It depends on if said person is inside of a relationship or not. If its a random man and random woman, strangers essentially, or even friends, Its not bad.
If however you're married to each-other it can eventually be very bad.
One guaranteed fact though. Women rarely if ever face rejection by men, it just doesn't happen very often. You should look up videos on when "Female best friends" run a tinder page on the behalf of their male friend, and by day two, it ends up with her crying and feeling like absolute garbage because unlike women, even when men match on things like tender, we get rejected anyway. Statistically the women on any dating site are only after the top 1% of men. It leads to a dichotomy where men just dont want to try any more, and you end up with MGTOW and INCELS. Its a vicious cycle. And by the way, this is not all women, just 100% of them on dating sites. Its why you have scary stats that say 65% of men just aren't interested in dating any more, and just 40% of women age 18 to 40 aren't in relationships or married. Unrealistic expectations cause things like the US Birth rate falling below sustainability for the first time ever in our history about 5 years ago, and it continues to drop. This is the fault of both men and women, and Social media.
If you're married though, rejecting the man you're with can be bad. Not like if you reject him once in a while, but when it becomes a trend. It causes men to start to lose that connection you share with him. It starts him thinking maybe he should look elsewhere. This is one of the biggest reasons men cheat, The other being that he is just a piece of shit and is going to cheat. Neither are acceptable excuses, but this is the reality of it.
For example. Say a wife rejects her husband for a solid month, No reason given, just rejects him over and over. That kind of thing is VERY psychologically damaging to him, It literally tells him that you're essentially just his room mate, because a lot of how a man expresses his feelings, his love, is physical. To turn that off, is essentially to smack him in the face. Its essentially abusive. Its why there are support groups for things called "Dead Bedrooms". When i first got with my wife, i told her that i would not live in a dead bedroom. I told her that i would absolutely do everything i could to keep her happy, as long as regular intimacy kept happening, barring sickness or psychological issues mind you, cause there is no way i would want to do anything if she were sick or something was really wrong. As a result i can count on one hand the number of times she has rejected me in the last 10 years. And its always been for a damn good reason. I've even rejected her, because of things like covid lol (only time i ever told her no is because i was so damn sick that i couldn't see straight).
Oh and to the anonymous dude that turned off comments? Dude really? Perhaps you should not be dating, you dont sound mature enough to be in an adult relationship to begin with.
The problem is he already liked her and wanted to have a relationship with her, if you have known for long and talked to each other for a while.
The point of rejection is not if its bad but when it becomes bad. Rejecting someones advance on a bar isn't bad but if you have been talking to each other for a while and reject him for asking you out on a date or wanting to get to know you better. He already made up his mind and that's when his feelings are hurt.
I'm not certain if I can give an example for women. But I will try. There is a guy you like, he's everything you want in a man, even asks you out and treats you well, you absolutely want to marry him. But he never actualy wants to marry you or even be your boyfriend but he gets everything from you, that he wants.
Leading someone on is bad and usualy if a man interacts with a woman in a certain way his goal is absolutely wanting to have a relationship with her. Its better to be clear from the start and reject him or say you will be friends but never more than that, then to basically lead him on only for you to reject him later on when he wants to have a relationship.
It's not bad when a woman rejects, a man, likewise it's not bad when a man rejects a woman. NOBODY has a right to my time, my attention, or especially my affection! Likewise, I do not have a right to a man's time, attention, or his affection either, and he has every right to reject me if I ask him for his number and he's not interested. That’s just life. Not everyone we like will be interested in us romantically.
Oh, and to the “Anonymous" coward, who not only hid his identity, but then refused to allow anyone to reply… I’ll take a point of personal privilege (In the parliamentary sense) And use this as a way for me to answer you:
SOMETIMES MEN MISREAD POLITENESS FOR SEXUAL INTEREST. Just because I look up and happen to make eye contact with (let's just say) you, and your smiling at me, so to be polite I smile back… that does not mean I am interested in you romantically! It usually means I’ve been yelled at or insulted for ignoring men smiling it me in the past! "there's no need to be a bitch! The least you could do is smile, you fckn’ bitch! It’s not a personal attack at you, I’m not saying “you're not good enough” I’m just not attracted to “you” (or whomever I said “No, but thanks for asking” to). So for you to think we risk possible violence to “play with men” as absurd on its face! Not everyone who smiles at you in passing, or talks to you because you, especially when you began the conversation in line at the coffee shop, wants to date you! Get over yourself!
(again, this is addressed to the "anonymous” user, who began his answer with “only 1 reason”.
I agree that "sometimes men misread politeness for sexual interest". Men can't read minds and will never know for sure if she's attracted to him or not.
How should men navigate this?
Should they never assume a woman is interested in them, always play it safe and never engage with a woman in this kind of scenario?
Should they wait for stronger signals, if so, what are those stronger signals and are they universal (applicable to every women always)?
Should he avoid interactions with women unless she explicitly tells him "I have sexual interest in you"?
Why not just tell them you're not interested and part ways? Instead of thinking the worst of them.
It’s not bad no matter what the order. Rejection happens pretty much everyday whether one realizes or not. The bus left you behind, that’s a form of rejection. Your pet refused to be petted by you, that’s rejection. Your phone call wasn’t answered, that’s also a form of rejection. It’s not at serious as people make it out to be.
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Yeah at the end of the day some people just aren’t meant to be. At least a respectful but pretty firm rejection you know you can move on and aren’t wasting your time on her.
There is honestly more risk that comes with a acceptation then there is rejection. Because sometimes there is the risk of being rejected later on, there is the risk of things not working, there is the risk of being used, cheated on, and the whole list goes on. That’s why I’m not really about dating anyone. Not really into online dating or cold approaches.
I think the problem is that he wants a girlfriend but he's single. That's what's really bothering him.
She will never know what she missed out on. 🙉🙊🙈
When a woman rejects a man, it's not inherently "bad" but can feel challenging due to societal expectations and emotional vulnerability. Rejection often stings because it touches on fears of inadequacy or failure, but it's a natural part of human interaction. Problems arise when rejection is seen as a personal attack rather than a healthy boundary. Some men may internalize it as a blow to their ego, leading to negative reactions or resentment. It's important to respect boundaries and understand that rejection isn't about worth—it's about compatibility, preference, and personal autonomy, all of which deserve mutual respect.
Well he also won't get to see her blossom when aroused, get that lovely sexual flush on her neck and cheeks. He won't get to see the enchanted beauty of a woman's arousal. Feel or taste her wetness, bring her to the edge of orgasm and retreat the tiniest bit until her back is arched into his face trying to get that tiny extra bit of friction that promises release. Finally he won't be able to experience the uniqueness of her orgasms as he brings an intensity she has not yet experienced until finally he feels her body shake with physical ecstasy as she momentarily forgets everything besides bliss. I better stop this before I need to take a cold shower
Only 1 reason.
Men generally do not hit on women unless the woman has sent him some sort of a message that she wants, or at the very least is open to being hit on. So 9 times out of 10 when a man approaches a woman and she rejects him. It's because she is just playing with him. Women go ape 💩 if a guy does this to them. So why on God's green earth do women feel this acceptable for them to do? Yet you ask the majority of women and they tell you straight up this is fair game.
That's why it's bad. Hope that helps you.🙂👍
The man should accept that she will never be interested and doesn’t owe him an explanation. It is not bad for her to do so.
Though I will say, I tried hinting to a classmate I wasn’t interested by always reminding them “we’re friends” in a kind tone…. Never clicked in and yeahhh…. Just be upfront about your true feelings though be nice like say it in a calm collected tone “I don’t want to be with you in a relationship, I don’t want that. I’m sorry, but that is how I am.”
Who said it was bad? Women still do it all the time. Clearly you do. Nothing wrong with that. I do it too. I've been doing it for almost 10 years now. At least something we both share in common, the single life is a peaceful one.
Because men say they’re tired of being rejected. But, they go on about how women are this and women are that. And I’m like, “Ok. Then what is the problem about you get rejected?”
Those men still think women are good people who don't have their own agendas.
And how much have they been proven wrong? How well did that go for them?
You should ask them. My opinion is it hasn't been working well for them at all but they sell love and affection so they keep it up. People like us don't. And they'll continue to attack us because we're not diving back into a corrupt process seeking something that is meant to be a good thing that has become corrupt
Still want love and affection*
You're missing the part that things don't end in disaster.
That they both approach the new relationship in good faith, find synergy and over time melt into each others arms, align their lives together, utilise the relative strengths of each, emotional, physical and financial support, joint conspirators against the world, and all else that may imply.
All of that promise is taken away at source by the up front ambivalence of someone saying no. I won't even try. Because reasons.
It's not bad. It's just a little embarrassing. If she's a bitch about it or if the guy responds in a way unbecoming of a man then their pride gets hurt a little.
But there's nothing wrong with rejection it's a part of life.
On a deeper level she's saying that you are not worth breeding and forwarding your progeny. Men nearly always initiate and it's like their efforts did not bear fruit. But men should totally not dwell on it and realize it's a volume's game.
There is not problem, and I don't consider it as bad. Rejection is normal and healthy, sadly, nowadays Men became a little soft when it comes to rejection.
What if he was "the one"... that would give her the child and life of her dreams? What if he was the one that would save her life? She turned down eternity.
Its not? I dont really understand where you are going with this 🤔 if the woman isn't interested, she shouldn't have to buckle and give in just because.
From what I’ve been told by men is that they take rejection as a blow to their egos.. it equates to “I’m not good enough”. It usually only affects the men who have low self esteem and low self worth.
Rejection is bad for the person getting rejected. You express love for someone and that person says no. That's why it's a problem. For the person who confessed, that is.
There's nothing bad about it. Some people just get their feelings hurt by rejection. It's not healthy in my opinion. It's completely out of your control whether someone rejects you or not. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you.
is it?
none that I see.
Rejection is just part of life.
Women reject men, men reject women.
That's a broad statement. Have you heard about gold diggers? And why can't a girlfriend cheat on a boyfriend?
Is there any context you can add to this question? If its the simple question that you asked then no its not "Bad". There are ways a woman can reject a man that could be "bad" but in general its not.
I've been rejected so many times I'm kinda used to it by now.
It isn't bad. I prefer her to give a straight "Not interested." if she isn't.
Yeah all women should give them sex and women should lay their baby in the water so they can be free feeding under the river
Its not bad per se but people don't want to get disappointed.
Its not like women want to get rejected either.
If I said no I’m not interested, I meant it. provoke me with this type of shit again then they will be maced
I've never had a girl say yes in real life. All my dates were met from an online platform.
Number one reason I'd say is he's not getting any sex
Believe me, most men are use to it and don't let it bother them
because it kills his confidence its just not necessary for women to be so mean
Because according to JD Vances world view women are like couches, if they aren't things for men to try to procreate with, they have no purpose.
Women should always reject men. If they can't handle it, they aren't man enough.
Is that right? If it only that were true.
How about, it isn't. Why is that bad?
Way to generalize!
People hate rejection plain and simple.
Sasha, WAKE UP, it is not too late
Hey, I’m just pointing out what men have been saying about women. Talk to them, not me 🤷♀️
Pointless gender wars online won't get us anywhere Sasha!
Again, I’m just repeating what men say 🤷♀️
There are 4 billion men in this world Sasha, what percent of that would the few hundreds of men online from whom you heard this from make?
Its like saying you're not worthy
Who ever said it was bad
Men have an ego as fragile as an egg.
Women who reject me are whores
Are they actual whores or just women who have no interest?
Because a woman can reject if she’s not truly not interested.
it breaks de heart
Not sure anyone sees it as a problem. . .
Men have huge ego's
because he values a woman more than himself
I don't know 😶
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