Does the location of your first kiss matter?

[Anonymous]

I've never kissed a girl before, but my new girlfriend is pretty experienced. She knows I've never kissed anyone and she wants my first kiss to be special.

There's this park around half an hour away from where I live that has this really nice hiking trail that opens up to a bunch of power lines and has a bench on this hill overlooking a river. It's really beautiful and majestic, and I have always pictured it being where I would have my first kiss.

Here's the problem: I can't drive, and neither can she. So I would need to get a ride from my parents or her parents, which would obviously be awkward either way. So I have no actual means of getting there. The only times I ever see her are in school, but I don't want my first kiss to be in a classroom or a stairwell or something!

So what do I do? Suck it up and ask my parents to drive me and my girlfriend to a secluded park? :/ Or suck it up and kiss her in a stairwell? O.o

For the record, she said she doesn't care either way. She wants our first kiss to be special, and she really cares about my sentimentalism, so she doesn't mind if she has to wait to have our first kiss. But we only have a few months left together before we go off to different colleges!

So here's my question: do you have any other suggested methods of getting up there? Or should I just give in and have my first kiss somewhere less special? Seriously, is the location of my first kiss that important? Please help! Thanks a bunch for reading! :)

Updates

+1 y

We got a friend to drive us up there with his girlfriend too. They went one way, we went another, and we made out on the bench, and it was super. :-}

[SteelyMcBeam]

I just had my first kiss about a month ago or so. It sounds like she is more interested in taking your first kiss than you are in giving her it...

She drove me to the station for the last train. Before getting out of the car I finally braved-up and went for a direct, open-mouthed kiss instead of the usual kiss on the cheek. She was a little confused because she started to turn her head but I went straight for it. I was only just going for open-mouth -the tongue was her idea!

Anyway, it wasn't exactly the most romantic thing in the world: sitting in a car in front of a station trying to catch the last train just after midnight on April Fools Day, 2013 -but it was unexpected and somewhat unforgettable. It was slightly awkward and must have lasted for 8-10 seconds with me sucking on her tongue and she biting my lips a little. Now that I have a few kisses worth of experience, I am going to try and make my next kisses feel more passionate.

ADVICE

Go for open-mouth and aim for a longer kiss than a short smooch. If you want to feel special have her kiss you, but if you want her to feel special surprise her and initiate it.

[martyfellow]

Having your parents bring you there would sure take the fun away from the first kiss,yes.

One of you must have a friend, or an older relative, who would be willing to drive you. Or, you coudl look into whether there is a public bus; most parks are accessbile by public transport. Sure that would be inconvenient since you'd have a schedule to meet to get back..

Of course, if it's special, it would be worth paying for a taxi, right? You're right not to want this to happen in some stairwell where people will probably see you..

[martyfellow]

UPDATE: Thanks for letting us know it worked out! \

Best Answer, then,?

[notsuperangel]

Actually the place isn't really a matter, as long you have your first kiss with a special girl for you, that's fine already cause it's not about the place, but about the person lol. you can have your first kiss anywhere. and it's good to know she don't mind to wait for your first kiss. anyway is that place is really far? if it's not really far you can go by train or taxi maybe?

[Lovelifeforever]

coming from experience your first kiss could be planned and it still won't madder sometimes it just happens

[Cricket74]

Mine was at 10. I had two best friends, both girls. One day while playing with both Sarah asked if I'd like to kiss! Duh! And she frenched me! Wow! After a long kiss I asked Rachel if shed like to kiss me, she said no. So Sarah and I spent the afternoon kissing until her mom came and took her home.

[HYPNOSEX]

well it depends on which lips your kissing mate, lol location is not the issue it is the kiss.

[curtloveseagles]

No the location doesn't matter and I'm 18 years old still waiting to have my first kiss 😥

[Anonymous]

It doesn't matter at all.

[martyfellow]

A long answer for Aercz, and especially silly; clearly wrong as well.

[Osetohanmen]

Well, that is such a super story

[guitar903]

no.