Guys be honest, does my crush thinks I'm a stupid clown? And a pathetic person?

[Anonymous]

So I've known this guy for 6 months and I really like him, we are always teasing and insulting each other but I know he cares for me. The thing is he is always laughing of everything I say, I mean I know I'm kind of funny but even my friend said that he laughs to much about the stuff I say. Then every time he sees me he starts smiling even when he tries to hide it or control himself. He must think I'm pretty stupid or something I have a felling that when he sees me and smile he thinks "here comes the ridiculous girl this is going to be fun"

p.s He said I was really beautiful but that was before really knowing me he never said it again he even tells me the opposite

[Anonymous]

I so get you. I'm like that with my buddy. We diss each other and talk so much about stupid stuff sometimes and there are days I purposely say something which would categorise me as a dumbass. I feel stupid sometimes if it wasn't meant to come out that way. We are just so close and comfortable with each other that I feel I could say anything. I think that your friend really likes your company. What started out as a liking to your attractiveness turned into a liking for your personality. I think if a girl can make a guy laugh so much, that's pretty cool. I feel proud to be able to do that with my friend. The only this is, we don't know if they see us as something more or like a best friend. I believe he likes you back that when he see you he can't help but smile because we all react positively when our eyes see something we like.

[AliceWonders2013]

Sounds like he's not so much into you as a person necessarily, but more the ego boost that your presence and words provide for him. Understandable, we all want to feel desired, but having to get someone drunk to do it, is sleezy. This boy needs to grow up.

I wouldn't be dating him if I were you, but to each their own. Every girl's gotta kiss one or several nasty immature frogs, before they find their prince.

[BlondChick93]

It sounds like he likes how you act when your drunk. He feels your a lot more fun to be around and that's obviously what he likes that personality of yours when your drunk. You just have to show him you can be that way without being drunk.

[Asker]

but I'm fun when I'm not drunk he said I'm hilarious the only thing I do when I'm drunk that I won't do while sober is expose my feelings and show I like him

[Anonymous]

You're not really clown. He's always laughing because he wants you to feel important. He likes you as well.

[Anonymous]

It seems like you show your good side to him when you're drunk.