What does your a great guy mean?

[Anonymous]

My friend texted me saying how she was sad lonely and tired. That she gave her boyfriend a promise ring. She said I'm going to be faithful to him or someone else. Then she went to saying how she wants to chill. But I didn't want to. She then texts me out the blue and said your a great Guy. What does that mean?

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What is a great Guy?

[DanAG]

Sounds like she's sending mixed signals. I usually think of "you're a great guy" as friend zone, someone to talk to, someone to tell all her problems to. She also seems to be sending vague hints that she's not satisfied with her bf...and maybe looking for a replacement? Maybe you? Very vague there, so don't want to read too much into it.

Ask her straight out what she wants. Ask her straight out if she is looking to you as possibly more than friends. Straight non-judgmental talk never hurts. Two adults should be able to talk straight to make things clear, without it affecting their relationships. It's lack of talk that causes problems.

[Asker]

When she drunk she told me she had feelings and she also went off on her boyfriend because she not happy about how he treat her. She said when she drunk she say how she feel.

[DanAG]

Then you need to talk to her when she's not drunk. Just communicate instead of beating around the bush. Make sure things are clear. You need to decide *IF* she wants something more with you, is that also what you want too. Currently she has a boyfriend so she's not available. *IF* she's serious and if you are also, she needs to break it off with her current boyfriend first. Ideally there should be some time in between, but that doesn't always happen. For now you just need honest talk...when she's sober.

[Racez]

You're a great guy. That's it, and means nothing more anything than that.

[Asker]

What's a great Guy?

[Racez]

You're someone who's she's happy to be around with, just like a good brother.

[dsc2222]

It means "my boyfriend is being a jerk and I'm tired of being on an emotional roller coaster with him. You are a really good guy who I don't think would treat me thay way. Maybe not all guys act like jerks." It's a way of saying "thanks for not being a douche."

A great guy for me at least is one who is honest, cares for others, makes me feel good when I'm around him, gives freely of his time, and is there for me when the chips are down.

Hope this helps!

[Asker]

It does it sounds like me.