What happens when the womanizer/bad boy get denied?

[Anonymous]

The guy that I use to getting every girl finally meets the girl he cannot have. How do you think he rejects? Feels? Opinions or theories on this?

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And how about when you reject him and he is still after you for 6 months or more

[Anonymous]

Womanizers tend to let girls slip through their fingers all the time. There's always another one on the way and five others he's juggling in the process. Why he's bothering you six months after? It's a game to him. He wants to see how stupid/gullible a girl really is. I knew a guy like this. We went out twice and the second time I got so upset with him for never initiating calls and for keeping me waiting an hour in the cold while he strolled around town texting other girls who he was planing to hang out with RIGHT AFTER OUR DATE. I told him off, of course. He's a jerk. Apparently he just told the guy who introduced us that he saw me someplace and tried to say hi but I passed right by him. Honestly? I don't even remember seeing him. Jerks are barely a blip on my radar. And why SHOULD I have seen him at all? He's nothing to me. That's exactly when the "game" gets good and he starts asking around and trying to show interest again. Logically, by then it should be TOO LATE and you should be with a guy who actually cares about you.

[Asker]

Yeah but I ignore him

[Anonymous]

The reason he's a womanizer is because a) he has enough attractive traits to keep a steady supply of women and b) he doesn't invest emotionally in the outcome. Even if he does pursue her harder, it's a game to test his limits, not because he's attracted to her personally.

I think that theory is just emotional reasoning to counteract our natural reproductive urge towards attractive people.

[Opinion Owner]

A womanizer often spends a lot of time on the same girl... You know why? Because he's getting laid somewhere else, so he can afford to waste time.

[cazza3]

He moves on the next but you'll probably remain as a conquest until he gets sick of it. Some guys love the chase and the more difficult the better. Its like guys/girls going after someone eho's married/in long term relationship, its to prove (to who god knows) that they can pull anyone and that they're the sh*t, a massive ego boost really, that is all any conquest is.

[Anonymous]

You wouldn't be the first and won't be the last. They don't take rejection too personally. They'll move on to the next chick. I know girls like to think that they are so unique and special and that it would have to hurt that kind of guy if you reject him, but in actuality you're just a girl and there's many more to be had.

[dan123z4]

I pretty much never got rejected until 2 weeks ago by a giants game at the talegate party. I just thought not all girls like the same type of guy wtvr she's not into me who cares. It didn't bother me at all. Why should it. The same way I'm not attracted to every girl they're not attracted to every guy

[Konnour]

His ego gets bumped quite hard, when you're not used to rejections it's gonna feel like a splash of cold water.

But eventually he's gonna move on - because the reason he approaches is not because he wants HER, but because he wants another ego boost.

[bwrd830]

Guys like that strike out a lot more than you realize. The difference is that they're not intimidated by rejection and move on to the next. It's a way of thinking that a lot of guys don't do but I gaurentee that if every guy had this thought process, there would be a lot of guys like this. As much as I wanted to be one, I have realized that I just want one special person who can love me in ways others can't.

[Prof_Don]

Most of the time, this dudes brushes her off, because he knows there are MANY girls that will want him.

So that rejection won't be that big of a deal. He may be shocked being told "no" when he's usually told "yes", but that feeling will only last for about one minute.

In short, he's content he will get another girl, so he's not gonna be "frazzled" and chase her more.

[artfullyliving]

Different ways. He doesn't have to show you. What do you think a guy is? A piece of wood or a steel post or something. Men have feelings. What's you fascination at his rejection anyway? Is that neat to you or something?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Cowboy5]

Oh, they just keep moving on. They know it is a numbers game, and may try to hit on 10 to 20 different girls per day. They know their chance at success is around 5%.

[Looner]

He's probably not too upset about it knowing he can just easily move onto another girl. Shy guys such as myself usually take rejection a lot more personally.

[Asker]

Awhhhh

[azndolly]

frustrated more than anything since he isn't used to getting what he wants, like anyone in the world he'll move on obviously but it'll dent his ego

[PhilaPenn]

The truth is...that guy who gets every girl he wants...get's every girl he wants. He doesn't get rejected.

[coolguy1989]

He moves on, he's probably a little hurt, but he'll move on to a new girl

[coolguy1989]

We won't know if he's just after your sex or not unless he tells you he likes you or not...Honestly, I would just move on from the guy

[Anonymous]

My friend Rufilin never allows for rejection.

The end.

[Anonymous]

self esteem gets hurts may resort to some bad means or sit down and curse his potentials

[Anonymous]

They like that because everyone likes a challenge :) Easy girls are boring

[Crazyfuncat]

He goes on to the next girl, doesn't really care.

[Anonymous]

He shrugs and moves on. That's it.

[Dionysos]

Next!

[parkway]

The word is "Next"