Boyfriend rude to me when half asleep?

[Anonymous]

Whenever my boyfriend is sleepy or I wake him up he is always rude to me and I don't know why! He doesn't even remember it over half the time...Like he is still asleep. Should I be worried or should I just chalk it up to being grumpy and half asleep?

[LaPetiteMimi]

my boyfriend does that too less than before but it's normal! As everyone else has said it all comes down to the basics of being woken up while peacefully sleeping

But, I do get where you're coming from, the first time you can take it to heart (when been sworn at or spoken in not such a nice manner or aggressive etc) but then they explain and it gets easier to deal with it!

I, personally do a little test to find out if he's more asleep than awake...simple math problem! like 7x7 if he's half asleep he just grumbles, but if he's more awake he'll reply :)

then I know whether to leave him or (if it's sorta important) I can wake him

Hope this helps

[fall4you]

Do you hear what you are saying?! You wake him up... I'm a very sh*tty person when somebody wakes me up. Whether is be I'm just going to bed or be woken up in the morning. Sleep is the only peaceful time in my life and I don't get much of it. Him being rude is natural.

[Amb-iguous]

You're freaking over nothing, I'm the queen of the half-asleep grumpy and I really don't mean anything by it.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Even before I finished reading, I figure it sounded like he was just grouchy or grumpy, because he's trying to get some sleep, and anything disturbing that is just making him cranky. So yeah, I'd chalk it up to him just needing a nap. Let him sleep. Try not to take it personally. Sure it kinda sucks, but I'm pretty sure that it's just him wanting to sleep.

[sage-of-caring]

I am not a morning person, if I am woken up from a good sleep I will chop off heads regardless of who it is. I had to try really hard not to yell at an ex who would wake me up a lot when I was sleeping really good. I loved the hell out of her but I have no love for anyone when I am half asleep.

[Diggin4ducks]

Why are you waking him up in the first place? It’s rude to bug him and I would view that as needy and a red flag if I were him! Its context, if he’s overslept and has to get to work and you wake him, fine…but if you’re waking him for your own neediness huh…I’d be way grumpy! Let the poor man sleep!

[Mushroom1234]

You’re actually a total as* wtf…. y’all are grown! You should be able to handle being woken up as an adult. You can give your opinions without being rude for one. Secondly it’s rude to act like that even if someone woke up you up. Oh no you had to go back to sleep it’s the end of the world. It’s a red flag that you can only be woken up if it’s for your own benefit. The world doesn’t revolve around you sleeping. Y’all need to be more mature fr.

[phonezoo]

Try waking him up with a BJ or sex lol that will hopefully get his grumpiness to go away. I HATE being woken up by people but usually I don't get up on time if they don't

[FreeLeave]

when a man is sleepy or hungry feed him/let him sleep or a different man will come out ... let me tell you hahaha