If he leaves after sex (we've been dating for 3 months before having sex), does it mean he doesn't care?

[Anonymous]

If he leaves after sex (we've been dating for 3 months before having sex), does it mean he doesn't care about me?

This is the first time we had sex. He would stay and cuddle for about 2 hours. I saw him and his friends the next day after we had sex. He's nice, etc.

Yes it means he doesn't care about you

No id does not mean he doesn't care about you

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[Auraann]

I don't like it when guys do that . But it's funny my boyfriend of four years would sometimes go after it depends on what he's got to do .

The funny thing is a guy who we both knew it was just sex wanted to cuddle before he left lmao

Seriously you can't tell and it doesn't mean that . But I'd you don't like that you have to tell him before you let him do it again

[Stacyzee]

Yes, if a guy leaves directly after sex it means he got what he wanted and now he's leaving.

[toulouse]

i don't understand. he stayed and 'cuddled' so what do you mean by 'leave'?

[Asker]

Well, he didn't stay until like 7-9AM. He left around 4AM.

[toulouse]

why don't you just continue to see him.. see how I goes. what's the point of guessing ?

[Asker]

True, I'm gonna do that. I just wanted to ask it on here and get some opinions. :-)

[toulouse]

;-)

imo, nothing so far indicated he doesn't like you.

[helloyes]

i'm sorry but there s a very good chance he was in it just for sex. take the high road. pretend you don't care. maybe he ll call back. if not forget him. if he calls for sex though, tell him sorry I'm banging someone better.

[Asker]

Yea... before sex, we've been having dinners on weekends and lunches during the weekdays. We go to movies, I've met his friends, etc.

So we had sex 2 days ago. Yesterday I went out with him and his friends. Today he called and text for dinner, etc. I just thought it was odd that he would leave after cuddling for only 2 hours.

[helloyes]

wait um never mind what I said.. what was his excuse? he may have been busry. he stayed to cuddle for a while. He called, texted. Sounds like he's into you. but if it ever seems like his friends seem to laugh whenever they see you (b/c they know he banged you or w.e.) then that's a bad sign. so far sounds good though. if he s willing to introduce you to friends, its usually good. he wants to show you off. only problem is if he s showing you off to show his buddies that he screwed someone hot

[Asker]

Yea no bickering from his friends or anything.

[Asker]

And no excuse, I didn't ask him why or whatnot. I was okay about it because I wanted to shower, eat something, watch TV, etc.

I just wanted to know if it indicated that he did not have feelings.

We've dated for 3 months and all so it wasn't a one night stand.

[helloyes]

did he initiate meeting up after and texting and calling or did you initiate it? he may be staying for more sex. or he may like you. he probably likse you though. what type of guy is he and how bout his friends? do they seem like losers who are usually below your standards physically and socially? then he may be clinging just for sex. if he's better than you he likes you. if you're similar then not really sure but probably he s into you. be honest to yourself when judging his looks though

[Asker]

After sex we cuddled for like 2 hours. Then when we woke up, we had sex again. Then we cuddled for a bit more. Then he told me that he was going to the bars with his friends tonight and that I should join them.

I am probably a 8-9 on a 1-10 scale and he's probably a 7-8. He's a good looking, smart, PHD student. I graduated with a masters.

[helloyes]

he's not gonna leave. if you feel you're a littlebit more attractive than he is, he ll prob think you're a lot hotter than he is. he's not gonna wanna walk away from you. don't worry about it. just make sure you're not being used just for sex. don't have sex again for like at least a week.

[justme20]

he just wants the sex and that's all