If a girl allows you to kiss her does it means she likes you?

[Anonymous]

Would you allow a guy to kiss you out of politeness? or do you have to be attracted to the guy?

I met a girl and she is very down to earth and is 22 I'm 25 problem is I have never had a girlfriend so I'm a shy guy and I'm very slow for making moves... I have known her for 3 months and taken her out on 9 dates and until last night on our 9th date I held her hand on the way to the car and kissed her when I dropped her off which she leaned in and kissed me back... when I got home she texted me "thx for the kiss your so great!"

But after that we didn't really texted at all today only in the morning... after I kissed her and got home I expressed my feelings for her through text and told her I hope that our feelings are mutual and she didn't say it back...

When we go out she always taps my hand or my leg and lays her head on my shoulder and was OK with me holding her hand last night and allowed me to kiss her... yet I feel confused?

What should I do now? back off and let her have some space?

Should I kiss her every time I pick her up and drop her off?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated I feel like I'm falling for this girl and just want to do things right

[Yaoi-Anime-Fangirl1]

Letting a guy kiss you, doesn't mean for sure that you like him. I've had guys kiss me and I allowed them and I wasn't interested at all.

But I don't fully see it that way in your situation. She may just be thinking a lot about the kiss and how she feels about it and such, since she seems to have shown some interest with laying her head on your shoulder. You can ask her why she isn't responding to you, or how she feels about you but I think you should try waiting a day or so before asking, giving her time to think and also see if she will text you herself.

Hope my advice helped in some way.

[tonicandgin]

I would prefer the guy ask for the kiss and not ignore me when I say no. I wasn't into this guy at all but he was so pushy and barged into my room. I figured it would move things along if I went along with the kiss. I'm a naturally good kisser apparently but, MY GOD it took all my willpower not to hurl in his mouth. Especially when he licked my lips like a dog back and forth to get them "less dry".

[hopelesslylost]

I wouldn't let him kiss me unless I liked him and was attracted to him. A lot of people are at least a little afraid of commitment. When you take things so slowly, then after your first kiss tell her how you feel she might be freaking out about commitment.

[Anonymous]

I don't wanna be rude, but don't confuse things, I went though the same things your going thru, and at last I got hurt, the girl only kissed me because she felt she had to, not because she wanted too. So you should talk seriously with the girl and see what she says and thinks..

[Asker]

How many dates did you go on with her for her to feel she had to?

See sometimes I feel the same mainly because I have showered her with lots of gifts...

But then all the girls here are saying that no girl would have gone on 10 dates with me if she wasn't into me ;(

[Opinion Owner]

Ive gone out with her on dates probabaly at least 20 times, but after like the 8th time I asked her out and she said no, that if I wanted her I had to wait bk she only kissed me bk I was real nice and I gave her many many gifts as well, and treated her very good...and I've tried asking her many times after that and she still won't say yes to me, but I can't let her go now I'm way in love with her

[Asker]

How often should I ask her out by the way without coming off as needy or desperate? We went out to dinner 2 nights ago and I already feel like seeing her again -_-;

[Opinion Owner]

dont rely on me as I am not he best source you cn find, but its up to you depending on how much you love her or like her...I know exactly how you feel, I miss my girl all the time too, and I am really distracted and with headaches all the time of all the thinking...but if you really like her, keep trying is all I can say..good luck

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Usually it means she at least just likes you, be it platonically or romantically. Contrapositively, if she doesn’t like you, she most likely won’t let you kiss her.

[thegirlnextdoorxx]

Don't ever tell a girl your feelings for her. Ever.

You can express your feelings through being reliable, through giving her attention, through helping her out.. but not through words.

It still scares some people off, she may feel confronted with her own feelings for you (she may not be very attracted or something) or feel like you expect some kind of commitment. Maybe she's not ready for it.

[Asker]

so what should I do now? just wait for her to text me? give her some space?

i totally get what your saying I really regretted letting my emotions get out when I told her how I felt and she didn't say it back... but I guess what's done is done I just hope I don't scare her off...

[camoshier]

That's ridiculous. You absolutely can tell a girl how you feel.

[Anonymous]

honey, youve been on 9 dates! NO GIRL would stick around for those many dates if she didn't like you, nor would she let you kiss her AND text you the same night and tell you how great the kiss was. she LIKES you, and I think she's waiting for you to make the next move.

[Asker]

What is my next move? girl advise please lol... what should I do now after I got this kiss out of the way? how should I handle my dates from now on? do I kiss her every time I pick her up and drop her off now? I know that yesterday she was gonna go out with this guy who has been her friend for 6 years and he's married to her friend... I feel jealous of any guy I think it's natural but I didn't tell her... she didn't text me at all yesterday

[Opinion Owner]

I would just go with the flow and do what feels natural. I think you should be romantic and buy her some flowers or just one rose on the next date, that would be really romantic! Yes I think as long as she is giving off vibes (like leaning on you etc) then yes kiss her at the end of every date.

[Valkyria]

Ehh that sounds weird. On the lips? I know certain cultures do that but if she isn't from any of those then it just sounds incredibly romantic. If someone kissed me I'd just assume we're already going out and I missed the words somewhere along the line. I don't know anyone who'd kiss someone on the lips that weren't dating.

[grnylw51]

personally I wouldn't let a guy kiss me if I wasn't interested in him because I believe id be leading him on and that's wrong so I'm pretty sure she's interested and look at how many dates uve been on that's gotta mean something!

[123forevergirls]

I think she definitely likes you but probably doesn't want to seem too keen. Just go with the flow. Go with your intuition, if it feels right to text or kiss her, then do it. No harm in texting her again and kissing her, just don't do it every minute haha. Good luck!

[Fracky]

That girl is deeply in love with you. Just carry on. Life has taught me one thing, I have learned to live in the moment and I have been very happy lately. Just date her without any expectations, things would unfold naturally with time. Majority of people ruin their relationship moments by starting to expect a lot from their partners, like marriage, home and others. Just keep it real and live in the moment. Let every single moment with her count. You will be the happiest

[Pinay_ako]

Kissing on the mouth is very personal to me. So if I don’t like you, you ain’t getting nowhere these juicy lips 👄 😂

[Anonymous]

[Stevefiveo]

You should keep kissing her. She will let you know if she wants to stop.

[exitseven]

Either that or she lost a bet.

[xxdanielxx]

certainly let you kiss her if you love you 'means

[Sweety_Torneeya]

No may be she wants to taste you