If you haven't heard from a guy in 5 days does it mean he is not interested?

[Anonymous]

Been out with him a handful of times, last time on Friday. After the date before I initiated conversation so I figured I'd let him do it this time, but I still haven't heard from him.

Our last date wa cooking, I thought it went quite well. We never kissed though just hugged last time.

Does this imply he isn't interested anymore? Should I message him again?

[uzernaam]

Unfortunately, there's no rule or advice that can be given here. People play too many games, and try to out-think each other or stubbornly stick to ridiculous plans.

The question is, are YOU interested in HIM?

If so, and you haven't heard from him, give the jerk a call and don't make a big deal out of it.

[Asker]

i did message him, he actually replied the next day but it just seemed kinda cold. That may just be in my head though

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily.

[yauch]

well, its definitely a warning sign. He may keep things going for a while at that rate but I would expect things to end soon enough. Interested guys just don't wait around like that.

[sassygirl123]

um maybe he's waiting for you to contact him. contact him again and if he keeps ignoring you then he's probably not intreasted. have you asked him of he was intreasted?

[Asker]

no, I haven't yet altough I was certainley thinking about it because he often takes ages to reply. Haven't found the courage yet

[sassygirl123]

ok:) the only way to know is just contact him and ask if he's intreasted in getting together for dinner and in that time while your at dinner avoid txting and all that just look him in the eye and ask him straight forward all your questions like.. why does it take so long for you to reply? are you intreasted in dating me? and just all your conserns. you get more answers out of someone when your face to face and you get to see thier reactions too! if he doesn't reply back to getting up for dinner

[Asker]

I know it would make sense to ask but I'm not really sure if I can

[sassygirl123]

ok well just try to contact him and if he doesn't then I would say he's not intreasted :/ just don't waste your time on someone who doesn't feel the same you know?

[helloworld14]

I would message him but after 2 weeks = no longer interested. You might have to hint here and there.