Husband all of a sudden wants to go to the gym?

[Anonymous]

My husband has always been on the heavier side from day one. He doesn’t have a faithful track record but we have gotten past that at least I thought so until he said he wants to go to the gym I could be over thinking it but why all of a sudden now your not happy with the weight it was out of nowhere and the man won’t even do manual yard work am I over thinking this

[jasco]

First off, there are many reasons why a man may want to be in better shape. Health: maybe a doctor told him to do so, jealousy: Seeing other men in better shape and looking happier to, His wife: He may simply want to be able to protect you and for you to be proud of him, confidence: He wants more of it, Boredom is also a reason. Then again you can always ask him why, not that you should have a problem with it though. it's his health and therefore he has the right to do what he wishes

[Iron_Man]

You probably think that he’s looking for a new girlfriend To have some fun with on the side. You probably better ask him real seriously what’s this all about

[Asker]

I actually said that to him that you have a wife who’s happy with how you look so who is he trying to impress he said he’s not happy with how he looks but he’s always look like he does now

[Iron_Man]

I knew he would say something like that anyway keep an eye out on him

[Asker]

There’s also the factor he has tried to see girls behind my back in the past and really don’t want to relive that

[Iron_Man]

Why be with him?

[midnightmoon05]

Go with him.
if he is all excited and wants you to join... nothing to worry about

[Asker]

That’s the thing he knows it’s impossible for me to go between work and kids I don’t even have time for myself let alone the gym

[midnightmoon05]

You have a bigger issue than him going to the gym...

[spartan55]

Why are still with him? You obviously don't trust him. This is what happens when you take back shitbag cheaters.

[boggboss]

Just because its sudden to you dont mean its not something he has not been thinking about

[scott04sa22]

Probably has a new wife coming to his life and she's probably already trying to program him for him to go to her now then you now.

[anylolone]

If he cheated before it ain't for cheating.
Probably age caught up to him.

[Anonymous]

he's cheating again or sees some bimbo there that he likes and has a crush on

[exitseven]

No, he is looking around.

[LostSmile]

Just stay aware of him in the change

[Luckycharms12]

What's to change

[Asker]

I don't know I don’t wanna over react but at the same time why the sudden interest

[Luckycharms12]

Well has he being interested in working out for a while or talked about it. Working out is hard bit after doing it makes you feel great. Or he could be playing away

[Asker]

Has never talked about it ever or shown any interest in it.

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe his worried about his health.

[Luckycharms12]

Could be playing away

[Asker]

He is one that does not worry about health in any way he actually makes fun of people who are

[Luckycharms12]

Oooh really that's very odd behaviour

[seanscoopers]

What's your problem