Guys, do you prefer to be called handsome or sexy?

Question

Does it make it a difference or do they mean the same thing to you? Which one do you prefer? Do you prefer to be called handsome or sexy?

Udbhav_Bantwal · Accepted Answer

They are definitely different... I would prefer to be called handsome rather than sexy from anyone if I'm in a relationship, I don't want to be projecting sex if I already have a girlfriend...

Shpongolia · Accepted Answer

I actually like both.  To me, handsome means I'm attractive, presentable, manly, and desirable. Sexy is a lot similar to handsome, but a little more extreme.

HaJar_5 · Accepted Answer

i prefer to call him handsome, sexy is compliment for girls

bubble_tea · Accepted Answer

My s/o says sexy is better. He doesn't know why.

Logorithim · Answer

I'd rather be handsome in general, but sexy to my girlfriend.

AviatorTom · Answer

Call me anything you want... just call me!

Jan_Classic · Answer

The compliments have zero value and cost nothing. More important is what people do, not what they say. So it doesn't really matter what they say about us. Like in the old joke:
- Moses, you know, what they say about you when you're not around?
- Abraham, when I am not around, they can even f.. ck me.

TheorionMage · Answer

SEXY...  because it means  some  characteristic evokes their interest to engage with you on  intimate physical  terms. The FIRST and  most fundamental and natural  survival drive is to pass on YOUR genes. The female predisposition to glamour and couture is to represent themself as 'desire'-able to solicit 'courtship'...

WannaPleaseMaGirl · Answer

Sexy feels more lustful and handsome for wifey. Depends on situation but sexy can boost confidence and handsome can show how much you like him and see attracted to him.

If I had to choose it would be sexy from. my girlfriend unless I'm well dressed then handsome is much better. In all cases handsome from other people.

BeMuse · Answer

I always found it found handsome funny... It's basically saying if you have a lot of money you are good looking... smh

1. (of a man) good-looking
2. (of a number, sum of money, or margin) substantial.

I'm sure you can come up with something better.

Anonymous · Answer

I hate being called "handsome" because, to me, it's not a genuine compliment. Especially coming from a woman in my age group who isn't related to me. I personally define that word as a sugar-coated way of saying "You're not ugly, but I'm still too good for you."

The only time "handsome" is appropriate is when a grown woman is referring to a 10 year-old kid wearing a suit with his hair slicked back.

Sexy, hot, and fine are the only true compliments a woman can give a man according to his looks, and those are the only ones I'll accept.

GingerGuy · Answer

Both are good to hear, however it depends on the person and they are definitely not the same. If you like me romantically, I want to hear sexy. If it's just a compliment, then handsome is better for that. While it's still nice to hear (we guys don't get a lot of compliments usually), I don't really think anything of handsome. Like, it would still be nice to hear sexy, but if you had no interest in me (because this will make me wonder), then don't say it.

nathanp97 · Answer

It depends on who is saying it and where. For example, if your mother says sexy 🤢🤮. Assuming you mean a partner, then I'd say it doesn't matter which one aslong as it isn't weird with other people around. For example, don't go meet his parents and refer to him as sexy.

emmily2396 · Answer

I would rather be called pretty (similar to handsome but for gurls, you know). Almost anyone can get sexy if they are naked... plus, being pretty is more general as sexy eould be a word only people who are sexually attracted to
your gender would use.

Ayer93 · Answer

There's just something about hearing a girl call me sexy that makes me feel really good and desireable. When they call me handsome it doesn't have the same effect. It's more of like a polite gesture when I'm dressed well. It never really hits home like sexy does.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Iv been called many things cute, hot, sexy, handsome, good looking I prefer handsome to be honest I am a formal old fashioned guy so it suits me. But for the most part I don't really care whatcha call me as long as you call me something lol.

DigitalArchon · Answer

both kind of mean the same thing but honestly prefer being called Handsome because Sexy is thrown around to much these days I think. Handsome is a more wholesome and classy compliment in my opinion.

Zefram · Answer

I dunno. They're both sort of equally good. I guess handsome really just cause it's sorta equivalent of beautiful or gorgeous for a woman so it implies less lusty emotions but sexy also works.

GreatBigCircles · Answer

Cute, attractive, neat... I dunno, handsome and sexy just feel like a bit much, but that might be my self-esteem speaking. I just like compliments that aren't just appearance based.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

From an SO I guess sexy, because handsome is what my parents or grandparents generation call me, so it feels more like a platonic term, and I'd rather have something a bit stronger than platonic from a wife.

Losalt · Answer

I'd prefer handsome in most contexts, in bed "sexy" might be more appealing however. As for the girl further down using "pretty"... Please don't...

xTom98 · Answer

I don't know, I kinda prefer sexy since its in a more teasing/flirting way. But Handsome is alone a nice compliment, reminds me of "Handsome Jack" (Character in my favorite Videogame).

godfatherfan · Answer

how could they be the same? they mean very different things? I would love either but that just doesn't happen. Women rarely complement men, though were are supposed to complement women nonstop.

devilman666 · Answer

Anything but "cute". "Cute" is almost never good as a man. Sexy seems a bit more sexually charged to me than handsome, which sounds more professional/classy, maybe that's just personal bias though.

SaltyBooze · Answer

dont make a diference to me. not even if i dont get called those things... i usually thank the person for the compliment, but i pretty much shrug at the thought.

BlahBlehBluh · Answer

I just want the villagers to stop throwing rocks and food at me. :'(

1234lulu · Answer

No I guess. They like it more when they are doing it and you say "wow, I love you and take " his name"

strateguy632 · Answer

when i hear handsome, i feel great but when i hear sexy, i dont think ever, even once happened, it just does not feel like me.

Anonymous · Answer

Handsome tells me she thinks I'm attractive but in a more proper manner and sexy is saying that she not only thinks I'm attractive but she's ready to go at it right here and right now. I'd rather be called sexy most of the time.

Burgerboy21 · Answer

To be honest, being called sexy would probably make me extremely uncomfortable unless done in private. But really, both are fine. I just don't want to be called 'cute.'

BCA6010 · Answer

I would probably be happier with handsome. "Sexy" is so over used that it practically comes across as small talk.

pumaOH24 · Answer

I don't mind being called either one as well as being called "honey", "dear" or "sweetheart/sweetie" by both my partner and others.

JustTheTrue · Answer

Both but handsome sounds more respectable and desirable and sexy sound like a high school girl commenting on one of my profile pic lol

Reatus · Answer

In general? Handsome. Because being called sexy (while flattering) would be a bit uncomfortable if it was just a random person or an acquaintance.
But if it was like a significant other, then it would be normal.

JDavid25 · Answer

I wouldn't mind both.. Although in the long run, handsome is the way to go.. Sexy seems like a temporary thing for some reason..

TripleAce · Answer

Handsome for sure  Sexy is good but handsome is a level above. It’s the ultimate. Handsome means he is cute sexy hot all of it

SapphireFox · Answer

I feel like a guy is handsome and can do things that are sexy.

Fiddleus · Answer

My mother called me handsome... So for the love of Satan anything other than that.

IUdude · Answer

Actually prefer cute, but always get handsome. Think sexy is better out of the two though.

StormRiderszz · Answer

Ha, i will always get shy and can't even speak when someone compliment me like that lol! Don't ask me why!

davidshaw · Answer

both are great, but sexy is just that little bit more

Fhamator · Answer

Just find your own way of calling the one you love/like and they will love it , my girlfriend just calls me cutie 😂😂

ironeddie · Answer

Either one is a compliment, and I really don't care which one is used. it's all good

Hamburgers · Answer

I hate being called "handsome." It's too safe, too formal. Just feels like courtesy more than anything emotional.

nasty4fun · Answer

Handsome is that you look good Sexy is I'd do ya.  Would you want your grandmother to think your sexy?  Hell no not me and if you do I don't judge but stay far away from me please.

Lucious22 · Answer

I always hear I’m handsome from girls that are friends, girls that I’ve had a thing with calls me sexy, I guess it’s about the relationship with the people around you

clampfan101 · Answer

Handsome atm. Sexy would be overwhelming. Not that I’d hate Sexy by any means. lol It’d just take quite some getting used to, especially with me disagreeing. lmao

Whitechocolate1001 · Answer

LMAO I've never been called either. But I have been called fat, ugly, stupid etc. Girls only call the good looking guys handsome or sexy us ugly guys don't hear those words.

AbdKilani · Answer

Why not both? But I would prefer handsome, sexy is more private and would be used in bed

Wowgirl10q · Answer

I can't have my man be prettier them me That wouldn't be ok

TinaSP · Answer

You can call them anything abd they still will wanna fudge you

Cool_Guy_17 · Answer

Sexy is if you want me in bed, handsome is nicer and makes me feel 😊

Prankster13 · Answer

YES I DO. Ya please call me handsome or sexy that would be great.

Evo6TommiMakinen · Answer

I prefer being called as ugly. Because I am not handsome, not even close. I want people to be honest to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh I’m one of those annoying girls that call guys pretty lol. I don't know if that’s weird but I asked the guy I’m talking to if it bothered him and he’s a little biased so he said I could call him whatever i wanted to...

rahul_24 · Answer

Both, sexy kinda goes towards bit sexual compared to handsome I think

tyrantfuryre · Answer

I don't mind being called handsome. Sexy I think should be left to describe women only, but that's just me. I really like when I'm called hot.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Its about your body. If i have my shirt off i think sexy makes more sense vs if im wearing a suit. Same with women. Sexy in a bikini but beautiful in a dress.

Mikey_Ramone · Answer

Don't call me by any of those above. Just say, Oh I admire for what and who you are Mikey.

Browneye57 · Answer

Genuine compliments are always appreciated. Just don't say things that make him seem feminine. ;)

TheSoundOfSilas · Answer

Whatever works. "Beautiful" is my favorite, however.

MisterAnon69 · Answer

I like both. Handsome to me means I’m rugged, sophisticated, attractive and sexy is a more extreme passionate term.

Anonymous · Answer

They mean different things to me, so I'd like both in their own appropriate situations.

Viktor001 · Answer

I don't mind to be called anything as long as both of us love, trust and care for each other.

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