now. Wait till your child grows up. They're going to find out eventually somehow, some way. 😆

[Staximus]

Get a job and stop having kids with bums

[Asker]

I stopped but it's late

[ehatsham_hussain]

You should remarry..

[ehatsham_hussain]

Nothing is better than it for you and your kid.

[Asker]

You can't just marry like that. You should have a healthy and lovely relationship to do that. I don't have it in my life right now

[ehatsham_hussain]

I don't think relationship before marriage is must..
I believe if you propose anyone for that and share your thoughts with him ,, hopefully any man can marry you,
Because so many men are also facing same situation as you in society..
Well best of luck 🤞