Do you prefer brains or brawn?

[JohnnyTheBoy]

I like (and strive for) both as I'm sure most of you do, but when it comes down to it what kind of people do you usually go for?

[Anonymous]

Brains!

If a man doesn't stimulate me intellectually, I tend to get bored.

I adore long conversations, about anything - and when someone really gets me going where I'm literally excited to say the next thing, it's a wonderful feeling - and makes them incredibly sexy to me.

In fact, some men I've met, thought they were just okay in the looks department, but after a few really good conversations, I could look at him and see the sexiest man in the world. It's happened several times.

Smart is sexy :-)

[JohnnyTheBoy]

your such a cute little nerd :-)

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks - you brawny brain :-)

haha

[caligirl3]

OMG I'm gonna say it, brawns ofcourse, cause I have met a lot of smart people and they were all so boring and serious all the time, when people joked around they didn't get it and quickly changed the subject to the nobel price winners or how a submarine works. I like to be around people I can talk about everything with and I feel and I feel brawny people are a lot more easy going unless fitness is all they can talk about then I don't want anyone of them.

[JohnnyTheBoy]

some of the nicest (and smartest) people I know I've met at the gym :-)

[caligirl3]

yea, its just a stereotype that people that workout a lot are shallow and dumb

[Ogasmic]

I have never met an intelligent person without a sense of humour. I get the impression you like those centre of attention, flip their cocks out and do the helicopter in the middle of the party type of guys

[brettb]

Those guys rock out with their **** out, nothing wrong with that haha

[JohnnyTheBoy]

@ ogasmic: wow, didn't know there was a name for that movie!

[caligirl3]

ogasmic, yea I love guys that can be funny and are outgoing, but being fun and outgoing has nothing to di with being a man whore or a flasher. those guys that would do a helicopter I call creepy. The people I have met that was smart was really boring and they were a little socially inept.

[JohnnyTheBoy]

...i meant move, not movie

*facepalm*

[lollipanda]

Brains, by far. Physical strength is nice (though I'm not big on lots of muscle usually), but I find it significantly easier to overlook a person's body than to overlook their intelligence. If I can talk to you - like really talk to you, about everything - and feel challenged by you and connected to you, I can overlook almost anything else, within reason.

[JohnnyTheBoy]

hey did you see that American dad episode where Hayley (barely over 18) goes for Stan's boss (58+)... because he challenges her?

[lollipanda]

Yes. An age gap of 40 years would probably fall into my "almost" and "within reason" clauses :p

[Anonymous]

What's with girls admitting that they like muscles all of a sudden? It seems like whenever anybody asks a question about working out on this site, girls tend to say that they aren't into muscular guys.

[Anonymous]

link > link

[unsungzero]

whoa that dude looks like a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't see it.

[thisusername2]

I love both but I can't see intelligence from across the room so I have to vote brawn and I do love muscles but sometimes a less attractive guy will catch my attention with great conversation as long as he is still cute.

[jpinka]

i want to eat the brains!

because looks don't last forever lol now I'm not sayign I want some ugly f***ed up flavor flav look alike but you get my point lol

[Ogasmic]

Well I could date a skinny, intelligent man or a not so intelligent, sexy Thor look-alike but tbh the only thing that would turn me off about them would be if they were a cocky, arrogant twit. It doesn't matter if you don't have all the answers or if I'm the one opening the jar, if you're an a**hole I don't wanna know you

[Primrose]

Brawn is probably want attracts me first but brain is what gets me to stay.

[courtney06]

I'll go for the guy in your pic...just sayin..

[JohnnyTheBoy]

you know I'm gonna have to kiss you now...just saying

[Anonymous]

I can't stand brawn without brains. Obviously I would prefer both, but complete brawn isn't necessary

[LadyStark]

Brains, but I'm a big fan of brawn.

[Anonymous]

brains