Married man at the gym?

[Anonymous]

I've been going to the gym every afternoon lately and I've noticed a guy there always at the same time as me. I've noticed him checking me out quite a bit which is totally fine but I noticed he wears a ring on his wedding finger spin assume he's married. He changed his routine so that he goes on the stationary bike at the same time as me (now at the end of his workout instead of beginning) and he always takes the bike right next to me even if all others are free. He usually gets off his bike right after I get off mine. He previously only did 10 minutes on bike but now stays on until I'm done which is almost half hour. Yesterday he left about 10 minutes before me. When I left and got into my car in the parking lot, I saw him pull out and drive right past me as tgough he had been waiting 10 minutes for me to come out (no idea why he would do this). I feel like this has gone beyond innocently checking me out and I want to discourage it because he is cute but married. Has any other girls experienced this? Should I change my gym time or something else? I realize this is just a bunch of small things on their own but it is noticeable and I don't feel comfortable

[unighted]

I think that the way you are managing this situation is really good, it speaks highly of you, other girls wouldn't care that the man is married. Breaking of a family is the worst thing you can do in my opinion.

You could act in two different ways, if you don't want to change your workout rutine just move to another bike when he comes to use the one next to you. Or whenever he looks at you just stare at him as if you were saying what the hell do you think you are doing?

[bubblecat]

If you can change your workout time you should or maybe even switch gyms if you can. This guy seems really creepy, especially because he is married but not only that because he isn't smart enough to just take off his wedding ring while working out if he's going to check out girls and he hasn't ever said one word to you. And even from a single guy, this behavior would be creepy because he hasn't spoken to you and waited in the parking lot for you to leave.

[sexyasianboi26]

You already know the answer to your question lol. Do you need confirmation? Yes he likes you, finds you attractive, and is probably thinking how you are in bed.

BUT he has no bad intentions. My guess is that he looks at you because it gives him motivation to workout. I mean honestly, I chose to drive 10 miles to my gym because of the good looking girls that workout there.

All in all, to each of his own, whatever floats on his boat lol

[ryanontario]

stuff like this is common at a lot of mixed gyms unfortuently , I'd say he might just be checking you cause he likes your body and nothing else . if he's married I can imagine him thinking anything is actually going to happen in real life , I'd just try and ignore him or switch bikes and move to another location if he comes and starts working out rate beside you , keep doing this till he gets the message

[User746283]

Married man here. I hit the gym about 6x a week and to me that’s just fucking weird. Red flags all around. I usually think of these situations like this. If that was my boy doing that to some lady at the gym, I would think of them very differently. Either have the guts to at least make conversation or don’t even try at all. Yeah he’s married and some men will notice a good looking woman, can’t help it being a man sometimes, but to go to all these lengths just to essentially almost stalk at the gym? No way, stay clear of that guy.

[ladsin]

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=TBvHbnhl3M8

this is all that its about

[bubblecat]

Do you work for BroScience? Because you've posted so many links to their videos I hope you're getting a cut of the money they make.

[ladsin]

... who knows...

[Glo58]

I had to change my workout time to avoid a married man staring and following me around the gym. Even when his wife was with him he did this stuff. Made me feel gross. Thankfully I haven't seen him since!!

[dudeman]

sounds like a rapist to me

[Anonymous]

Stay away

[Asker]

Well of course I know that. I have no intention of hooking up with a married man

[Applenuts]

Run! Stay away! :)