On a scale of 1-10, how fulfilled do you feel in your life?

[HawkPerception]

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Loved reading all the honest and reflective opinions!

[fartingspinster]

Normally its an 8 (leave 2 for improvement and growth), but lately its been fluctuating as life is changing and im realizing I need to cut my losses and move out of my home town.
I've accomplished a goal that I've strived 10 years for, lots of sacrifices but I always felt delayed gratification for the moment id fulfill it.

The moment I did... it was great, but other areas in my life started to fall apart.
Now I feel like I have no direction, and just hoping for dear life that I will find my happy place again and things will sort out for the better. Its scary thinking it might never.

I'm constantly changing my life 180 and i like grounded consistency with a flare of changes/growth. Lately its been a foundation of growth/changes and im trying to figure out what's consistent in my life...

[PrincessC16]

Wishing you the best luck...

[fartingspinster]

Awee thank you PrincessC16! ☺️

[midnightmoon05]

9/10 because I am at peace.

I have learned to accept what I can’t change and accept to love my self and to give love to others.

i have accomplished so much and am looking to contribute more to help others.

At this point of my life… I learned materialistic things don’t make me happy… at the same time can have whatever I want… so when we can live with the basics and give with our heart… that’s peace and love.
I have my family, friends, health… if I die tomorrow … I know I have done well. I have no worries.
so you also what’s about the 1?…

I would prefer to be in a warmer place… since I know there is no perfect place… I can be happy where I am at ❤️

[Sonorous]

I notice that for me it's very volatile & is highly dependent on the situation I'm in & what my emotional state is. One day it can be a 10 because everything is going smoothly while another day it could be a 1 & I could be completely okay with dying if it happened.

[PrincessC16]

I can relate to that. Best wishes.

[HawkPerception]

You and me both. I wish you the power to consistently get through those tough times 🙏🏼

[PrincessC16]

Hit me up if you need to talk to someone

[Shiprex]

On a scale is subjective for me depending on my state of mind and what I am mainly concerned with at the time. However, it would lie between the 6 to 8 range probably as I've never been desolate, have no economic worries, do a job I like most of the aspects of but in a system that I hate so am looking elsewhere to get out of, have the means to stop working for a year or two and do something different (don't have that notion though atm) or do nothing which sounds ok but I know within two weeks I'd be jumping off the walls.

Would I like to do other stuff? Yes. Wider friendship (or closer to friends more likely) group. More stuff to do here that appeals to me? ABSOFKINLUTELY (sport I want to play doesn't get played here so I learn other ones that just don't do it for me and folk here are kinda clique like) as that was a great team activity (Rugby).

Apart from that the power is on, the climate is nice, weather isn't damp and it's pretty safe.

Sitting in traffic on the roads here then it's the low end, on one of my bikes, at the high end, anytime.

[Shiprex]

@Nessiethecutie I kinda did. The 6 to 8 scale depends on what's going on

[alice55]

I'm good, I guess 8, I just wish to get a boyfriend but I guess I would need to either get a job to meet people or go on a dating app (which I don't like as is it filled with people that wan't nothing serious).

Also I'm planing to love to a warmer area so it might not be the best idea to look for a boyfriend right now if I'm gonna move in a fews months.

[HawkPerception]

Dating apps are just like the real world. It's filled with good people and bad people. You just need to filter well. It doesn't matter if it's online or in person. You still have to meet the person and assess if they're a good fit like you would with anyone. If anything, dating apps can be a good screening. You already know whether someone is single and whether their intention is to date or not.

[RyanEC]

Oh you’re moving out of your little village.
I hope you enjoy your new area.

[alice55]

@RyanEC Yes I will be moving out but not before a fews months / years, I'm going in the south near like on the border of Spain. It's gonna be warmer and I won't need a car there I will be able to do everything by walking.

[alice55]

True, I think it also depends on the app, years ago when I first started using them they were definitely app that were mostly used for hookup (tinder in France is just filled with people only looking for ons) while French app were more serious.
True it's easier to know their intention on dating app (even if sadly some people lies).

Any advice on how to filter well? Like if I'm only looking for serious relationships any tips on how to filter the bad one? (I don't have much experience on dating app, I think I only used them like three day so )

[HawkPerception]

@alice55 If you're looking for something real and not someone just looking for a hookup, then I suggest this... pickup lines are USUALLY (not always) indicative of a playful and not serious behaviour. I don't think there's a study on it, but I'm willing to bet there's a correlation. Also get them to play a game of 20 questions. Take turns asking each other questions about each other to figure out the way they think, their views, interests, goals, etc. Someone who isn't serious will likely not care to go that deep. Someone who genuinely wants to get to know you and connect with you will give more detailed responses. Someone looking for something quick will likely answer with shorter responses. Any talk about sex early on in the chats MIGHT be a red flag. Sex is important and brings people closer in a relationship, but if they're pushing the topic, it might be indicative that they mostly have sex on their mind. It's normal to have sex on someone's mind, but try to politely encourage them that you want to get to know them more before that topic arises. If they can't respect that, they're likely only looking for something casual.

The key is in finding someone that communicates openly and honestly and in a way that clicks with you. Having similar views is important. Take things slow. And when you meet up, always meet up in a public space like a cafe or public park. Deny all pushes to meet at their place or have them pick you up on the first few dates (for your own safety).

[Crimsyjo]

Love those tips. Thank you.

Ha. I had a guy two days ago on tinder match and say "I'm looking for a relationship. Are we on same page " I said yes absolutely. He asked for my phone number. I said id like to chat a bit more first before I give put my number. See if we are compatible. And that he hasn't even told me his name yet (his profile was TY). Ha. He unmatched from me. Wow. Cos a genuine guy looking for relationship would definitely be fine to chat first to see if we align. And respect I'm not giving my number out to any stranger that asks for it.

[RyanEC]

@alice55 so kind of close to Andorra. I’m remember you said you spent some time there.

I think that would be good for you to get out of your small village. I Remember you saying that the nearest city is so far you can’t ride a bike to it.

[alice55]

That's good tips thank you though in my country some guys will literally talk to a girl during a months, getting to know her, etc.. just to find out they only want one things in the end, they're pretty motivated and patient here so tit's harder to filter where I live.

But that's great advice I will use them thank you :)

I don't have a car though and live in a small village with no bus or anything so no matter what I will need him to pick me up sadly if we do get to the date point

[alice55]

@RyanEC Yes close to Andorra, I m kind of getting back to where I was born and some of my family live there.

Definitely it's horrible to not be able to do anything by walking, I need a car for everything but the road are dangerous, so many accident happen here.
Yes I can't, it's far away but the road are especially dangerous because of bad visibility

[RyanEC]

Are you moving there with your parents or by yourself?

[alice55]

@RyanEC With my parents

[StarWarGirl]

For measuring it I'm dividing all my requirements into 10 parts, what I believe after fulfilling those I'll be able to say I'm completely fulfilled.

Then at current situation at present I'm at "1". Because only one is being fulfilled now that is need of a loyal partner and true love. 9 is still remaining.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I'd say probably 8 out of 10. I'm pretty happy for the most part, and have a lot to be thankful for. There's been some tough things and frustrating things, but all in all I feel like my life is moving in a good direction.

[PeachyPie93]

At the moment.. Probably 4/10..
It's super boring and I don't see the point of day to day life.. I'm basically just waiting for my mom to die so I can die in peace and not cause any issues for my family.

[PrincessC16]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending hugs and kisses your way.

[Alex-Snow]

I'm good with life and things. I'm a broke college guy on loans, having fun at college. My sex life is not bad and I love the mornings when I can get up early and go for a run before classes or things. Life is short so I am enjoying the ride... sure the idiots in the White House cause me some trepidation about our country but I have hope.

[NicholasRedone]

@Alex-Snow said politely, you know sir : you could get a job. When I left uni at 19, I landed a job gratefully in barely weeks 👀😋😈 praise the devil who hears lefties prayers aka left handers

[Alex-Snow]

@NicholasRedone I have a part-time job at a restaurant next to my uni

[NicholasRedone]

@Alex-Snow lol I'm sorry your broke despite working for it and paying taxes on top of it - hey condoms cost money 🤑💰 as does a nice date for the Female (I was gonna type "friends with benefits" but it always never keeps the cool abbreviation")

[exitseven]

between a 7 and an 8. I feel pretty good bout my accomplishments and good fortune but I am starting a new chapter in my life and still have some aspirations.

[sawno]

5, I realize I have a relatively easy life but I'm also not in a position where I have the ability to life my live.

[Ariesman81]

About a 4. Life's purpose is changing and I'm not sure what's next. There are options, but most require drastic change. Not sure I'm open to it at this point. Love security, but hate the idea of being stagnant.

[Sarah2007]

10 , my life is very perfect and fulfilled.

[IslaTheWitch]

with all the sun, stuff I did today, and a brilliant smile on Drama Queen's face... it's somewhere about 20 :D

[red-lipstick-girl]

I give 5 points, I am healthy, I live with my family, that's all, in general it's not very good.

[Dargil]

About 6. You can't have everything. Where would you put it?

[PrincessC16]

I would say my score would be about a 3. It's really too much to explain on here. But if you could send some good wishes my way, I would certainly appreciate it.

[RedThread]

A 7 I suppose. There's always room for improvement.

[Professor-college]

I feel about 8 i still need to get Farther but I've worked hard to get to this point even being a stripper to pay for my tuition so I'm very proud of myself

[oceandepth1000]

right now maybe a 5 but thats probably due to worry about the future

[queenofcardio]

Maybe an 8 , I'm chilling

[sage2021]

Right now today I would have to say 6 at least.

[AviatorTom]

About an 8. One can always do better.

[NicholasRedone]

6 - maybe a 9 some days 😆

[ProbablyClueless]

Um... probably like an 8 out of 10

[douride2]

I'm doing ok. I'm around a 6 possibly.

[MikeRJ]

I'll give myself a solid 7.

[Manuelwe]

5 as certain things are out of my control

[DeeDeeDeVour]

If I round it off, it'll be a 10.

[WellBye]

8/10

[chocolatetwopointo]

4, i need plastic surgery and money

[HawkPerception]

Why do you think you need plastic surgery? You're not even trying to attract men, so why?

[chocolatetwopointo]

why would everything i do revolve around men? this is so basic. a woman does ANYTHING and y'all make it ab urselves. can't even live.

[HawkPerception]

I never made it about men. I'm asking since you're not doing it to attract anyone, why would you be doing it? What do you get out of it?

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro. u literally said ”ur not trying to attract MEN” I don't know maybe i can look myself in the mirror and not wanna throw up? maybe i dont wanna be bullied for the rest of my life? maybe i js want to be pretty. why do u gym?

[HawkPerception]

I said you're not trying to attract men, because you've said it many times in many posts. So I was wondering what could possibly compel you to disfigure your body artificially and give you potential problems down the road.

Learn to be comfortable in your own skin. Just workout and it'll give you confidence. I don't givea fuck if you want to attract men or not and if you want to remain single for the rest of your life. That's not my problem.

And while you're at it, read a book since you seem to be illiterate and have zero comprehension skills.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont care ab the problems tbh. hell no. im not gna stay ugly for the rest of my life. ah yes working out will fix my nose, my ears, my hair color, my pale skin ahh yess, bet u thought i want a bbl or smth.

[HawkPerception]

No I was primarily thinking of your face. When I think of plastic surgery, face is the first thing that comes to mind. I'm telling you for your own sake kid. You don't need it. You will likely regret it down the road. I don't like your personality and I think your parents did a poor job of raising you, but I'm telling you this because I get that you're a kid that hasn't experienced much in life.

Working out does not change how flat or big your nose is, but it definitely helps with your facial structure... how puffy your cheeks are and how round your face is, or your neck. Your physical attraction level goes up a lot just from working out.

I won't say anymore though. You do you. I've said my piece. I hope for your sake you don't regret

[chocolatetwopointo]

working out wouldn't help that anyway lmao. then u obvi have never seen me. why would i regret it? whats wrong with my personality?
im not obese? i have a skinny face.
these retards istg

[HawkPerception]

To answer your personality question, I think the answer is pretty obvious. You're a pure misandrist, hateful and insulting to anyone that disagrees with you. I wasn't trying to insult you in any way in the beginning of this thread, but you kept insulting and implying stupidity.

I was genuinely just trying to be inquisitive.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao sure if u say so. idc what u think. but r u gna answer my other questions?

[HawkPerception]

Like what?

[HawkPerception]

You said you don't care what I think, so I think this conversation is over

[chocolatetwopointo]

like why would i regret it?

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

1 on the scale

[RedInnocent69]

Some days feel pretty mid…

[msc545]

about 6.5

[On_cloud_wine]

🙏 🙏🙏

[Dongie]

-10 .

[HawkPerception]

Sorry to hear man

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Dongie What's up with that, man? That's terrible! :(

[PrincessC16]

Hit me up if you need to talk. 💋

[Dongie]

@TheRealPepperPotts

thanks Pepp, it's alright. I have peace with it, I guess. 😂 It's a long, very long story. Plus, I have Cece. She makes me laugh every day.

[Dongie]

thanks, @HawkPerception

[Dongie]

@PrincessC16

Eeh, I'm all talked out on that. But thank you.

[RyanEC]

8-10.