Guys: why are black women undatable to some?

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what could be some of the reasons or all ...if you have them

Married-in-PA · Accepted Answer

I so wish we could, as a nation, get past this issue...

Although I am married, I would date a black woman in a heartbeat, if I thought there was a connection. And that's true also for just about any woman, of any race, creed, religion, culture, etc.

I happen to find black women especially attractive because they tend to be "more comfotable" with their sexuality. I am about as white-bread as it gets, and I have noticed that the white women I have been with tend to be a little bit self-conscious, and not as confident. For instance, tell a white woman she's got a nice ass, and she thinks you're calling her "fat", tell a black girl the same thing, and she smiles ~ as long as you mean it. Otherwise, she smacks you. LOL

Still, it's a shame we still see things in terms of race and skin color. And the truth is, we ALL do. Wouldn't it be such a nice place, if we didn't?

TedStar · Accepted Answer

Numbers. Black women out number black men, but most black women prefer to date within their own race. Now the number mismatch is further hampered by black guys dating other races, other races not finding black girls attractive due to western ideals, some black guys are gay, stereotypes of black women (loud, highly opinionated etc) and black women having unrealistic standards. In most cases it is not that black women are undatable, but there are not enough men to go around. I mainly date black women and I can tell you that I have a wider choice to choose from then they do

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

this again, I have seen everything from cultural differences, which is totally understandable because I think many people want to date within their own culture or race and that is not just limited to black or not.

i have also seen particular complaints about black girls (on here) that they have too much of an attitude and are "crazy" or go ballistic over things. people also complain they are fat and trashy between their behavior and many children from different fathers.

personally, I think it depends on the individual. I know plenty of smart and classy black girls. I know thin black girls and heavy black girls. I know black girls who have a major attitude and not.

i honestly think it's more of a class and background issue than a race issue,

pickledxtofu · Accepted Answer

Black women are physically unattractive to white men Mira nothing personal

Somethngcreative · Answer

I would date a black woman in a heartbeat and nope I'm not black. The only reason I would not date one is because some of the ones I've met are either really loud/boisterous and they tend to want control of the relationship rather than letting the guy take the lead.

theblondeguy · Answer

i am unable to that outta my race I live in a black neighborhood and have women coming onto me constantly (its something about being tall and white I guess)

i just don't find them attractive I really don't even find like black supermodels or movie stars all tht hot either...

Anonymous · Answer

Of course there is straight racism. I do not think there is very much of that but it does exist.

Some have an issue with aesthetics including sizes colors and textures.

Some have an issue with social culture. there is such a thing as a "black attitude".

I have dated 5 black women over time and none of these issues were compelling.

wolf359 · Answer

Black features are not attractive in white cultures.

Most women in white cultures have long hair, whilst black women often have shorter hair

I don't think any race of women is inherently "uglier" (stupid thing to say IMO), but it's just that in white societies there standard is a white/Caucasian standard.

Longshot · Answer

Sometimes it's cultural. Sometimes it's a question of whether the guy would feel comfortable. I recently dated a black woman for a couple of months. It didn't work out for reasons other than race.

art84 · Answer

I think it's more of a race thing. Like Blacks will date other Black people. I would love to date a black girl as I am Hispanic and wouod love date outside my race.

Deviouscourage · Answer

As long as you have class with the same sense as humor as me. Anyone is "datable".

Anonymous · Answer

Most non black guys find them undatable because they aren't black. Black women greatly prefer black guys. Black guys find them undatable because they are mentally weak and now prefer white girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I know you asked this to the "guys." But I just really want to answer this question... It's because they like mainly "bad boys." Gangsta Faya.

sneakyfox123 · Answer

I'm black but don't date black women. Why? Cuz they have bad attitudes rude superficial and disrespectful. Not cuz looks but just not into their personality

Anonymous · Answer

All of the black women I work with are married, including a few coming from a slum area.

DutchAtheist · Answer

There aren't any where I live.

dolfan13 · Answer

Bc they can't pick anyone up to date. No game.

Anonymous · Answer

Skin color Stereotypes

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