
If you could erase one memory, what would you choose to forget?


Good question..
I could think of a few thingings but to be honest. I doesn't matter I wouldn't change anything because if I did change it . Or anything it would change who I am right now.
And I will hope for the better
But I wouldn't be willing to take that chance
Just because the past is the past. And today is today
Life happens. And in that moment it might all seem bad.
But I don't care what it is. Give us a little bit of time.
And you will not only find the positives. That come from it. You will also find the reason and understanding of it
Yes , I agree with the thing we're would erase... was or is one of the biggest hurts or pains. learning experiences .
And the best part is
there are 2 sides to everything in life . So if the pain you experienced really hurt. Then, the next time you experience love.
It will be at the same depth.
And that deep has your pain was
But not until you you find the positives , and ⁶learn and grow from it
You will see what I mean. It will be the opposite of pain
And you will gain or experience a good memory that you want to hold on to
Gonna go with all the memories of my parents absolutely beating the everliving shit out of me everyday for a summer
So sorry to hear this.
Sorry to hear as well!
Geezo. That's rough.
So sorry this happened to you
definitely that one memory as a little girl. It was just a illusion aaand didn't happen. :)
(FOOKIN BEES)
Meeting my ex. It's too painful to deal with every day.
@LiaRaven if only it were that simple
@Simslover92 yes, that's what I said. 😂
@Simslover92 you have to cut him off, it'll be hard at the beginning, think about yourself
@LiaRaven I've tried many times but it's not easy.
@Simslover92 why? You could dm me if you want, I was in the same position a few months back
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Nothing.
Forgetting things is the leading cause of degenerative brain diseases like dementia and alzheimers.
You end up with more and more memories that take up more and more of your brain, and you can't access them, so they become neuron blockades instead of neuron highways.
Get enough blockades clogging your brain, and basic cognition becomes impossible or at least very slow, because memories use the same highways that current thoughts use.
What you want, is to instead slightly overwrite older memories bit by bit with edited versions by using memory combination (aka creativity), this perpetually frees up space, while also allowing neuron highways in the brain to stay open. And it turns bad memories into good ones (or vice versa if you're not careful).
It should be noted that when you overwrite things it layers them, so the original is still accessable.
Think of it like forgetting things are traffic cones blocking the way to them, and rewriting is like repaving streets, if you dig enough the old memory is there but the road stays usuable.

Id like to say Id erase My ex fiancè and I’s relationship but I know it was needed for the life I have now. I took her skating for our first date, soon she moved in while she was broke and had nothing. I had known her since we were kids, and we had been a slow burn before we got our chance in our 23rd year. When she got her inheritance she left suddenly and without a trace. I don’t know if the money changed her, or if i was played all along. I choose to believe there was something real to it, but other days I have doubt. After I found more things after there is no doubt. She created a villain that day. But a bike made a hero, a hero of his own story and the captain of his own destiny.
My mind doesn't have the best memory so I'd already forget more than I should. But I don't forget anything on purpose. Whatever I experienced is part of why I am me. And while my mind is somewhat grounded in that who I am is based on my current knowledge rather than past experiences I wouldn't want to tamper with my memory. Whatever is there is supposed to be there.
nope...
lessons learned, I need them all
oh, I need all the help I can get
and you know, it sucks that it had to be this way but...
some of the worst moments in my life... lead me to the better and best ones, unfortunately, it had to be this way... and it was a very significant part of my childhood/teen years, and it has shaped me too, onto what I am today, so...
Probably putting my cat to sleep. I had him for 19 years, but the most vivid and intrusive memory is him laying dead in my lap. It’s kind of soured me on wanting to own pets again, because it’s not like I’m left with a bunch of happy memories. I mean, I have them, but I can’t think about them without thinking of the end.
I think I’m kind of a “better to have never loved at all than to have loved and lost” type of person🤷♂️😅 Loss is something I don’t do well with in general.
Nothing. The things I regret are things I didn't do more than anything I've done and any experience whether good or bad is an opportunity to gain knowledge and wisdom.
I wouldn't erase any memory. All memories are important, good or bad, they make me who and what I am.
I had somebody dump me in a very cruel way. It negatively affected me for a long time. I think my life would have been better if I never remembered that.
I loved this because it reminded me of the episode in rick morty of many deleted memories in the library!
None. If I delete anything from my life, I wouldn't be me anymore. All my experiences have helped shape me into who I am and I like that person.
I would never choose to remove a life lesson. I might make the same mistake again.
All my memories - good or bad - make me the person I am today.
I won't erase any of them.
None. There's a movie that had that sort of quote. 13 Going on 30 / Suddenly 30
The atomic wedgie I got my sophomore year in high school, first year on varsity football!. I wasn't the only one!
I would like to not remember all the abuse I was subject to growing up.
I wouldn't erase anything. It's all lead me to who I am, and wouldn't change anything.
Even my worst moment, my ex miscarrying, made me stronger as a person and makes me value my kids even more now
The way my dad treated me later in his life and now he's in heaven along with my wicked mean stepmother and she gone two and hope she's rotting in hell. 🚫
Maybe not one memory but memories which is about one thing. I would erase all the memories which made me hate opposite gender.
All the memories of knowing him, our interactions, and my hopes that he had feelings for me too
Physical assault.
Definitely, this is a terrible one
That i was continuously being raped over n over for months
@elizamichale1 what? I am soooo very sorry. That shouldn't ever happen to anybody.
@debbiedenise yeah it shouldn't n if such a thing ever happens it should be ensured tht they dont go punishment free...
I was raped for months by a priest when I was 15 n he manipulated me into believing tht he was taking my impurity away...
N at 17 a friend n business partner of my dad kidnapped me n got me raped by 8 men day n night for whole week... he recorded n made videos of all tht... he almost sold me to a Polish guy when my dad paid him 20k at that time to get me back
Every time a guy rejected me for my body.
abuse
it's gets in the way
What my mom said after I left the hospital.
A lot. Like a lot a lot.
I had someone I thought was a friend brutally rape me. I don't just want to erase the memory. I would like to erase him from the world.
I don't think I would elect to forget anything. These memories make me who i am.
Who I am is the result of my memories.
I don't think I would like to erase any memories but I would like to erase certain bad decisions I made in the past
nothing... I like my memory intact :D
A good series. So I can relive it all over again.
Meeting my ex...
I’d delete almost my whole childhood.
answering this question
None. They all made me who I am today
The falling out with my best friend
Trump winning a second term
Everything before I graduated high school
My dad committing suicide
I'd erase all of my bad memories
Sexual Abuse
Mom's boyfriend.. and then my best friend's dad
5 and then 13
Yes, it has. But I'm finally working on healing.
Nothing. I’m good.
Kamala Harris’s kackle and stupidity.
My bd
Too embarrassing.
My ex
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