She stole my boyfriend and I want him back.

[Anonymous]

this girl came into the scene a year back, and now she's bitched about me to my guy, fed him lies god knows what. and she stole him, and I didn't even do anything to be at the recieving end of this shizz. I need my boy back. I love him too much. what do I do?

[VoiceOfReason]

First off, if he was so easily willing to leave you for her based on whatever she said, it was because of a couple reasons. One of those reasons perhaps is he is not strong in his own convictions and was too readily willing to believe what was said without questioning you about it or demanding proof from her. Secondly, maybe he wasn't really happy with you and she provided the easy out.

Either way, why would you want a guy like that back. Basically, he appears a bit spineless in the sense that he didn't even come to you to question whatever rumors he heard. If he can't stand up for his woman and give her benefit of the doubt then you really shouldn't want him and you definitely don't need him.

I realize you're deeply attached to him emotionally, but that won't help matters much in terms of possibly getting him back. It is a known fact that no matter how bad that one may want a relationship, if the other doesn't want it, then the relationship will ultimately fail.

My suggestion is to have that last long good cry and detach from him emotionally. Seek the support of your family and friends to help you get through this, give yourself time to heal and then look for a guy who will be more supportive and respectful of you to the point that he won't so easily be willing to take someone else word as a conviction without considering your side or demanding proof of such allegations. As bad as I hate to tell you this, but if he left that easily, then you never really had him and trust me you're much better off without him.

[5T3V3]

i agree with what these two guys have said: it sounds to me like you deserve better, and if he can be tempted by a cheap skank like this other sounds to be, he'd had left sooner or later anyway. to have the capacity to love someone so deeply really is an amazing thing, please don't let this excuse for a man take it away from you.

all the best for the future-enjoy it :)

[katkaintkwit]

dont be pathetic. you're better than that. don't show them that you want him back because its gonna blow her head up and he's gonna go through life thinkin he's some hot commodity. move on

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Ok, here's the thing. People can't be "stolen". They can be tempted - but in the end, he made the choice to hook up with her. Have some self-respect and don't lower yourself to having to be with a guy who would dump you the first time a piece of ass came by.

[evenlift]

That's a terrible situation to be in. But no one owns anyone else. She didn't steal him. He made the choice to be with her.

You need to forget about him, hold your head high, and open yourself to the possibility of meeting someone new, someone who actually deserves you.

[Anonymous]

If he's willing to leave you for another girl, you need a new guy. Respect yourself!

[temptationfalls]

Don't. Find another guy.