Will he ever regret letting me go?

[ashley1996]

I am just wondering. I was a great girlfriend I did nothing wrong I was faithful we never fought and we had so so much in common. I didn't cheat or anything he had full assess to all passwords and social accounts and I gave him messages when he was in pain I mean I treated him like a king! He treated me like shit and let me go.. Everyone tells me he will regret it later in life. Will he? Did you ever screw something so good up and wish you could take it back? Did you treat someone great and then they left you and later wish they didn't?

[narc-slayer]

Its possible he may one day realized that he had someone good, but likely just in passing and let the thought go as quickly as it came. If you tried to make it work but just got disrespected, let it go as soon as possible because these kind of toxic people love knowing they affect your life, even after the relationship ends. He doesn't appreciate you and what you did for him, and never will. Put your energy into achieving the goals you have for yourself and don't let your ex take up your precious time.

[ashley1996]

Thank you very ugh I am trying to show him I am better then him and the best he will ever get I hope he just regrets it some day so he can feel my pain

[beehappy572]

Oh yes he probably will. Take great pleasure in knowing this. Now whether he shows it to you or not is a different story. He could be wise already and know that no matter how awsome the girlfriend, some people just are not meant for each other.

[ashley1996]

I really hope he does regret it . He really tore me up and I am still hurting but he's already had a new girlfriend, they broke up and he was talking too me again then all the sudden he stopped and now he's trying to get with another girl...

[beehappy572]

Sounds like my ex. Still wants me after six years yet still sleeping with whoever. Just awful. Repulsive rather. So with that said, do you still like him? Eeek I wouldn't..

[ashley1996]

I am not sure. I hate him for what he's doing to me but sadly he's the first guy I was really close and completely comfortable with

[beehappy572]

Oh OK I get it..it's part of being young. I suggest you have your guard up okay? Doesn't mean you have to stop loving/liking the guy..doesn't mean you have to go label things either..just enjoy the relationship for what it is. But word from the wise, please figure out what you want first before texting each other. Otherwise it becomes confusing.

[ashley1996]

I know what I want. He's the one who thinks he does the changes his mind it's very very confusing! I am putting a wall up

[beehappy572]

I recently had to block someones number simply due to the confusion. It doesn't mean I don't like the man, it was just invading my sense of calm. A wall is up and that is good, just don't fall for his antics. Good luck.

[ashley1996]

I will try my very best not to left h get to me and confuse me because right he's messing with my head and I am a big mess. Thank you I will try my best the wall is up and right not it's staying up

[beehappy572]

Good and forgiveness is important too, no annomosity whatsoever is the healthy approach. It always goes back to one thing...that some people just aren't compatible. Anyway glad you are doing the right thing. Commend you for that! Most people just seek instant gratification and don't listen! But this is for the better, for you, in your future. If you must, ask yourself, do I want to marry this person? If the answer is no, just do not even think twice and find other avenues. Best of luck to you :)

[ashley1996]

Thank you so much. It's all thanks to you :) but may I ask a question ? What if the answer is yes? You do want to marry them? What then? Just curious

[beehappy572]

No problem Then if the answer is yes, take initiative in not letting them fuck with you. Now this is just my personal belief, but I trust in God entirely that he has a plan for us all, our our story, in our own way. Give aaaallll your cares and questions to to the greater power. I feel untouchable with this belief because no matter if someone doesn't want me or not, I in no way take it personally and my faith anchors me. I notice the second we truly LET GO, it comes right back to us if its right

[ashley1996]

i love your outlook on life and its a great one. Thank you. remind me of the quote" If you love something let it go if it come back its yours if it doesn't then it never was" Thank you so much you have been a huge help :)

[Anonymous]

HE didn't deserve u... You should move on and when you do you won't give a sh** if he regrets it or not...

[ashley1996]

Thanks I am trying my best too