How do I get my boyfriend to buy me more expensive stuff?

[UrGfWantsMe]

I'm not with him just for the money I almost kinda like him. He does buy me stuff but I'm kinda greedy hehe. Like last week he bought me earnings and sometimes he pays my rent. And today he bought me flowers and a necklace for 8 March. But my friends boyfriends both her a CAR! And he buys her really expectant gifts like really expensive and her boyfriend doesn't have more money then mine. Mine has more then hers that's what's bothering. So how do I get him to buy me more expensive stuff? I'm just pissed that my friend gets more expensive stuff then me and my boyfriend makes more them hers. P.S we've been dating for 3 mounts.

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Guy please need advice my friend (who got a car) is making fun of me and bragging how her boyfriend has more money!

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My friend posted a picture of her car on FB and tagged me on it just to make me jealous this is seriously hurting my feelings!

[VoiceOfReason]

Actually this is the type of female that really turns my stomach. You kinda like him, sometimes he pays your rent, he bought you earrings, flowers and a necklace, but it still isn't enough. Now you want a car.

First off, if you're not really into him emotionally, then WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM? Or should I ask how fast will you leave him when the well runs dry?

Secondly, it seems he's been more than generous with the gifts you received already. Maybe it's time you reciprocate by showing your appreciation and buying him some expensive gifts. Real relationships works both ways.

Additionally, if you so badly desire a car, what's wrong with you going out there and buying it yourself? Do you have gainful employment? If so, is there a reason why your money isn't acceptable and doesn't spend, while everyone else's does?

Furthermore, a relationship is NOT a competition to be waged with all your girlfriends to see who can be the biggest GOLD DIGGER in your group. It is about feelings, emotions, compatibility, chemistry. So what your girlfriend's boyfriend bought her a car. Maybe their relationship is far more serious than yours or maybe he's a lot more gullible than your "so called boyfriend". You can't gauge the value of a relationship on material things.

It's women like you that have a lot of guys totally shell shocked and mistrusting of females, which is NOT FAIR to the females who are GENUINELY LOOKING FOR A MAN TO LOVE and who loves her.

Personally you really need to reassess what's really important to you and what you really want in life. You might be coming up gold and roses now, but trust me, once you get a few more birthdays behind you and you find yourself alone without someone to love, you are going o look back and wish you approached life and dating differently.

FINALLY: I know you're not my woman, thank God for that! But if you were, I would dump your ungrateful a$$ so fast, the speed of light will seem like a snail in speed comparison. You want a car. I hope that if he's stupid enough to stay with someone like you, he will be smart enough to go to Toys R Us and get you a matchbox car.

[Esq37]

At the end of the day I know your wife isn’t getting anything expensive from you so I just feel bad for her

[shumailkazimi]

are you using him ...as your profile says your there for money..though I liked your attitude of being Honest and true but that's bad you know and I condemn it ...That guy doesn't know He is wasting his money to get nothing...no love ..no care wow...if you want expensive stuffs and wealth is everything that counts for you , dnt fool other guys like this...work hard for it and earn it yourself...Worth It!...Money is not everything in this world...Believe Me...Good Characters lasts forever...

Remember What Goes around comes around

Maybe you will fall victim for such traps int he near future... so just dnt do it Be Genuine! Be Loyal!

[Anonymous]

are you sure you're with him for the right reasons? I don't think you should be focusing on what your friends get from their boyfriends. I think a relationship should have more value than the gifts you get from him. you said you're not with him just for the money, but it kind of sounds like it! you even said yourself you "almost kinda like him".

you should appreciate what he does for you- paying your rent and buying you earrings is pretty generous in my opinion when you guys have only been going out for three months. maybe if you two date long term he will want to buy you expensive things, but make sure you reciprocate it and show him you appreciate him. There isn't much depth to a relationship based on a guy buying things for you...

[UrGfWantsMe]

I though so too. Like if I date him longer that he will trust me more and buy me m ore expesive things but my friend only dated her boyfriend for 5 mounts and she got a CAR. Like I think I deserve a car too you know. I'm kinda jealous

[Opinion Owner]

every relationship is different. you can't use your friend's relationship to determine when you "should" be getting a gift or not. I get you're jealous, but you have to be realistic. I doubt you're going to get what you want from this guy by not reciprocating any appreciation for what he does

[hairydudesrock]

He's a human being not a cash dispenser!! If you want expensive stuff then get off your ass and buy it yourself, and here's a thought for you. How about YOU surprise HIM with an expensive gift now and again? You're a gold digger which in my eyes makes you no better than a hooker. Using sex to gain profit. Grow the hell up and be self sufficient rather than leeching off of men.

[Prettygurl12]

You're an idiot.

1. It is NOT his job to buy you stuff. It is YOUR job to buy you stuff.

2. You're shallow.

3. Three months means nothing!

4. You're not pretty enough to merit him buying you things.

Have a nice day.

[Michaelmwm19]

Your amazing.

[Lj238]

Good answer

[RasmusAiken]

There aren't words to express the wretched feelings your question stirs in me.

[Mumble]

Exactly what I was thinking

[UrGfWantsMe]

Why is it the spelling? I'm sorry I saw my spelling errors I was just too lazy to correct them

[finallyfabulous]

Thank you so much for giving women a bad name. Maybe if you weren't just using him and did nice things for him like take him on dates and buy him gifts, he'd be more likely to buy you "expensive" things. I hope he gets some sense knocked into him soon and he dumps your spoiled, gold-digging, bitch ass.

[UrGfWantsMe]

xoxxo

[UrGfWantsMe]

you're welcome honey. Thanks for the tip you're the only one that helped me here, I will buy him something cheap that looks good and he will think that I care about him tnx.

[finallyfabulous]

If he is as rich as you claim he is he'll be able to tell that it's a cheap piece of sh*t like you. Whatever if you both are happy being used by each other then all the power to you and I'll be happy that you're happy.

[Deathcabforcutie]

Wow you are by far the most superficial girl I've ever heard of. You don't go into relationship for these reasons. Money wars between you and your friend? That's sad. This is not true happiness and I assure you this isn't a good lifestyle. When you grow old and "unattractive" then what will you do with such a rotten sentiment? This is like the epitome of gold digger right here!

[aMuse]

Give him piles of your own money to shop with. Other then that kill yourself and do us all a favor. You might get an expensive coffin out of it and flowers even. =O

[aMuse]

We're making fun of you as well.

[aMuse]

Good go cry

[blackrose21]

Oh, your one of those people. You should seriously be happy with what he gets you no matter the price. Who cares if people show their stuff off to you. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

''I'm not with ,im JUST for the money, I ALMOST KINDA LIKE HIM.''...WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU...your dating him for the money... you ALMOST KINDA LIKE HIM WTF... why be with someone you don't like damn your shallow...that guy should dump you.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn its women like you,...that diminish hope for us men,... diminish means demolish,... oh yeah you don't know what that means,...either...you can't even spell...

[UrGfWantsMe]

Yeah I saw my spelling errors but I was too lazy to correct them

[Opinion Owner]

You don't care if you hurt him or break his heart do you? you should be up front and tell him your only with him for money...your like a prostitute basically... classy woman right here fella's great catch...lol.

[kheserthorpe]

He's not going to buy you a car unless he needs your p**** to be mobile. If your apartment is convenient that's it.

[Anonymous]

Why the attitude? What do you have that makes you deserving of expensive things? Girls like you make me never ever want to date again.

[UrGfWantsMe]

Well I put up with him and spend time with him I think I deserve to get something in return. And I don't have an attitude why the hate?

[Opinion Owner]

Big deal! That's called "a relationship". If you term it such way, maybe you should gold-dig somewhere else. He should reward you for spending time with him? Get real.

[Anonymous]

Wait a minute...so you're 25 years old and can't even provide rent for yourself? So you find some poor shmuck to do it for you instead being a real woman with ambition? I bet you feel great about yourself.

[MartinMarsh]

You lie! Your profile says your with him for the money.

[MartinMarsh]

This is definitely a troll account lol

[MartinMarsh]

kudos for getting all these people worked up tho

[SimpleShyGirl]

You don't. Just. Don't. The best thing you could do it break it off nicely and let him find someone who actually loves him.

[Anonymous]

What ugly and disgusting behavior. He deserves way better.

[Anonymous]

Let him tie you up and f*** you hardcore all night long, every night. Or allow him to have a threesome with you and your girlfriend.

[Mumble]

I feel sorry for your boyfriend. Honestly.

[UrGfWantsMe]

Why? I think I'm quite catch :D and I'm really nice to him and I treat him good

[Koldhearted]

Trust me when I say this sweetheart, you're no catch.

[Michaelmwm19]

Im afraid it looks that way, @Koldhearted...you should switch usernames with her.

[Mumble]

First of all, you don't even like him. You only think of how expensive gifts he gives you, and expects him to give you a car! And you're incredible greedy.

That's not what I would define as being "a catch".

You're selfish and shallow.

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[UrGfWantsMe]

Well no need to be rude!

[Anonymous]

Make him feel appreciated. In the end you'll be bought what he thinks you deserve.

[PrionIndigo]

You fucking kidding me? WHen you gonna treat him and buy HIM stuff for putting up with YOU?

[AamuYami]

You're either a troll or really brave :D

[Deathcabforcutie]

Clever clever!

[Anonymous]

Very wonderful response. Couldn't have said it better.

[MAJ4251]

...Really?

[UrGfWantsMe]

...?

[Anonymous]

Are you an escort?

[aMuse]

lol, if it was a real situation I'd bet she is, or she's being set up for human trafficking and will be shipped out to another country to be a used in the sex trade.

[UrGfWantsMe]

WOW that's a little harsh don't you think. I'm not a bad person

[aMuse]

No not harsh at all. It's actually really common to put a girl in an apartment/owned property when she's one of your ho's. A number of escort services/pimps do this because they get a return on their investment.

[Anonymous]

Karma is a bitch - marks my words!