My boyfriend gets mad if I fall asleep without telling him first what should I do?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and most of our relationship has been long distance, when we started dating I had little to do all day because it was nearly summer and I didn’t have a job so I could stay up all night texting him. I never been the routine type of person I don’t have a set bedtime or regimen before bed and now that I’m back in college full time and working I find myself just falling asleep more often without warning, and this really upsets my boyfriend because he feels as if I should send him a text or warning every time I fall asleep, I’ve tried that and I've tried to explain to him that I have a hard time warning him because most of the time I just doze off and I wake up a few hours later to passive aggressive text from him saying that he doesn’t understand why I just fall asleep like that. I don’t want to invalidate his feelings about this but at the same time I wish he would be more understanding that I get extremely tired sometimes. I’m frustrated because this has been an ongoing battle between us for the past few months, how do we come to a middle ground?
My boyfriend gets mad if I fall asleep without telling him first what should I do?
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