
If you could erase a past experience, what would it be?


All the men in my past that I have loved and never loved me back only wanted me when it was bennificial to them
My husband dying... Or him having kidney failure in the first place 🤷🏼♀️
Thanks for mh🌹
@yofuknutz Not till after the kidney transplant. After, yes he was and on insulin
@yofuknutz They never really said but probably high blood pressure, and heart issues..
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I would avoid joining university at 19 cause I did not have the emotional maturity for it and killed my GPA temporarily with irresponsible living. I raised it later but it was tough. If I had started well I wouldn’t have had to endure the pressure of fighting an academic battle in which I had very low probability of success.
I would have told her I was a virgin and that I was nervous instead of pretending that I knew what i was doing because of being older.
I would not have embraced these disgusting repressed feelings I had. Sexually. It was something new and it really woke me up in my middle-aged sexually to think about these things with her considered detestable. And then it took on a life of its own. Even though I had acted on these things when I was younger I had not even considered myself are those people. And it doesn't end well it doesn't end for a long time when she get into deep. Because punishment War still be going on long after you cerveny, sentencing jail or prison everyone treat you a certain way because there's a Unwritten rule where everyone knows that you deserve above and beyond what the state gives you. If lyou are treayed with respect its not cuz you seserve it . We don't deserve decent company we don't deserve to have decent lives. Thought it was worse than murderers and a big book either way would probably be treated worse. That would probably that would be in a world where there was the right amount of Justice. Wait to start no compassion and I'm starting to learn I get mad when people try to be empathetic I don't want it. I shouldn't even be allowed to have a profile on this website. That's all I got to say
it's too late you have to do with it I don't care what anyone says I know that I'm different from the people that I have to be around but then again I'm kind of the same like right now breaking the rule by having this phone in my hand I'm incarcerated right now if anyone didn't know that
Oooooh many. just to name a few
at the age of 4(please check your eyes sight before its too late)
at the age of 6( caring for my dental health, no thumb sucking please)
at the age of 7(dont jump on that damn glass table)
at the age of 10 (avoid changing schools or request to be homeschooled )
at the age of 11 (avoid rocking a chair back and forth so i dont end up breaking my front teeth :( and suffering a lot of pain for years to come)
-at the age of 12 (please see a psychologist and learn to accept yourself)
-at the age of 17(please dont stand that abuse it will ruin you)
-at the age of 18(studying online is great just do it)
-from 18 to 29 goddamit stop procrastinating start now. Fix old problems. And start living
1. Behaving like an idiot on a summer camp and making fun of myself.
2. Erase the experience of being pranked that a guy liked me and me showing my interest or even taking to him.
3. Being judged when I was in 9th grade and terrible experience with crushes.
4. Entering in a relationship with wrong untrustworthy guys when I was 15-20. I wonder that how much they would have spread false rumors about me after the breakup.
5. Spoiling my reputation after being spotted with those FAKE ASS CHEAP GUYS whom I thought were my forever ones.
6. Liking the photos of my last crush, and sending him back the message because he gave me wrong signals.
Now I'm 21 and couldn't care less about anything related to dating or crushing.
Honestly a lot of mistakes that we’ve made in the past make us who we are today because we can learn from them and make us better people. However if I were to choose one maybe it’s not taken a certain opportunity but I take that as just practice and somethings better to come
can it be more than one? I would go back and not have sleep with an escort to loss my V and I still be a v but have one less friend. or I go back and not bug my crush and hit her car and I have one more friend with her. I go back and not loss my first job and I try to not go off at people.
I belive that as long as you dont go back and stop your birth you will end up with a different version of yourself. You both will have the same experiences up to the point that you changed and then the other version of you will ske off into another timeline somewhere else.
I don't need to my brain does it for me, I forget almost everything that happens to me as well as most everything I say and do, so I have forgotten most of the things I regret already, but crying in an argument is one I do remember and wish I didn't.
Two pepperoni pizzas, not one, a couple of days ago. We just got one and my wife got the mixed crazy stuff. But then people started eating my shit. I only got a few slices and these are teeny Japanese sizes like made for ancient Japanese hobbits.
I'm going to have to pass if I by and one thing it all changes. And to be honest just because at that given moment it was bad ,,,, good always finds its way through
I would erase the last six months and do it way differently. Lost a lot in the last few months. But probably would not have the outlook I have now. Lost friends, money, almost lost my job and lost my sanity for a short time. I have a better perspective about life and me though, so I guess it could be worse.
There are some minor mistakes I've made, but nothing that I want to erase. Sometimes is my arrogance and brutality stronger than calculations of my mind. 6 Months reduced in two years in probation have cooled down effectively my youthfully insane temperament.
Tell him that he's the only one I'll ever love and that I'll wait for him my entire life if I have to
I once, when quite young, voted for the Canadian Liberal Party.
They are much like the Democrats, mendacious, thieving, corrupt politicians.
Nothing, I'm shaped by my past experiences way more than most since I have some kind of addiction to learning from my past, which some of you might wanna pick up.
We cannot erase. We can just learn from them. Sometimes it's hard to break strings and come oút of emotional jail created by own.
Being more focused on school and more aggressive with finding a part-time job sooner. While also being more aggressive with dating in my 20s...
I would not.
as horrible as some of my past experiences have been I am the man I am today because of those experiences. To erase them would be to erase a part of myself.
All of them. If I could just live in the present like a dog I'd be very happy with that.
i wouldn't. cause even if it's shitty experiences, they still made you learn a lesson, which you might have to relearn, if you forget about the experience...
I wouldn’t. Every experience, even bad ones, make me who I am today
Certain guys I dated... including the one I almost married.
my second boyfriend, he was rubbish, towards me he had no feelings what so ever
New Years Eve 2010. I should have just stayed home but I got carried away and mistakes were made.
Said some very hurtful things, ended a few long term relationship, crashed a first car (sober)... just wasn’t my day.
Only one?
When my first girlfriend boke my heart on 17 December 1978.
That changed me, although it was also an education in female nature.
Nothing, and I’m not saying I didn’t make any mistakes, I honestly made a lot but I guess all the past experience has made me who I am now.
Tbh many ! But the most never been open and trust the wrong people
Nothing. Not one. To erase a past experience alters me.
Meeting my ex. That would make a few years a lot better
I wouldn't. Everything was a learning experience, even if I thought I was going to die at the time.
As much as i enjoyed being with my ex, I would be a little bit more caurtious and ask for proof.
My two exwives.
It would have saved me about $150,000.
Nothing. Here’s why...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/dZfGTL2PY3EI cheated on my then girlfriend with a total stranger.
My conception. Give one of those other eggs a chance. I’ve had enough fun.
I'd erase all the pain I've caused my friends and family. They don't deserve all the bullshit I've put them through
Getting married... I think I best take that back , I wouldn't have my 2 teens.
Last three years but it helped me to be a better person so idrk.
Probably me being a dick to some people. Most of the time it was warranted but I could've handled things differently.
I would of told my mother no I will not go on a pity date with the messed up Italian girl
Meeting an idiot teenager girl, who ruined my 2 years of life.
Going back to my cheating, lying sorry excuse of an ex
The pain of having to fight for visitation and against ridiculously high child support... rather then actually raising my daughter.
Being molested by my mom’s best friend when I was 6 duh
YES A HUGE REGRET I DID NOT TELL THE LOVE OF MY LIFE HOW I FELT ABOUT HERE. SO MISSED OUT ON A WONDERFUL PERSON. ON A BRIGHT NOTE WE ARE BEST FRIENDS
I got arrested for Indecent exposure when I was 18. It was a one-off and insane thing to do and I have regretted it ever since.
Hanging up during his call and never calling him back that day :(
skipping the summer during my time at GED-that would radically change my life.
Non of them even though painful or even sometimes traumatic they make the person I'm now.
Not going with my exs cos all they wanted was money
A bullying incident from an adult male teacher when I was about 10 years old. Changed my whole life.
I won't erase it because it made me a better person, I've learn from my mistakes.
Losing my virginity before marriage
Being raped and then made into a sex puppet for many dozens of guys over the fall semester when I was 21.
My 13th and 14th bday parties.
I don’t want to say because I don’t want these people to believe they have upset me
Literally, most of it.
Elementary school years.
My first 20 years. All of it.
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