Do you ladies like it when us guys sweet-talk to you?

[JohnnyTheBoy]

Do you ladies like it when us guys sweet-talk to you?

[DishLady]

Yes, definitely. I was just telling one of my friends that I'm with a guy who is SO kind and generous, but he's also very crass with his comments/compliments. There's no finesse or sweet-talking; his approach is so harsh. Meanwhile another guy I know is full of hot air and comes across as completely fake when he sweet-talks a girl (so all girls tend to flee in general).

The key is to say something that's complimentary but not over the top. If you're making a comment about how attractive/sexy she is, make sure you're saying it in a tasteful way, especially if you're out in public or she's all dressed up. If you're sweet-talking her in a more intimate setting, then the kid gloves come off, along with everything else, obviously, but that's an explanation that goes beyond the PG-13 stuff I'm able and willing to post, haha.

Be well and happy sweet-talking. :-)

[JohnnyTheBoy]

My mom's side of the family is crass..emotionally constipated, and my dad's side is full of sweet-talkers...more emotionally expressive. I consider myself somewhere in the middle. I use compliments sparingly but meaningfully...it seems that this gets the best results, because people will listen to what you have to say, regardless of what their expectations may be.

[DishLady]

Yes, this is certainly true of anyone worth knowing. Some people just sort of blather, and that's not attractive at all.

[Grace00007]

It depends on how well you know them. Generally, when a guy who I don't know tries doing that, I feel like he's only doing it because he thinks he can get me really easily, which makes me feel kind of bad. I probably wouldn't go for a guy who does that, honestly.

However, if I already know them and they sound like they're being sincere, I feel all warm and fuzzy inside and it's very nice. But, again, if they sound fake, I don't feel like much of a prize.

[JohnnyTheBoy]

It's good that you realize that about yourself. It's also important to keep in mind though that some people will compliment you freely by nature, regardless of how well you know them. That being said, you can generally tell if they are being sincere or not.

[Anonymous]

If its genuine, yes. When a guy sweet-talks and compliments me ALL the time, I start to dislike it and question his sincerity. I would still accept it and say thank you, but I would like it if a guy complimented me when it's more spontaneous, and I'm not expecting it or can guess what he's going to say next. I still want a guy to sweet-talk me, but if it's all the time, it feels like its a routine for him, and I start to get a bit bored of it to be honest. Or it can be uncomfortable because you have to keep responding to it and it can be a bit tiring.

[Purplelove010]

I would only like it for two reasons

1. You are extremely good-looking

2. If you really mean what you say

[JohnnyTheBoy]

1. see my profile pic

2. wow you look gorgeous, like a young mariah carey

:-) :-) :-) gotta have a little fun with this, but still great answer, no one likes an empty compliment

[Purplelove010]

What about this pic?

[JohnnyTheBoy]

Either you are her baby sister or you are pulling my leg :-)

[kholland65]

I think #1 is a general rule for all things female. Just about anything goes as long as she thinks you are attractive.

[sikoo31]

so compliments from ugly-average looking guys don't count?

[Purplelove010]

Yeah I would love the compliment, but it wouldn't make me interested in the guy unless I really knew what type of person he is (like maybe he is an aquaintance or friend of mine). If I don't really know him & he is not good-looking then, most likely I will not feel attracted to him.

[Anonymous]

It depends on what type of girl your tryin to arrtract, like personally I find it funny when a guys sweet talking a girl, not cause I think he's a weirdo because, it takes guts for someone to be that forward, but it honestly depends on the girl your trying to attract :)

[Alexias]

Sweet-talking reminds me of the Sims, I obviously play too much Sims, but it would be cute providing the guy isn't being creepy about it.

[sikoo31]

well, I've never gotten a bad reaction from it, and I've done it a lot, like, a LOT.

[JohnnyTheBoy]

Well aren't you just a ray of sunshine in the lives of women everywhere :-)

[sikoo31]

i'm a flirt haha

[emma1993]

yes providing you aren't a player or a creep :)

[JohnnyTheBoy]

...or both !

:-)

[emma1993]

haha or both, funny you should say that I was thinking of that when I typed this answer! bet you're nice though, so yeah girls love to be sweet talked :) I know I do!

[txcos20]

i ditto what @purplelove010 said! haha

[rawrawr]

lol yes :) well at least I do :)

[EmiryPeach]

I love it