Guys, Do You Prefer To Be Called Handsome OR Sexy?

Question

When you are receiving a compliment how do you want to be described? And yes... The orange and black color scheme was intentional🎃

InferiorElegy · Accepted Answer

I know it won't ever happen but I'd like for one day to be just walking about anywhere and just have some random girl approach me and tell me she thinks I'm handsome, attractive or even just a little bit good looking. I want it to be random and something she would feel she believes to be true, I wouldn't want anymore than just that.

If I could be called handsome once in my life by someone face to face where even I'd believe it, that would make my entire life worth something no matter how small.

I don't like hearing it from people who never have even seen my face, because it just feels like they are saying it out of pity.

I know I'm ugly and I've been called it my entire life but to have a random person who can actually see my face tell me, I'm handsome, would make me feel something at least.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Accepted Answer

I'm picking
other - again secret you never seem to have my choice sweetheart... see there's one you didn't put up another one is honey, sugar buger, baby if my girlfriend called my handsom or sexy I'd reach for my wallet and ask"how much do you need sweetheart"

igaveyouanickname · Answer

"Handsome" is what my mother and grandmother called me. Yuck.
Actually, I prefer a woman not compliment me on a physical attribute unless it's transactional because to be known for face, package, height, etc. comes off as insincere flattery trying to setup for other things.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably sexy, Handsome is so universal saying now that you can just say it to a male without having some or any sexual interest e. g your grandmother or an elderly woman but with sexy its more direct it get your point across as much would the Handsome to male and not so well universal if that makes any sense. I've been called fit, handsome, cute cute and he's my type and to be more direct in not so vulgar more pg saying i want you in my bed but being called sexy you know where you stand. hope that make any sense and help.

GreyWolf9000 · Answer

Well to me it depends on the person who calls me handsome or sexy... example
If a woman says I am handsome.. it might mean I am well dressed.. taken good care of myself... I am resentable.. more like formal and descent way of complimenting.

On the other hand when a woman says I am sexy... i might think she is interested in me sexually... because sexy word is more often used when we are attracted towards them and want them (sexually).

Massageman · Answer

I really have to get better at accepting compliments. I usually just try to brush them off and not make a big deal about them. i doubt that anyone would call me sexy except those ladies to whom I give erotic massages, but then it's the technique that is really arousing! Sexy is subjective.

MercuryG · Answer

Said both, but tbh if someone calls me sexy out of the blue without any prior interaction I'd be both complimented and a little creeped out.  Also thanks for replying to people's opinions, you rock!

derek2017 · Answer

I prefer handsome because it means beautiful while sexy just means lustful! Im not saying that being lustful isn't a good thing but it makes you feek kinf of objectified while being handsome just makes you feel awesome!!

A_Nihilist · Answer

I think handsome is more of a compliment than sexy.

Sexy is something that is called often through lust and want of that thing.

Handsome is something that has been admired enough to give that compliment. It's not so much as a fleeting gesture to get one another off.

AnthonyBelanger · Answer

both compliments are great, which man does not want to receive, but... I would like to be called "my love" by a very special woman I met on this site, she has eyes that cause a chill in my spine and the at the same time an uncontrollable heat in my chest

RJJ33666 · Answer

I would go with anything, I mean if a girl calls me crazy I would just say thank you for calling me crazy, Cause it might actually be true. But in all conclusion, anything works.

Draco1969 · Answer

I chose both. Each answer could be used in any given situation. Handsome could be nice just being friendly etc. Sexy? Well, that really just has one option leading to fun time.

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

Your mom or your grandma tells you you're handsome and a hot chick you'd want to notice you is going to call say you're sexy, cute, or good looking. All the above should be appreciated and taken in stride

triff · Answer

I suppose Sexy although Handsome is a bonus This would depend also depend on who was the complimentor If it's friends a partner it would probably be Handsome Colleagues it's more like sexy

Jjpayne · Answer

That's a tough question...  I'd lean towards handsome but I've never been called sexy before... It might actually be equal 🤔

MrOracle · Answer

I'm not handsome, but I hope that via my actions and attitudes that I can be sexy. Either way, I would rather hear nothing at all than a lie.

TonyV · Answer

Never been called sexy so that would be pretty awesome! Getting closer to it happening, 243lbs today, was 305lbs about a year and a half ago?

SjE78 · Answer

doesn't matter to me tbf, i've been called so many different things over the years i tend to respond to whatever i am called lol :) :) :D :P

though compliments i tend to have a difficult time accepting tbf

scuff1986 · Answer

I'm open to all compliments although I don't take them too well personally, would rather just be called by my nickname lol sad I know

Oboemaster27 · Answer

Handsome or cute work. It just makes me feel better about myself either way

Alan_Walker · Answer

I'll like to be called cute. But it isn't the option here. So I'll choose handsome.

jahaims · Answer

I feel like if I cleaned up for a date or a night out I would prefer handsome. If I'm working out, maybe fixing something around the house, or in the bedroom I'd prefer sexy.

NICE2 · Answer

I get Handsome all time, 🤷‍♂️ but fine with both. also it's about the way you dressed not just the face features, many things can be a factor like - clothe colors, hair style, body shape, the way you smell,
and many.

Magarmor64 · Answer

I’d go through this system I start with cute then handsome then hot and then sexy. Cause if your asking a girl out you should have your look start out small and simple so it wouldn’t show that you’re trying too hard.

Makeushiver · Answer

You may call me whatever you want. Just call though

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Handsome will be cool with me hahaha!!!

BeyondCuriosity · Answer

Sexy. Men aren't good looking, so if she says I'm handsome I know she's lying. We can however be sex objects, so sexy might actually be true. lol

jermaineatl · Answer

Depends on who's complimenting me and in what context lol. So when I find attractive can call me sexy, but other than that handsome is fine lol

Likes2drive · Answer

Usually handsome would be nice , sexy coming from the right person is good too but I haven’t heard either in a very long time

Feelicks · Answer

I would like to be called pretty or beautiful, exquisite.

Titanic1912 · Answer

I’d rather be called handsome. I’m not sexy, but I’m grateful if people called me handsome.

dutch69lover · Answer

I've been told by several women that I have a sexy smile, eyes, nice butt, and seductive ways

JPrez · Answer

I have typically gotten called handsome but on a couple of occasions been called sexy. I much prefer sexy.

chnapo · Answer

I would love to be called any of these, but as I never experienced either, cannot really tell.

cou82 · Answer

yea i feel like handsome and sexy is something to be sais for boys/younger guys

Irishtexan · Answer

Depends on the situation.  Handsome works when you’re being intimate.  Sexy works when your being naughty ;)

XantaToast · Answer

Honestly, being called handsome and sexy is pretty generic, go weird, surprise him and call him a Canadian Unified or something, it's not like a Scottish German but it's Irish enough to be a fancy tea party conversation starter :D

Snickermarstwix · Answer

I'm very shy so not that I don't like those compliments but I'm always very embarrassed when I hear them except from my friends. Tho deep inside I believe it's always nice... I'd say it really depends more on who you are to me than anything.

ijstwonder · Answer

I honestly feel kinda weird being called sexy, I don't know why. Maybe it's just hard to accept that when you don't have that picture of yourself. However, I would still appreciate the compliment so either is good for me.

Guanfei · Answer

Both. Or any compliment, I don't care. I'll take anything

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

With one is good for me I just don't like to be called cute

Anonymous · Answer

I'd say sexy. I get called handsome a lot, so to me, sexy is like an extra perk or unlocked level haha

the_sinner · Answer

No preferences but I hope the compliment would be genuine.

Samoht_Sirrom1 · Answer

Sexy it is more of a form of desire versus A physical description So definitely sexy

Strongballs34 · Answer

Wow your gifs.  I would like hand and some 🐱🐱 handsome 🙈🙈

Sampike11 · Answer

No preference either way, whatever people want to call me

gandolph3 · Answer

If anyone calls me handsome or sexy i ask them what they want

Louistruman19 · Answer

Anybody can be handsome. Not everybody can be sexy. The term sexy is lust driven. An ugly/average man who's well groomed and wearing a nice suit with cologne will be called handsome by women. It doesn't mean a woman wants to fuck him.

justaguy5612 · Answer

Both are nice. Any friendly comment is always welcome!

Rudon00 · Answer

Handsome when I'm in public spaces while being modest but sexy when I'm wearing no clothes and I'm confidently naked. if you do understand what I mean

TheAfrikan · Answer

I prefer to be called sexy, since not all of us have got that sex appeal high on the radar. And the word handsome is more of a common word.

andy530 · Answer

Both are flattering. I’d probably prefer Handsome though

CharlieDMX · Answer

No one calls me sexy, I do get called handsome. I really like them both

Ailaw22 · Answer

I think being called handsome sounds big compliment although all i get is cute mostly 😂

Marcuslrh · Answer

I am happy with either

Dargil · Answer

Neither. I can't lie.

xXHosaeXx · Answer

I prefer to be called daddy

The_Sal · Answer

Aren't they different?

naraku · Answer

She often rotates between the two. :)

rgw235 · Answer

I like both personally

RomanSahu · Answer

Would you mind if I ask you to call me Sexy? ;)

240771damog · Answer

I'm almost 50 I will take any compliment going

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