Guys, Do You Prefer To Be Called Handsome OR Sexy?

Question

When you are receiving a compliment how do you want to be described? And yes... The orange and black color scheme was intentional🎃

InferiorElegy · Accepted Answer

I know it won't ever happen but I'd like for one day to be just walking about anywhere and just have some random girl approach me and tell me she thinks I'm handsome, attractive or even just a little bit good looking. I want it to be random and something she would feel she believes to be true, I wouldn't want anymore than just that.

If I could be called handsome once in my life by someone face to face where even I'd believe it, that would make my entire life worth something no matter how small.

I don't like hearing it from people who never have even seen my face, because it just feels like they are saying it out of pity.

I know I'm ugly and I've been called it my entire life but to have a random person who can actually see my face tell me, I'm handsome, would make me feel something at least.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Accepted Answer

I'm picking
other - again secret you never seem to have my choice sweetheart... see there's one you didn't put up another one is honey, sugar buger, baby if my girlfriend called my handsom or sexy I'd reach for my wallet and ask"how much do you need sweetheart"

igaveyouanickname · Answer

"Handsome" is what my mother and grandmother called me. Yuck.
Actually, I prefer a woman not compliment me on a physical attribute unless it's transactional because to be known for face, package, height, etc. comes off as insincere flattery trying to setup for other things.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably sexy, Handsome is so universal saying now that you can just say it to a male without having some or any sexual interest e. g your grandmother or an elderly woman but with sexy its more direct it get your point across as much would the Handsome to male and not so well universal if that makes any sense. I've been called fit, handsome, cute cute and he's my type and to be more direct in not so vulgar more pg saying i want you in my bed but being called sexy you know where you stand. hope that make any sense and help.

GreyWolf9000 · Answer

Well to me it depends on the person who calls me handsome or sexy... example
If a woman says I am handsome.. it might mean I am well dressed.. taken good care of myself... I am resentable.. more like formal and descent way of complimenting.

On the other hand when a woman says I am sexy... i might think she is interested in me sexually... because sexy word is more often used when we are attracted towards them and want them (sexually).

Massageman · Answer

I really have to get better at accepting compliments. I usually just try to brush them off and not make a big deal about them. i doubt that anyone would call me sexy except those ladies to whom I give erotic massages, but then it's the technique that is really arousing! Sexy is subjective.

MercuryG · Answer

Said both, but tbh if someone calls me sexy out of the blue without any prior interaction I'd be both complimented and a little creeped out.  Also thanks for replying to people's opinions, you rock!

derek2017 · Answer

I prefer handsome because it means beautiful while sexy just means lustful! Im not saying that being lustful isn't a good thing but it makes you feek kinf of objectified while being handsome just makes you feel awesome!!

A_Nihilist · Answer

I think handsome is more of a compliment than sexy.

Sexy is something that is called often through lust and want of that thing.

Handsome is something that has been admired enough to give that compliment. It's not so much as a fleeting gesture to get one another off.

AnthonyBelanger · Answer

both compliments are great, which man does not want to receive, but... I would like to be called "my love" by a very special woman I met on this site, she has eyes that cause a chill in my spine and the at the same time an uncontrollable heat in my chest

RJJ33666 · Answer

I would go with anything, I mean if a girl calls me crazy I would just say thank you for calling me crazy, Cause it might actually be true. But in all conclusion, anything works.

Draco1969 · Answer

I chose both. Each answer could be used in any given situation. Handsome could be nice just being friendly etc. Sexy? Well, that really just has one option leading to fun time.

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

Your mom or your grandma tells you you're handsome and a hot chick you'd want to notice you is going to call say you're sexy, cute, or good looking. All the above should be appreciated and taken in stride

triff · Answer

I suppose Sexy although Handsome is a bonus This would depend also depend on who was the complimentor If it's friends a partner it would probably be Handsome Colleagues it's more like sexy

Jjpayne · Answer

That's a tough question...  I'd lean towards handsome but I've never been called sexy before... It might actually be equal 🤔

MrOracle · Answer

I'm not handsome, but I hope that via my actions and attitudes that I can be sexy. Either way, I would rather hear nothing at all than a lie.

TonyV · Answer

Never been called sexy so that would be pretty awesome! Getting closer to it happening, 243lbs today, was 305lbs about a year and a half ago?

SjE78 · Answer

doesn't matter to me tbf, i've been called so many different things over the years i tend to respond to whatever i am called lol :) :) :D :P

though compliments i tend to have a difficult time accepting tbf

scuff1986 · Answer

I'm open to all compliments although I don't take them too well personally, would rather just be called by my nickname lol sad I know

Oboemaster27 · Answer

Handsome or cute work. It just makes me feel better about myself either way

Alan_Walker · Answer

I'll like to be called cute. But it isn't the option here. So I'll choose handsome.

jahaims · Answer

I feel like if I cleaned up for a date or a night out I would prefer handsome. If I'm working out, maybe fixing something around the house, or in the bedroom I'd prefer sexy.

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